Ovi has got be Ovi - Page 9

Originally posted by: sk11

All that could be done or Ovi could have to just given the child to teju or anyone else that was home at the time. It's all about POV. Isn't legally pari still the child of Arjun & Ovi at the moment as per records?

If I'm pretending to be still married to someone and what not like ovi situation, I would give the child to a family member. Instead of having flashbacks and getting angry while still holding the baby.

it was proved in court that Onir did swapping of the babies...then how Pari becomes legal kid of Arjun-Ovi...

as Ovi is going thru so much pain for Archu, it is family members responsibility to take care of Pari instead of blaming Ovi or asking Ovi to accept Arjun who is on detectivegiri to get back Purvi...

i am simply amazed at the fact that Purvi is not at all concerned about Pari's whereabouts when Arjun went for detectivegiri but people blame Ovi for hating pari as ArVi kid...people should appreciate Ovi for getting Pari to home when the bio-parents of Pari are careless...

Originally posted by: rayadallie

I guess everyone need to continue to pamper ovi as she is in so much pain. How will she learn to be good? veryone must understand her, no wonder she is the way she is.

What about purvi? i guess she deserves all the pain in the world for putting others happiness before hers. At least purvi will get some blessings for doing good but thanks to her that ovi will never understand what it means not to be selfish.

Ovi has no one to blame but herself. She bought arjun when he was committed to someone else. so this is what u get for forcing yourself on someone in the name of love. Like someone say all is fair in love and war

Purvi is not sacrificing anything for others happiness...she is just saving her kaands...she is just trying to save herself but portrays it as doing for other's happiness...

the true pain taker is Ovi...

Originally posted by: m_masti

after Deal, Ovi did announce in the first month anniversary Party that ArOvi wedding is not consummated and Arjun declared he loves only Purvi for lifetime...and Ovi told she will move-out from this...but Purvi knew she was pregnant of Arjun's baby but still forced/blackmailed Arjun to consummate with Ovi ...

so at the day of first month anniversary of ArOvi it was completely Purvi's mistake...Purvi set the bed of thorns for Ovi...

and then Arjun started living in a imaginary world with Purvi everyday infront of Ovi...it was Arjun who asked/begged Ovi for the second chance...this is Arjun's mistake...

these 2 mistakes of Arjun and Purvi were portrayed as Ovi's insecurities but the truth is Purvi wanted to keep her pregnancy as secret and Arjun was proving his love to Purvi by making Ovi pregnant...

and here you might point to Ovi's drinking in pregnancy...but it was all because of Arjun's parellel imaginary living with purvi...

once Onir made Ovi to feel that Arjun and Purvi moved-on in their respective lifes, Ovi stopped drinking and started taking care of so many things...this would have done by Arjun long back instead of blaming everything on Ovi infront of family...but Ovi never insulted Arjun like that...

still Purvi should have made things properly by not donating baby...donating the baby only made the truth to comeout...

so its completely Purvi's wrongs after ArOvi first month anniversary, and Arjun's mistake to make things worst in each situation...

even now Arjun says he is doing it for Purvi/Pari by doing detectivegiri...he hide everything from Ovi in every situation, he should have told Ovi that he is doing detectivegiri so need help to handle Pari but he just took advantage of situation...

and what Arjun is going to get by proving Onir as wrong...if making Onir as negative makes Arjun to initiate the divorce with Ovi then it is very wrong way to get married to Purvi...then why to ask Ovi to comeback to home if he is in the way to get married with Purvi...

Originally posted by: rayadallie

Lets just hope Ovi gets treatment for her condition before she ends up getting angry and killing pari and it will definitely be purvi's fault if that happens. I can just imagine the justification😭

well you have said all is fair in love and war...hope Ovi does that then amar premis will know their responsibility as parents...

Originally posted by: sk11

We've had this conversation before.

Will you ever say anything about Ovi without justifying her in every breath?

Ovi drinking because of Arjun's love for purvi?

Isn't ovi an adult? I'm sure she's perfectly capable to make adult decisions and drinking is her decision. This is how she deals. That's her. Purvi nor Arjun put a bottle to her lips.

Purvi set bed of thorns? Really? Seriously'? Purvi held Ovi's hand and tucked her in?

And everyone keeps saying oh making onir negative doesn't justify arvi reunion. Can anyone explain to me how was Arvis separation was justified after Arjun told ovi he can't be with her? After it was all sorted, arvi was going to marry then all the sudden CVs throw in a deal by Ovi outta left field.

Please, I appreciate your views but when you stop putting ovi on a pedestal, then talk to me because I blame all of them for their problems, not just Purvi or just Arjun or Ovi.

Edit: one more thing, what I remember is Purvi being shown she's pregnant after the leap. I don't remember them showing she's knew she was pregnant before the leap. If you got a link to what you say, please show me and prove me wrong. I'll gladly accept it.

if you read my posts...then you will see that I supported Purvi till ArOvi first month anniversary...

till ArOvi first month wedding it was partly Ovi's mistake but after that it was not her mistake...then ArVi made wrongs...

even Arjun is adult only, noone has to tell him about priorities...he should continue day-dreaming with ex when he is having baby with his wife and wife has some complications in pregnancy...

yes I blame Arjun completely for not taking care of Ovi in the pregnancy...and he never cared for the stillborn, he didn't mourn on stillborn...

Originally posted by: m_masti

if you read my posts...then you will see that I supported Purvi till ArOvi first month anniversary...

till ArOvi first month wedding it was partly Ovi's mistake but after that it was not her mistake...then ArVi made wrongs...

even Arjun is adult only, noone has to tell him about priorities...he should continue day-dreaming with ex when he is having baby with his wife and wife has some complications in pregnancy...

yes I blame Arjun completely for not taking care of Ovi in the pregnancy...and he never cared for the stillborn, he didn't mourn on stillborn...

Originally posted by: sk11

We've had this conversation before.

Will you ever say anything about Ovi without justifying her in every breath?

Ovi drinking because of Arjun's love for purvi?

Isn't ovi an adult? I'm sure she's perfectly capable to make adult decisions and drinking is her decision. This is how she deals. That's her. Purvi nor Arjun put a bottle to her lips.

Purvi set bed of thorns? Really? Seriously'? Purvi held Ovi's hand and tucked her in?

And everyone keeps saying oh making onir negative doesn't justify arvi reunion. Can anyone explain to me how was Arvis separation was justified after Arjun told ovi he can't be with her? After it was all sorted, arvi was going to marry then all the sudden CVs throw in a deal by Ovi outta left field.

Please, I appreciate your views but when you stop putting ovi on a pedestal, then talk to me because I blame all of them for their problems, not just Purvi or just Arjun or Ovi.

Edit: one more thing, what I remember is Purvi being shown she's pregnant after the leap. I don't remember them showing she's knew she was pregnant before the leap. If you got a link to what you say, please show me and prove me wrong. I'll gladly accept it.

Right on target as always👏

Originally posted by: m_masti

well you have said all is fair in love and war...hope Ovi does that then amar premis will know their responsibility as parents...

WOW. I am speechless

Originally posted by: sk11

Again, your justifications of Ovi are rampant. I can keep justifying arvi similarly. It will never end.

You're saying like Arjun was holding purvis photo every second to his heart during the pregnancy. I think they showed this once? I remember ovi family trying to explain to ovi to stop being a brat and take care of the baby as it'll bring her closer to Arjun.

As for mourning for the baby. Then your fights with CVs. Write them a letter and explain that you'd like to see Arjun mourn for his child. But would that do any good? You say you didn't like Arjun daydreaming about purvi...isn't that mourning too? He was mourning for his lost love. The woman he did everything for and yet she left him. That was a form of expressing grief too.

And please don't forget the link to the video that showed purvi knew she was pregnant when she told Arjun to accept ovi completely.

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Just one point. Ovi has clearly told openly that she wants to be away from Arjun and Pari. Is Arjun so much in a hurry to do his detective "duty" that he ran away immediately leaving Pari in Ovi's hands, knowing very well what the ground situation is! So "protecting" "Purvi" is more important than taking care of "Pari" is it? He could have gone later after leaving Pari at home.
Ovi didn't dump Pari. She brought her home and as Sunny rightly said, she is angry with her as her presence reminds her of Arjun-purvi liaison and the lies she was fed by Purvi. Justified in my opinion.