shut up sulo - Page 2

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Sulo and Savita were right in what they said mostly...99% right..

Sulo was late but Savita was right in what she saw...See duniya is not going to ask for really what happened or what Arjun was doing in her house...Duniya will only believe what they see...So as a woman she should know what is not good for her own marriage...We Indians live in a society and there are rules...Or else her own reputation would go down the toilet...

Good lecture 2 aajis..👏

Originally posted by: dang344

I am sorry but I do not agree with ''We Indians bla bla bla...'' First of all, We live in a 21st century, where we shouldn't 't care about what other people are doing in their lives 1st of all. You are basically blaming Purvi for the whole situation just because she is a woman. Why does she have to care about stuff like that just because she is a woman, while nobody is saying anything to Arjun about it. You are basically saying: Just because she is a woman, she cannot have a life due to her 'reputation in society.' She can live however she wants, there is a freedom section in our law that allows that. I hate people who continue to say 'society will think this that.' I think people should just concentrate on their own lives, rather than thinking about other people or what other people will think about them.

Sorry dear you must have just joined PR section...The whole section knows how I hold Arjun repsonsible for playing two ladies, not being firm on decision or being indecisive...So I am not blaming Purvi alone..So read other posts before assuming what I think...

The thing that irks me is that nobody is blaming Arjun for this mess, u nor the show writers. Sulo and Savita are no one to blame Purvi for this whole mess. Where were they when Ovi blackmailed Purvi for marrying Arjun. I didn't see either of them slapping Ovi or putting some sense into her like they are trying to do with Purvi. If they are upset about Arjun coming to Purvi's house than they should talk to him instead of her. Just because he is their pyaara son in law, they can't talk to him while they can go blaming ther third person. If things went wrong with Ovi and Arjun's marriage, it is Ovi and Arjun's fault. It means that their relationship was not strong enough. They can't go blaming third person for a failed marriage.

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

21st century or not somethings do not change...We can agree to disagree but i blame Arjun, Purvi and Onir all

Originally posted by: dang344

Changing things begins individually. If you change what you think and it is valid, then people around you will understand and change as well. The reason that humans have survived all these years is due to their ability to adapt to change. If you hold on to previous gheeti peeti society opinions, there will be no change in this world. If there was no change in thinking, we would all still be nomads from thousands of years ago. Women are not balli ka bakras, that anyone can blame anything on. As our society changes and moves forward, our thinking has to change as well. I agree that certain traditions and morals should be with us as we move forward, but they shouldn't be about hurting other people.

I believe that Arjun and Ovi are biggest reasons for their failed marriage. Ovi's insecurities and Arjun's lack of ability to express his emotions are to be blamed. I know Purvi should not have changed babies, but at the end of the day that is not a reason for Arjun and Ovi to divorce. They can be angry at Purvi for the baby stuff, but why would they divorce each other for it.Ovi and Arjun are divorcing because Ovi is not satisfied with her relationship with Arjun. Her insecurities with Arjun are spiraling her to darkness. If Ovi had accepted Purvi and Arjun's love, things would not have come to all of this. Everyone would be living happily if Ovi did not blackmail Purvi to marry Arjun.

Originally posted by: dang344

Changing things begins individually. If you change what you think and it is valid, then people around you will understand and change as well. The reason that humans have survived all these years is due to their ability to adapt to change. If you hold on to previous gheeti peeti society opinions, there will be no change in this world. If there was no change in thinking, we would all still be nomads from thousands of years ago. Women are not balli ka bakras, that anyone can blame anything on. As our society changes and moves forward, our thinking has to change as well. I agree that certain traditions and morals should be with us as we move forward, but they shouldn't be about hurting other people.

I believe that Arjun and Ovi are biggest reasons for their failed marriage. Ovi's insecurities and Arjun's lack of ability to express his emotions are to be blamed. I know Purvi should not have changed babies, but at the end of the day that is not a reason for Arjun and Ovi to divorce. They can be angry at Purvi for the baby stuff, but why would they divorce each other for it.Ovi and Arjun are divorcing because Ovi is not satisfied with her relationship with Arjun. Her insecurities with Arjun are spiraling her to darkness. If Ovi had accepted Purvi and Arjun's love, things would not have come to all of this. Everyone would be living happily if Ovi did not blackmail Purvi to marry Arjun.

Originally posted by: dang344

I am sorry but I do not agree with ''We Indians bla bla bla...'' First of all, We live in a 21st century, where we shouldn't 't care about what other people are doing in their lives 1st of all. You are basically blaming Purvi for the whole situation just because she is a woman. Why does she have to care about stuff like that just because she is a woman, while nobody is saying anything to Arjun about it. You are basically saying: Just because she is a woman, she cannot have a life due to her 'reputation in society.' She can live however she wants, there is a freedom section in our law that allows that. I hate people who continue to say 'society will think this that.' I think people should just concentrate on their own lives, rather than thinking about other people or what other people will think about them.

The thing that irks me is that nobody is blaming Arjun for this mess, u nor the show writers. Sulo and Savita are no one to blame Purvi for this whole mess. Where were they when Ovi blackmailed Purvi for marrying Arjun. I didn't see either of them slapping Ovi or putting some sense into her like they are trying to do with Purvi. If they are upset about Arjun coming to Purvi's house than they should talk to him instead of her. Just because he is their pyaara son in law, they can't talk to him while they can go blaming ther third person. If things went wrong with Ovi and Arjun's marriage, it is Ovi and Arjun's fault. It means that their relationship was not strong enough. They can't go blaming third person for a failed marriage.

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Sulo and Savita are being extremely cruel to Purvi. They are clearly treating her as the outsider, as the adopted sadak se uthayi hui girl!

When a person is down, u dont go on kicking them, either ignore them but dont be so harsh on them as they are already suffering.

These 2 mean old women never think of what Pari must be eating or wearing, they never bring any gifts or clothes for her. If Pari was their own poti and as long as she was supposed to be their poti, they brought things for her. What kind of women are these? Selfish, mean, awful females! They have no kindness, compassion for even a little baby!😡

Even if they hate Purvi, they have NO right to keep Arjun away from his daughter, he has EVERY right to see her and provide for her, since they are too mean and cheap to bring anything for the baby although they know the dire straits Onir Purvi are in!

Anyone who kicks a suffering person will suffer punishment for it!

Im waiting for Archu to wake up, already shes stirring. She will also scold Purvi for her stupid tyaag but will never let Purvi-Onir and Pari starve while shes kicking them, which is what dirty-minded Sulo and Savita are doing! Shame on these 2 budhiyas, they shd just go to an ashram now and think abt God instead of interfering with their grandkids lives and constantly bashing Purvi like the entire thing was her fault alone!