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Posted: 12 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: nikki1591


as opposed to what. ovi who drank while pregnant. seriously this is a joke. just bc ur a mother doesnt mean u have to be up your baby butt 24/7. do u also slam mothers who work and leave their child. or how about the father. do they not have an obligation to stay attatched at their babys hips bc its irresponsible as a parent. if pari gets sick, Gauri the doctor is even a better person to take care of then purvi bc she is a doctor!!!. even if purvi became mother teresa u would still criticize her. i dare u to go tell any real mother that they are irresponsible bc they left baby alone for a couple hours. lets see the answer u get

First of all, We are speaking of the present. No one had agreed with Ovi drinking while pregnant, you must be new to the forum. Also, after Ovi got Pari, she was never irresponsible like Purvi is now. Furthermore, I think you need to read my post again. I never mentioned that Purvi or any parent cannot go to work while someone takes care of Pari, nor did I say she cant leave her for a few hours. I was speaking in relation to the fact that she left her at night and turned off her cell. Do you know any parent who would leave their child with anyone, and turn off their phone, or not allow someone to at least reach them?

I made sure to state that Even if Gauri is a doctor and Pari got sick (hypothetically speaking) Wouldn't a Responsible Parent want to at least be aware of the fact that the child is sick?
I can bet you cant respond to me now. You would be in big trouble with Child Services, if you did what Purvi did. Go ahead and try that with your kid.
No one knows where Purvi went, are you Kidding me? Are you for real?

The circumstances under which Purvi left Pari is very irresponsible. Responsible Parenting POV.


Edited by dumppurvi - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#22

Originally posted by: nikki1591


oh for gods sake guari is a doctor. i think she would know how to take care of
an infant better than most people. she left the child for a few hours not weeks or even days
most new mothers allow others to take care of their child while they catch up on sleep or
go to work. is that also irresponsible? she needed time to herself. havent u ever wanted time
alone w/o worrying about others. or does becoming a mother not allow u to stew on your own
thoughts for a while. whats with this shaming of mothers for not being around their kid 24/7. i dont recall anyone shaming arjun when he left pari to go to work. so y purvi or anyone for that matter who leaves to
deal with their issues for a couple of hours.


then you all seem to have forgotten the lecture she gave Ovi when she left Pari , apparently pari needs her MOM all the time and should not be left even for a second
what happened to all that now 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: nikki1591


as opposed to what. ovi who drank while pregnant. seriously this is a joke. just bc ur a mother doesnt mean u have to be up your baby butt 24/7. do u also slam mothers who work and leave their child. or how about the father. do they not have an obligation to stay attatched at their babys hips bc its irresponsible as a parent. if pari gets sick, Gauri the doctor is even a better person to take care of then purvi bc she is a doctor!!!. even if purvi became mother teresa u would still criticize her. i dare u to go tell any real mother that they are irresponsible bc they left baby alone for a couple hours. lets see the answer u get


where did Ovi come from? 😆
this is the arvi baby, the current situation has nothing to do with ovi
her character is over 😆
and exactly, why not give pari to arjun to care for her?
gauri is apparently a doctor, but of what? what if pari is hungry and needs to be fed 😕
that was her excuse for breastfeeding pari right when ovi wasnt aroundd that she was hungry

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I can bet if Purvi beats Pari to death, Arvi fans, especially Purvi fans would still say she is a Responsible Parent...because Asha is playing Purvi right.😆
She can leave her baby Pari with someone the baby does not even know for more than a day, with her cell phone off and no one knows where she is...just because Asha is playing Purvi.

This forum is the best...weee...weee...🤣🤣 Everyday it gets more ridiculous...🤣🥳🤣
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Waneeka, she is not nursing the baby like Ovi was so Purvi can leave the baby with Gauri. Gauri is responsible and a doctor at that. Also being a mother doesn't mean you are tied to the baby 24/7. I wouldn't have lasted if that were the case :)) there should be no hue and cry about Purvi leaving Pari with Gauri for a bit while she clears her head. She was married to the man (Onir) and did trust him so when that trust is broken, it is a shock whether one loves that person or not. Plus she is not the one creating the scene, she came to the party with Onir, kept up the charade and even danced with him in order to avoid hurting her mother and having a showdown. The scene is being caused because her mother is worried about her and is looking high and low for her. Purvi has no idea that the D clan is even looking for her. As far as she knows, she is dead to them.


oh yeah i forgot about the nursing part, of course, you don't have to have the baby with you 24/7 but she already knew everything from before
she already knew she was cheated
then why leave pari unattended 😕
and why keep her with gauri
at least keep her with arjun

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Posted: 12 years ago
#26

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird


where did Ovi come from? 😆
this is the arvi baby, the current situation has nothing to do with ovi
her character is over 😆
and exactly, why not give pari to arjun to care for her?
gauri is apparently a doctor, but of what? what if pari is hungry and needs to be fed 😕
that was her excuse for breastfeeding pari right when ovi wasnt aroundd that she was hungry

😆 They claim to say Pari does not breast feed anymore..that was quick😆 Even so, what about her cell being turned off, and no one knows where she is , what sort of Mother does that?
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Posted: 12 years ago
#27

Originally posted by: naomihyuga

some people like creating scenes out of nothing unlike some who prefer to send some time alone n think further n make decisions


getting wet in the rain, switching off the phone, disappearing when you knew the truth from before isn't creating a scene
she knows her whole family is worrying for her but of course 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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LOL you really have all the time in the world to take out the smallest mistakes in either Arjun or Purvi. Stop whining all the time LOL..
Plus, Purvi has had a breakdown, shes not strong, shes a sensitive woman who cares about everyone but herself. She didnt want Pari to wet in the rain or to hurt her coz of her own lost whereabouts. I think its really sensible of her to leave Pari behind. 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I even wonder why your username is ilovedhanjanird 🤣 Ask the Mods aka Priya Nair to have it changed. Lmfao
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Oh yes only Purvi is allowed to have breakdowns not Ovi...this forum needs an Oscar for supporting bias when it comes to slackness in parenting and any behaviour for that matter.



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