Kool's Commentary 7 : 18 June PR :Mod note pg130 - Page 20

Kalapi, that is my problem with understanding purvi's character or her so called noble intentions.

You married this man, without checking on his background, bothering to ask about his past/family. You married him for your convenience. Nothing else. Post-marriage, you have given him nothing. Not love, not even a husband-status ( forget sex, even letting him share her bed), and not even dignity of a wife to him, by constantly hovering around ex. Instead, all she has done, is taken from him. Everything. She was overcome with joy that he stood by her in every bad situation. HE stayed put with her, even when her truths came out, one by one, in rude shocks to the man. But, she, did not stay to even hear his explanation out, forget staying by him despite his past.

So what is this drama all about? Why the fake tears? Why so much self-pity? For what?

Now, she says, " I am getting back what I gave Ovi. I am the reason for ovi;s unhappiness" or something to that effect. When you think to yourself, that you have caused someone unhappiness because of this man between you ( Arjun), then how can you EVER go back to the same man? Wouldnt you just close the chapter forever and move on. Away from all this?

Chalo, theek hai, she goes back because of her "pari" (who she seems to care two hoots about anyway), then she finds out Onir was really a messiah, without that past. Does she feel obligated to go back to him? Does she just cry her eyeballs out, tells him thank you and runs back to ex? Or does she say sorry to ex, and run back with a renewed love and respect for husband? Finally giving him pati ka darja?

Purvi, has time and again, showed this pendulum characteristic. She does not STAND up for she wants, instead takes the road that SHE thinks will be lauded by people. If this is not selfish, what is? She wants people to praise her, like her, accept her. But, if in the process, others lives get ruined, that is ok. So how does it make her any different from Ovi?

I know, all three are flawed. Arjun, actually, is not just flawed, he is simply a loser. I have no words for his character. He is like the donkey in the game between two people playing ball.

But, even if I consider Purvi;s intentions, her actions lead to destruction, So what is more important? And Even if Ovi's intentions are self-centered, her action of divorce, moving away and letting pari be with the bio parents, is more selfless than Purvi's action of still asking Arjun not to sign divorce papers despite the unhappiness it brings on him and ovi.

I would not fight so much against Purvi on this forum, if people did not act with blind love for her and accepted that intentions or not, what she does is outright wrong, and no normal person does this. I would also get the "selfish" claim on Ovi then. If the show was anywhere close to reality and the characters taken for what they are, instead of fandom and hero worship, then the right thing would be that all three have paid for their mistakes. but in the process, Ovi has realised she was wrong to want a man who did not love her. Arjun, would realise, that Purvi has treated him like 🤬, while Ovi has from being self-centered, gone on to really love him selflessly. Ovi would not take him back and both of them would simply get a divorce and move on. Onir would take a stand and tell Purvi that he has had enough of this garbage treatment. He would once and for all ask her to make a decision and stick to it by the guidelines. IF it is marriage with him, then she has to understand that marriage is not a compromose. Nibhao it. If you can't then move on and get a divorce. Purvi, would realise, that all her actions have brought unhappiness to herself and others. She would know that arjun and her love is beyond repair, too much has transpired and it makes no sense to again jump that valley, causing so many twisted relationships within the family. She probably has even grown out of that 3 months love. She decides to give her marriage with Onir a second chance and moves forward with him. Pari grows up with Purvi and Onir and Arjun visits her whenever, but as a family member, not as her father. It is too twisty to explain a child the intricacies of their relationship. No chidl wants to know, they were born out of wedlock and then the father went and married the so called maasi. Let Arjun be around, but let Onir be legal dad.

Ovi moves to Canada. Arjun moves on with his business, maybe finding a girl who could love him. Purvi goes back to Calcutta and re-starts her life with Onir. Maybe a couple of years down, Purvi and Ovi could have cordial relationship. And Archana and Manav can have the peace of having all their children in the right place.

But after all purvi has done and arjun has done, deeming their love as amar prem is so not plausible to me, that is why I never understand BS arguements.

The liar is boasting how she did not have sex with Onir, she should be ashamed to even say that when she willing had sex out of marriage in a shack at night and bring forth illegitimate baby. At least if she had sex with Onir, it would be done thinking she was married. What a loser.😒

She should not even mention that in her drama, this girl is shameless.

This girl priorities and perception of what is wrong or right are up her.🤬

What they show ? Makes no sense. All those times Onir spoke to them when alone...why the natak when purvi is not there? hahaahha...so they kept playing their parts even without the drama? hahaahhaha...

What are these weakling men yaar? Grow a pair man! Hogwash nonsense...Ek arjun who only sits and waits for directions, ek manav who only does " haan archu, meri archu, jo tum bolo archu" and now this onir who goes one step ahead, makes a full drama to give away his wife in charity to the ever waiting and salivating boytoy. hahahahahaahha..what is with the maker's disdain for ,manhood or asli mard? why these spineless, loser mix breed of men/women?

But, in light of this new twist, doesn't this make Purvi's character look so much more shallow? For not beleiving her devta pati and running to jeejaji..??? And if she does find out, then what? ahhaahha

Aishwarya knew whom to pick in HDDCS. But knowing purvi, she might flip a coin or something to choose. :P

Well Onir proved from the baby swap fiasco that he is a blinking idiot for Purvi, he has similar traits of Dumb Manav.

When Purvi offered him sex, he should have at least taken it for all his sacrifices, real idiot. No self respecting man would do what he did for heffa Purvi.

Purvi put her story nicely to Onir any way, just as how she put it nicely to Gauri. Onir thinks she is this decent saintly girl..🤢 real pukeworthy.

Well maybe he had so much drama because of this trick, that he would do or say anything to get rid of her.

Years of Med school gone down the drain and she can't even build a home, only destroy others homes.