Where was this concern

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Where was this concern for Pari when she needed a mother
today purvi's reaction was disgusting
why did arjun have to call her?
so what if she gave birth to pari?
arjun is the one who creates all the problems
and then he is the one whining about them
such an irritating episode 😡

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree. Purvi doesn't deserve to be Pari's mom. I still think that Pari should be with Ovi.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

Where was this concern for Pari when she needed a mother

today purvi's reaction was disgusting
why did arjun have to call her?
so what if she gave birth to pari?
arjun is the one who creates all the problems
and then he is the one whining about them
such an irritating episode 😡

@bold Arjun did not call her, he just thought about calling her as he is kind enough and grateful to her for pari. I dont see anything wrong with that.

Its amazing how we all throw out what purvi did for pari prior to her birth and value what ovi did for two mths after her birth and now does not want anything to do with her.

However, the point I am trying to make is that Onir did the calling based on purvi's request.

Just my opinion
Edited by rayadallie - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: lovely_lady

I agree. Purvi doesn't deserve to be Pari's mom. I still think that Pari should be with Ovi.

I think purvi did the right thing today although i strongly believe that pari should remain with arjun and DK as they are doing a great job with pari so far.

Knowing the circumstances, balan would have done what he did even if pari is with Ovi, purvi, Onir etc as he wanted to get to soham.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Okay i skipped the part as soon as arjun thought of informing purvi
Purvi should stop with her drama
How dare she to accuse arjun
Ovi is being blamed for not accepting her husband,s illegitimate child?
Why should she ?
Both pari's parents are alive





Originally posted by: rayadallie

@bold Arjun did not call her, he just thought about calling her as he is kind enough and grateful to her for pari. I dont see anything wrong with that.

Its amazing how we all throw out what purvi did for pari prior to her birth and value what ovi did for two mths after her birth and now does not want anything to do with her.

However, I am trying to make is that Onir did the calling based on purvi's request.

Just my opinion

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: rayadallie

@bold Arjun did not call her, he just thought about calling her as he is kind enough and grateful to her for pari. I dont see anything wrong with that.

Its amazing how we all throw out what purvi did for pari prior to her birth and value what ovi did for two mths after her birth and now does not want anything to do with her.

However, I am trying to make is that Onir did the calling based on purvi's request.

Just my opinion

im confused. did purvi do something for pari prior to her birth?!? as for what ovi did...well i dont think she did pari any favors. she was just rearing her child. but now, its not her responsibility to stick out a marriage in which her husband expects her to be a nanny. if she accepts pari now then thats doing something for pari as she will be taking on responsibility thats not hers to bear. but pari just by the default of birth will always be purvi's responsibility. but ya if she wants to give up pari then she will have to do that completely...as in never call pari her baby and then pari is no longer her responsibility.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

Okay i skipped the part as soon as arjun thought of informing purvi
Purvi should stop with her drama
How dare she to accuse arjun
Ovi is being blamed for not accepting her husband,s illegitimate child?
Why should she ?
Both pari's parents are alive







I am not saying Ovi should take pari, what I am saying is that sometimes we tend to forget that purvi was the one who went against the norms of society and bring pari into this world.

It was not an easy task and decision she took for us to just throw it out the door as if purvi did nothing for pari and cannot love pari more than Ovi.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Purvi went to an unknown city alone
Endangering hers and the baby's life
To rear her up?
Please
She married a complete stranger
What if he wasnt a good guy
There are so many kinds of people in the world
She would bring pari up in a budget despite her father being a millionaire
She would never know who her father was
And she is the one who is good?
No one forgot anything she did
What i dont understand is this
She should make up her mind
She should either take her baby with her or completely stay away from pari
No drama and unnecessary concerns



Originally posted by: rayadallie



I am not saying Ovi should take pari, what I am saying is that sometimes we tend to forget that purvi was the one who went against the norms of society and bring pari into this world.

It was not an easy task and decision she took for us to just throw it out the door as if purvi did nothing for pari and cannot love pari more than Ovi.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: tejaswiniwenham

im confused. did purvi do something for pari prior to her birth?!? as for what ovi did...well i dont think she did pari any favors. she was just rearing her child. but now, its not her responsibility to stick out a marriage in which her husband expects her to be a nanny. if she accepts pari now then thats doing something for pari as she will be taking on responsibility thats not hers to bear. but pari just by the default of birth will always be purvi's responsibility. but ya if she wants to give up pari then she will have to do that completely...as in never call pari her baby and then pari is no longer her responsibility.

How do you mean you are confused? Purvi caring for pari in her womb for 9mths is nothing? Purvi had to eat right, take care of her health, careful what she does and what she does not, fetch pari in her womb etc is that not something she did?

Off course she did not do any favour on pari as its her child and her responsibility based on her decision.

Ovi is free to make whatever decision she wants with respect to her marriage and pari. But it seem as though she never had any feelings for pari although she would have looked after her for two mths. But I agree its not her responsibility to look after purvi's child. That is why I say the child is better off with arjun and DK as Ovi has already declared that she wants nothing to do with arjun and pari.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Dear Waneeka,

I felt exactly the same, and have dissected the episode at

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3539368&TPN=34,

if you are interested.

Shyamala Aunty

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

Where was this concern for Pari when she needed a mother

today purvi's reaction was disgusting
why did arjun have to call her?
so what if she gave birth to pari?
arjun is the one who creates all the problems
and then he is the one whining about them
such an irritating episode 😡

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