Kool's Commentary 5 ; May 13 PR - Page 10

Originally posted by: hillydee

Samek😃 I am going to be as honest as I can, there was a very very logical reason behind the creation of arranged marriages...Why? Men don't know how to choose sensibly on their own for the most part. Men don't make choices for mates like women, who look for a host of things.

Men look for the "it," Factor, only they know what it is for the most part, but it has something close to how the woman makes him "feel." when she is around him.

That is also the reason why parents don't take any chances after a marriage is decided on, even marriages outside of arranged ones, the brides feel better getting married as soon as possible after the engagement.

So, next time you think to ask the question what a man sees in one woman over another, don't bother to hurt your mind, they don't know either. There is nothing wrong with the other girl, he just does not feel that "it," for her.

Take it from a lady with two (2) brothers.

Originally posted by: hillydee

today's episode. ...

What would be really sensible and make this show really end on an intelligent and proper note, if Archana woke up and ran Arjun out of both her daughters lives.

Arjun was sick and insensitive to both Purvi and Ovi to think that it is okay to discuss his marital problems with her.

Purvi is really dumb to listen to Arjun and Ovi's marital problems..If Purvi loved Arjun, how could she stomach such a conversation? Oh I forgot wasn't she the one who told him to consummate his marriage?😲

I don't know how to handle these modern day relationships. People go into relationships have sex with each other, break up and discuss their new relationships with each other, like it is nothing...How selfless these modern day lovers. People don't get jealous any more. Those who get jealous are psychos and need therapy.

How dare you go into shock when you find out your husband has an outside child with his ex, who cares if they did not tell you about their premarital sex, accept the baby, invite the ex girl over for tea and to play with the baby, while the guy has eye locks with both of you. It is modern afterall, we must move with the times right.😡

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

I still don't get WHY Arjun has to tell Purvi of his trip to Canada , and discuss his marraige with her ...omg , only yesterday he had this huge firing from sasur about his bullpucky behaviour which led to the failure of this marraige and today he calls Purvi , the same woman who caused this pain and rift out to tell all his false sob story ?😲

And what kind of visitation is THIS ...seated in a car like a kabutar ki jodi and momentarily holding baby ? That too without either of the spouses knowing ?😲 Visitations r done properly at home , Pari can be taken for a few hours by Onir or Sulochana on a Saturday to his home when he is not working and has an off . Is a baby brought in a car for a hurried visitation ? 😲

And Archana is gonna get up from coma and root for this sanskarheen behaviour ?😲 What sanskaars has she given Purvi? Simple basic thing she doesn't know that it is not right to enter someone else's bedroom , all wet , at night , it is unheard of to hug jeeju in public eye , visitations r NOT done when spouse is absent in a parked car like a pair of lovey dovey pigeons ...simple BASIC etiquettes she doesn't know ...how has Archana raised her ?😲

And she is quizzing so much about her favorite mithai and mithai shops to ascertain the truth but she was coaching Arjun to lie all the time to his wife , and was smugly lying to Ovi till she was found out !😲