Onir and Purvi- This is just not done

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Loveleen Brar

@loveleen12

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Posted: 12 years ago

#31

Honestly, I don't think that Purvi should reunite with Arjun or stay back with Onir. According to me it would just be better if Onir finds himself someone better who will truly love him and not just be his wife for the sake of it. And about Arvi, they both experienced love and marriage and you don't really need to be married or in love with someone to live a happy life. I think Purvi should work towards her career living as a single mother and Arjun should be a single dad. They could figure some living arrangements and maybe live as an individual who does live for himself/herself. Ovi should also forget Arjun because at this point she should at least realize that begging Arjun to love her didn't do her life any good, I like the fact that she wants to go back to modeling. That is my opinion.

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@FireLordPhoenix

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Posted: 12 years ago

#32

Both of Pari's real parents are pathetic. Purvi does not care for her child and dumped Pari on Arjun and Ovi's head (mainly Ovi's). Arjun only wants Ovi to be nanny to his pyaar ki nishani.

Onir is an unethical doctor but let's not forget his partner in crime, Purvi. I refuse to believe she didn't know that what she was doing was wrong or that she was in a haze after giving birth. By the way,what's stopping her from running into Arjun's arms? Ovi left Arjun, she wants to divorce him. Purvi and Arjun's raasta is saaf but it looks like Purvi chose Onir over Arjun. Oh my!

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Hillylove

@Hillylove

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Posted: 12 years ago

#33

It is all well and good to advocate on behalf of Purvi for her baby to be with her and Arjun as one big happy family. However, there is one very big thing missing and that is Purvi's willingness to raise her own daughter.

First she passed her on to Ovi for which she claimed to replace her dead child as she could not handle the truth. My Pov was to hide her shame.

Now, that Ovi knows the truth, she still has not tried to take back Pari, or even check up on her, in spite of Arjun telling her that Pari needs her.

Purvi has quickly recovered from her Mamta urges in an extremely short time, it is not normal but it is the reality

Purvi is warming up to Onir day by day. A day ago, she promised Onir that they will always be together.

Purvi looks annoyed by Arjun's presence most of the time. I see no longing or love. All I see is her moments with Onir highlighted.

So, with all these facts, it is quite obvious that Purvi has no intention of being with Pari and Arjun. So, this is not about anyone wishing for one Jodi or the other or not thinking of Pari.

Purvi is not thinking of Pari, she never thought of her when she gave her away, she never thought of her when the truth was out. She never even took her for the night till Ovi sobered up.

She is definitely not thinking about Pari nor Arjun now and for a long time now, only Onir and what Onir wants to do and where Onir wants to go. and how she feels about for Onir losing his licence and is being humiliated.

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rinku6us

@rinku6us

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Posted: 12 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: mwaahipkknd
People on this forum are saying that it would not be right if Purvi leaves Onir and goes to Arjun but I don't see why these people don't understand that there's a baby called Pari here too!!!! You guys are thinking about Onir come on he's an adult he's gonna manage but what about Pari? What will her life be like without a mom and even if Ovi does care for her what will she feel like when she grows up and finds out her real mom is her maasi. I agree that Purvi has done some really stupid things and seriously what she's done is unacceptable but you can't let her mistakes hurt a child. I seriously cannot even comprehend how people think it would be wrong of Purvi to leave Onir. I was also seriously appalled when Purvi refused to keep Pari- what the hell is going on in that idiotic brain of the CV's. Pavitra Rishta was titled after the mother-child relationships and this is what they are showing. I also don't see what Ekta sees in herself that she thinks her show is going good. I'm glad the TRPs are going down and I hope it reaches 0 so Zee TV axes this meaningless and stupid show off.

Sorry I'm just really angry, I have offended people here but just had to say this.

I completely agree with you. When a newborn child has both set of parents then why she would be deprived of mother's love? Why Arjun should raise her alone.? I do not understand what are the plans of the cvs

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goldhorse

@goldhorse

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Posted: 12 years ago

#35

This is how I look at the situation - I'm taking social norms out of the equation. But I do stick to moral norms.

First Pari : Pari is the most innocent and most vulnerable in this story. Ideally she should be with both her biological parents. If for any reason she can't be with both then she should stay with the parent who can best serve the purpose.

Purvi: I'm not sure whether she deserves to be given Pari. Several incidents stand out that prevents me from recommending that outright without reservation. First, the fact that she could give away her only child to her sister - an adoptive sister whom she never grew up with and whom she met for the first time at the surprise engagement party of her boyfriend to Ovi!!!! So there could not have been love for Ovi at at point in time. And I'm not even touching the fact that she gave up her so called soul-mate Arjun to her sister Ovi. Second I was shocked to see Purvi's reaction when she heard that Onir was arrested - without hesitation and without even a glance at Pari-just dumped the baby back to the stupefied Arjun and ran off to Onir. Purvi has obviously moved on ... After.. what 6-8 months upon meeting Onir? Granted Onir is a good man to have taken Purvi unreservedly ... And granted she is grateful to Onir ... But still ...one wonders...

Purvi has shown to be one who is able to give up people who she claims to love unreservedly for the sake of another. She is able to "sacrifice" her needs and wants for the sake of others - unfortunately she fails to realize or completely ignores the fact that the sacrificial lambs (Arjun and Pari) also have their own needs and wants. Where is the confidence that she would not give up Pari again perhaps years down the road to satisfy another? And I wonder if she would give up Onir (he is still an unknown factor in a sense) if a woman turns up and claims to be the long lost love or wife of Onir?...

Ovi: I shake my heard whenever I see her name. She is a spoilt brat whose only thought is Arjun ( which is commendable) but only Arjun. Recall she did not want her own pregnancy for a very long time as she did not feel ready to be a mother. Finally she accepts motherhood and a thunderbolt is thrown at her - her baby perished and she is now nursing Purvi's baby thinking it is her own! Given that she always hated Purvi because Arjun continues to love Purvi, she totally in character rejected not only Pari but Arjun (with Pari). She is never going to love Pari - more so when in future she has another baby with Arjun ( I assume there is no disability there - missed a couple of episodes) she is likely to totally ignore and marginalise Pari. No I would not give Pari to Ovi.

Arjun - the hapless man within the triangle of Pari at the apex and Purvi and Ovi making a shaky base. He was cheated of his soulmate by the soulmate herself and is now left literally holding the baby all on his own. Arjun at least has the sense to know that Pari needs a mother's love. Sadly both her biological mother and foster mother are selfish with no thought of Pari and her future.

Arjun - this is the time to be a man. Stop begging Ovi who only thinks of herself and herself only. Stop chasing Purvi - she gave you up and then gave up the evidence of both your love - Pari. Show you are not only a MAN but a FATHER as well. Look after Pari yoursel - there is enough love for you to be both a mother and father. You can have good child carers and you can monitor them. You can do it Arjun. It is not impossible.

Si there you have my thoughts. Yes I would rather Arjun raise Pari.

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rinku6us

@rinku6us

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Posted: 12 years ago

#36

Arjun is the only one who cares about Pari. He feels helpless and is trying hard to keep Pari well.

He should be again the Khadoos Arjun and take care of Pari all by himself. I do not understand how a mother who gave birth to a little angel can be so cruel. there are many couples who are deprived of the happiness of being parents and they crave for it. Specially, a mother just cannot ignore her own kid and Purvi is doing exactly that and starting romance with her husband in a situation where her daughter needs her the most. The CVs destroyed Purvis character beyond limits.

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ZaYa-Beintehaa

@ZaYa-Beintehaa

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Posted: 12 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: Sakhile
Arjun's fault is not that he does anything wrong, rather his fault is that he does not stand up for what is right.

But Purvi doesn't even do what is right, everything she does (or the CV's make her do) is completely wired, she's berserk. You don't give your child away, except when it benefits your child, and here Purvi doesn't even care about how her child is all she cares is that Ovi should get back with Arjun but the thing she can't get into her head is that Ovi is an adult and Pari is the baby not the other way around. If Arjun and Purvi have to separate Arjun should have Pari not Purvi I think he'll do a wonderful job of taking care of Pari. If Pari stays with Onir and Purvi she'll become double mahaan and we don not need any more of that, no thank you. And also these days the way Purvi's treating Arjun as he's some sort of vermin, for god's sake he's only asking her to take care of her own daughter. This show is down the drain.

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CoffeeCake

@CoffeeCake

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Posted: 12 years ago

#38

For the sake of good future Pari should stay with arjun and DK.

Onir's financial condition is worst right now. He has no money for himself so better to forget about pari.

And at any condition pari should not go back to purvi or ovi. Purvi is donation queen. Her mamta is biggest nautanki. Let her play with her mishta and mishti game. And ovi needs a psych artist. Given a chance she would like to take out all frustration of arvi on pari.

Better future of pari is with her bio dad and grand pa.

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rayadallie

@rayadallie

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Posted: 12 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: ..aastha..
For the sake of good future Pari should stay with arjun and DK.

Onir's financial condition is worst right now. He has no money for himself so better to forget about pari.

And at any condition pari should not go back to purvi or ovi. Purvi is donation queen. Her mamta is biggest nautanki. Let her play with her mishta and mishti game. And ovi needs a psych artist. Given a chance she would like to take out all frustration of arvi on pari.

Better future of pari is with her bio dad and grand pa.

Totally agree with you.

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paris.hilton

@paris.hilton

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Posted: 12 years ago

#40

Originally posted by: ..aastha..
For the sake of good future Pari should stay with arjun and DK.

Onir's financial condition is worst right now. He has no money for himself so better to forget about pari.

And at any condition pari should not go back to purvi or ovi. Purvi is donation queen. Her mamta is biggest nautanki. Let her play with her mishta and mishti game. And ovi needs a psych artist. Given a chance she would like to take out all frustration of arvi on pari.

Better future of pari is with her bio dad and grand pa.

Aastha, i respect your opinion. But in life, it's not all about money. Money makes the world go round, that's true! but if arjun will only use his wealth to fill up what's missing in pari's life like a mother's love and just hire a nanny to take care of pari, i don't think that will be enough. A child needs her mom around her. Can arjun and dk take care of pari fulltime? I guess not.

Regarding pari's future, arjun can always give financial support for pari's needs. Pari can have her mom's love and at the same time her real father will provide for her financially.

Let's just see what the CVs has in store for the viewers.

Edited by paris.hilton - 12 years ago

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