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Posted: 12 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: MissMona

Reuniting husband and wife..you call it destroying it further?
separating a wife from her husband and send him to his saali..that's what i call destroying it further.


so wud u call reuniting such a husband n wife who cannot be happy even if any of dem try in anyway to keep dier relationship good .. n are almost unhappy 2gethr n also create so many dramas evry other day is a non-destructive to job..

its better n peaceful 4 evry1 in PR , if Arvi reunite..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: MissMona

Reuniting husband and wife..you call it destroying it further?
separating a wife from her husband and send him to his saali..that's what i call destroying it further.

two people living in a marriage without love without trust, with one partner loving another woman who he shares a child with. is called destroying 4 lives. Arjun, purvi, pari and Ovi. there is no fixing anything by reunitining a husband who loves another woman and a wife who would never trust him to fall out of love with that woman. who she incidentely stole from.
Arjun was always in love with Purvi, and he still is. Ovi was his friend he loves her only as a friend. throught out the marriage he could not give Ovi the place that purvi has in his heart. and she knew it. so she used the pregnancy to keep he close. what sort of marriage is it when a woman has to use her child to keep her husband bound to her. and now there is no baby between them to tie them together. how much longer do Arjun and ovi need to be unhappy.
and with Onir turning gray, Purvi and pari are going to suffer and be abandoned again. and now not just by Onir but by the family as well. i think enough is enough Purvi and Pari belong with Arjun. they are the people who share the most secred bond of love and blood. even if it was out of wedlock. the bond is one of love, concern respect. Purvi sacrafised for Archana happiness. i believe that Archana she set things right by giving Purvi what was hers in the first place. Arjun should not have been taken from Purvi.
Marriage may in letter be a secred union. but its nothing but bondage if the two hearts involved are not united by love. it is best to break such a bondage than try to fix it.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#33
'If this is the way archu is going to fix her family, that means that purvi was never really family. She is an outsider used by archu in her times of need when she was missing her children.'

Sometimes, it would be nice if members read someone's comments properly and understand what they are saying rather than just sniff out a part of the whole idea put forward and focus on it totally disregarding the context in which the sentence or phrase or word has been used. I have restated the part of my post in bold at the top of this post for clarity.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#34
Archana should stay out

she should have stayed out after giving both her daughters a piece of her mind instead of playing loveguru and rooting for one daughter

that decision was thoughtless and destructive and not fore sighted

well , at least NOW she should stay out

she should catch first plane to Canada and get her daughter out of the drinking habit and give her advice but not force it ...DIVORCE HIM .

She should not even look at Purvi's face .

If ARVI want to get together , it should be with a divorce , on their own , without any blessing from Archana or any elder . The time for blessing from any elder , even DK , has gone .

She should get her daughter out of the drinking habit , give her advice and then focus on Soham and Teju . She should focus on making her husband peaceful as he has been under a lot of stress , what with her being in a coma and his children falling apart .
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Posted: 12 years ago
#35
Even i sometimes feel that archana used purvi when she needed her children..
she naver scold ovi..for god knows why!
even when ovi had put such a bad condition to purvi during arvi marraige she dint say anything, when ovi was misbehaving during her pregnancy she dint say her anything!

but i remember when arvi affair was revealed how badly she had slapped purvi! :(
I wish archana realises purvi's importance.
That girl has almost lost everything for Archana and her biological family! :(
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: rithvikasha

Even i sometimes feel that archana used purvi when she needed her children..
she naver scold ovi..for god knows why!
even when ovi had put such a bad condition to purvi during arvi marraige she dint say anything, when ovi was misbehaving during her pregnancy she dint say her anything!

but i remember when arvi affair was revealed how badly she had slapped purvi! :(
I wish archana realises purvi's importance.
That girl has almost lost everything for Archana and her biological family! :(

Most definitely. She did all of this for archu and if archu is going to come and try to fix things between Ovi and arjun forgetting the history between purvi and arjun and pari now that she too is in the picture, then it leaves much to be desired. I hope that archu storyline is a very good interesting one. I am looking forward to it.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#37
One more thing does signing a paper really makes a marriage or is it the religious vows we take or is it the union of souls?

I am just wondering because in some societies, religious vows.ceremonies is really what makes the marriage. Signing teh paper is just making it legal in the court of law. In many societies they now recognise religious marriages as common law marriages because of this same fact.

What is really wrong if a jeeju marry his saali other than it being regard by some as a 'bad relationship?" I am kin of confused here. Would it have a bad effect on the relationship or their children? Like a bad omen, something bad will happen to them. i mean the royal family marries blood relatives na?
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Posted: 12 years ago
#38
Archu really need to take care of all her children including the adopted one-Purvi.

She need to help purvi regain her lost happiness with the man she loved and no has a child for. After all purvi sacrificed for her aai's happiness.

She needs to look after Ovi, get her to stop drinking and build her self - confidence. She must learn to face society and see it for what it is not just go about demanding what she wants and when she cant have it, she cry foul.

She need to take care of teju. She seem to be level headed and not having too many issues.

She also need to sort things out between manav and soham and get the father and son relationship going. It would be great to see how these two bond.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#39
Yes , archana used Purvi.
By giving her a name, a home, shelter, education and love!
By trying to get her married to a respectable man, she used Purvi!
And purvi never "used" her . Such an obedient child!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Well, I guess that's not unfair. She's just going to TRY to save her daughter's married life. Which is hardly a crime. She's not seeing sense right now.

Moreover I don't think Archana being Archana, will ever ignore her blessed Purvi.

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