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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Who says pepole don't live in red light areas but its merely a business place ? My uncle lived there briefly and unwillingly because his wife worked in the state government hospital as a Matron and unfortunately the quarters were in a building built there as the land was MHADA alloted . Of course he moved when it was possible , as soon as possible coz it was unsafe .


Why serial won't show hindu rites when namkaran which is a hindu rite was shown right upto the point of distributing ghugryas ...boiled chanas to people ??

Saying Kurr before telling the name was shown ...when such deta8il was observed why not the dead babay's rites ? Or een a shanti pooja by DK ?

Why is it being suggested that only Onir was responsible for the baby disposal as she was lying helpless on a hospital bed ? Clearly it was shown that she was the master mind and he was her henchman . So is this a way to try to absolve her by saying technically she did not do it ? Even this will be proven wrong as the videotape clearly implicates her and its sheer luck that no one has pressed charges and jailed her .

Why is only Onir reponsible for having a house in a red light area ? Who knew Mumbai like the back of her hand , he , who was from Kolkata or she ? And had she left him capable of earning a decent income anymore by involving him in her criminal kaands ? he reduced him from a well earning doctor to a pauper and how is even this his fault ?


Who asked to marry purvi knowing fully well that she was going to have a child? Did she put a gun to Onir's forehead and ask him to go about with the baby swapping business? He could have said no right? Actually it might have been better if he had said no. Onir and purvi are equally resposible for him loosing his license.
As far as why the last rites of the baby werent shown, dont ask us. Not that we or purvi went about saying that dont perform its rites! Write to the zee people if ua sentiments were hurt to this extent. I for once would love to here what they say.

Like u ask why purvi didnt perform the last rites of ovi's baby , i would like to ask the why didnt ovi offer to perform the last rites when it was thought that purvi's baby had died?
Ohh i didnt know much about red lights areas. Well what just as it doesnt make ua uncle a bad man to have lived over there , it really doesnt make purvi a bad women to have lived over there because her hubby cant provide for her 😊

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Nobody put a gun to anybody my dear nobody even put a gun to dear suffering ARVI s head to accept the deal , the whole story starts there .

And there is a big difference if u insist on comparing a real life person with a fictional character ...my uncle was from another town and his wife was transferred suddenly . They had NO option . They moved out soon by hunting for their own place even though the rent was higher . Purvi and Onir had an option , they could have hunted more .
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: rayadallie

Very true. People feel that you need to defend each and every point in support of purvi because she is far from reality. What reality is...but defending Ovi and Onir is more of a reality so it ok whatever is shown in PR with respect to her and Onir. Onir is seen as not mahaan while purvi is mahaan. See what I mean. Onir character need not be butchered but purvi's could.

This is a tv show and you have be practical with respect to your arguments based on what you see not what you assume and what you think. This is where the difference is. Yes you may have experience or know someone who experience something shown in the show but that is as far as it gets.

For all of the above reasons, I dont even bother to comment on some posts and in some threads because it would be useless

Anyways, I am gone for. we have a long holiday weekend in Guyana, so I just want to wish all of you all a great and happy weekend until ...I will definitely have a good rest.


Haha i find it really funny that Onir wasnt thought to be a 'mahaan' person when he offered to marry purvi and sacrifice his whole life for her. He was deemed as good and a man with a golden heart while arjun and purvi are constantly mocked!
Ohh we will miss u loads. Do come back soon. Happy weekend deary! 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I never said Purvi should perform poojas for Ovi's dead baby . The poojas should be performed by DK . What pooja will Ovi do when she could not even hold her baby ? The after pooja has to be done by a senior in such a case for the peace of his family .
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Nobody put a gun to anybody my dear nobody even put a gun to dear suffering ARVI s head to accept the deal , the whole story starts there .


And there is a big difference if u insist on comparing a real life person with a fictional character ...my uncle was from another town and his wife was transferred suddenly . They had NO option . They moved out soon by hunting for their own place even though the rent was higher . Purvi and Onir had an option , they could have hunted more .


Lolz are u saying me that onir and purvi deliberately choose to live in a red light area while they had more better choices? Why would anyone want to do that? M really confused now!
Lets not drag the arvi deal into this discussion. What they did was real foolish and they have suffered (and so have we viewers)!
But like nobody put a gun on Arjun's head while accepting to marry Ovi likewise nobody put a gun on Onir's head as well
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

I never said Purvi should perform poojas for Ovi's dead baby . The poojas should be performed by DK . What pooja will Ovi do when she could not even hold her baby ? The after pooja has to be done by a senior in such a case for the peace of his family .


Well whatever might b the traditions. I really dont knw as dont have much realtives. What i am saying is that when it was thought that Purvi's baby had died no last rites ceremony was shown right? So why complain that it wasnt shown Purvi paid her respects to ovi's baby or that purvi threw the baby in trash (sick)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Not at all interested in dragging the ARVI deal in this discussion , the reference to it was coz it was said that guns were not put to the head , so i pointed out that guns r not held to anybody's head , ALL r adult decisions .

And yes i AM saying that they had other options and could have hunted more . Thats what the debate is about .
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Very Good point abt the time, the 1st 2 months, when everybody thought Purvi's baby had died.

NOBODY asked to see it at the hospital, neither Archu nor Manav nor any of the other elders, NOBODY mentioned about Purvi's baby's last rites according to Hindu customs. That means Deshmukh family or Karanjkar family dont consider a stillborn baby should have a funeral or last rites. Same logic applies to Ovi's baby. They simply dont consider it important to have a funeral for a stillborn child. Sad, but true!
Purvi lived in Mumbai thats true, but how would she know exactly where red light areas are located? Mumbai is a HUGE city! I dont think decent people keep knowledge of such things! 😆

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Not at all interested in dragging the ARVI deal in this discussion , the reference to it was coz it was said that guns were not put to the head , so i pointed out that guns r not held to anybody's head , ALL r adult decisions .


And yes i AM saying that they had other options and could have hunted more . Thats what the debate is about .


Well, i dont really know about that! Maybe they couldnt afford a home anywhere else. Or maybe Purvi might nt have have known that that was a red light area. Now plz dont critize purvi here. If that is really the case then we can conclude that it was a honest mistake. All i know is no sensible person would choose to live there deliberately!
But the end point is that just because they lived or live (i really dont know) in a red light area doesnt mark them as u knw bad ppl
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Missscarlett


Well whatever might b the traditions. I really dont knw as dont have much realtives. What i am saying is that when it was thought that Purvi's baby had died no last rites ceremony was shown right? So why complain that it wasnt shown Purvi paid her respects to ovi's baby or that purvi threw the baby in trash (sick)
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Even that was wrong . But in Ovi's case it got more highlighted as she was given NO CHOICE . Maybe Onir and Purvi didn't even think in that direction as the baby was VERY MUCH ALIVE . Performing rites for it would have been awful and heartless . Onir has no parents and he and Purvi did not take initiative coz the baby was ALIVE .

Btw , telling that an alive baby is dead is AWFUL and INAUSPICIOUS . Purvi did it . She told white lies about her living baby . She hogged false sympathy when Ovi was the victim . That in itself is awful .

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