I beg to differ, Archana using Purvi for her time of need when missing her children, is an unfair accusation to use if she decides to reunite Arjun and Ovi. I do not even want Archana to save their marriage.
However, Archana has said it herself with others around that Purvi is her favourite. She would never intentionally do anything to hurt Purvi.
It is unfair to say that when Archana was willing to forget Ovi's pain and get Arjun and Purvi married.
She never blessed Ovi's marriage. She was always for Purvi's happiness and she would be doing the same if she tried to do the right thing first. We know that if she fails to make Arjun and Ovi stay married, and Onir turns out negative, Archana will reunite Arvi, especially with Pari involved.
You know, I really believe Archana does not have the love that is claimed on this forum. I am not even trying to offend anyone but it really shocks me when I see things said like that about her conveniently.
First, it was a celebration that she took a child who did not belong to her and raised her, and did not have a relationship with all her bio children.
I can't see anyone hurt for her not having her own children with her for 18 yrs, I have never once seen support of Archana to get back her children all those years. Why encourage Archana to not do the right things if she is so loved?
Why say she loves Purvi when she supports her in the wrong, but does not love her if she supports her in doing the right thing?
If we like Archana so much, why do we want her to do the wrong thing?
I never supported her suing her husband, because I never wanted to see her doing the wrong thing against her husband. I wanted them to show true PR. That is why I was so upset with her, not because I don't like her, but because I never wanted to see her in a bad light and I expected better from her. I watched PR for Arman from day one. I loved her relationship with her Mother and siblings. I loved who I saw her as in the beginning, that is why when I saw her doing the wrong thing I was so mad at her. With all the crap she has done I still have heart for her, I wanted her to be with her family, all her children.
It hurt me to see Purvi hurt Ovi, because for the mere fact that Ovi is Archana bio daughter. Arman's love child. I am sorry but that is how I feel. I am not wishing bad for Purvi. However, Arman's love children is what matters to me most because they were conceived when Arman were in love and happy. Till Archana did her dumb thing of suing her husband and even if say she had misunderstood the situation, she should have at least said sorry to Manav when she realised the truth.
I dont know why the cvs come with these outside relations when the real issue should have been Arman sorting out their marriage and raising their bio kids together during those 18yrs.
Now it seems that Purvi is loved even more than Archana. Purvi will never be Archana, she does not have what it takes, even with all Archana's faults. Arvi will never ever ever in a million years be Arman.
The cvs should have been fired with a billion letters for daring to make Arvi into Arman. Arman were crazy with their faults and they went through hell, but they never ever ever broke their bond, love and commitment to each other even miles apart.
Archana put all her energy that maybe deep down she would have wanted to work on her marriage, but was too weak and fearful to make the efforts,stubborn and even self-righteous. Purvi got the best of Archana.
Archana loves Purvi more than anyone else, except for Manav.
Mods if you warn me I am sorry if my post came off in the wrong way, but I had to vent.
Sorry if I hurt fans, but I had to say what I see and felt.
Edited by hillydee - 12 years ago
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