Onir and Purvi- This is just not done - Page 2

Originally posted by: Sakhile

Paris_Hilton, I agree. The adults made their decisions. Purvi cannot just abandon her marriage now that the truth is out. She cannot also abandaon a person who stood with her in her time of need. As for Pari, provided that she is told the truth from the beginning of her life, is loved by her father and mother, has access to both of them, she will be fine if they raise her to be a good person. ovi's negativity can be dampened if she knows the truth from the beginning and her Arjuna dnPurvi give her the corect perspective throughout her life.

Originally posted by: Sakhile

Paris_Hilton, I agree. The adults made their decisions. Purvi cannot just abandon her marriage now that the truth is out. She cannot also abandaon a person who stood with her in her time of need. As for Pari, provided that she is told the truth from the beginning of her life, is loved by her father and mother, has access to both of them, she will be fine if they raise her to be a good person. ovi's negativity can be dampened if she knows the truth from the beginning and her Arjuna dnPurvi give her the corect perspective throughout her life.

True sakhile! It's not that easy to just break a marriage and go back to an ex-partner. If purvi does that, society will curse and mock her for being immoral.

Pari can still grow up like a normal kid as long as she has her real mother to take care of her. Onir is also there as her daddy and given the proper upbringing, pari will grow up as a good person. Arjun can also be a part of pari's life if onir and purvi gives him the liberty to also be with his daughter's growing up years.. It's just a matter of how they will raise her and how they will explain to the kid their situation.

I just hope that onir and arjun will never again let purvi take control of their lives. Knowing purvi she is stubborn and does crazy things without thinking of the outcome.

@khools: You are right. Purvi should also be punished for acting God and for fooling everyone. Most especially for not giving ovi's baby a proper ceremony/burial.

Originally posted by: Sakhile

Right now she's a baby, all she wans is milk, change of nappy and sleep. 😆

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Purvi and onir should take pari with them and let Arjun have visitation rights...
There is no need to force ovi to take care of her...and why are people forgetting that while purvi was pregnant onir had accepted pari as his own...when purvi gave the child up it was onir who was the most devastated...Arjun wasn't as concerned about his baby with ovi as onir was abt pari...even now he will give her his name and take care of her...if pari is told from the beginning that Arjun is her biological dad and onir her adoptive dad and that her real mom and dad couldn't be together but they all love her she will be fine and secure...lots of parents do that...gone are the days that u get married just for the sake of a baby...purvi ruined onir's life and career shame on her if she leaves him now...this is the one thing that will redeem all of her mistakes in the past...onir already loves her and she respects him a lot...they are good friends and that is a great foundation for a marriage...

I don't know why people are so insistent on Arjun and Purvi getting back together because of the baby
They should get back together if they want to
For one , I don't see why Arjun and Purvi has to he together to raise the baby
There is something called "custody" and living arrangements
Arjun can see the baby in weekends
Pay child support
Weekdays Purvi can be with pari

As for onir , Purvi shouldn't go ahead with that marriage because she feels obligated
But she had feelings for Onir now
Hence it is only fair if she lives with him

I accept that a child raised in separate families may suffer some trauma but it is not irreversible. Al the child needs to know is that all her caregivers love her and will always support her. She'll be fine. Let the adults act responsibly.

Onir should just die or go away.

Yeah I agree what some people are saying that pari should be with purvi since she needs a mother but she has two fathers who love her a lot. It would be best if this happened and pari would spend half time with ovi Arjun and half with purvi Onir - like divorced parents live that's how she will have to learn. I know it's still sad but millions of kids live like that so...

Originally posted by: paris.hilton

Solution: Purvi should get her child back and head back to kolkota with her husband.

Arjun can be given visitation rights for pari if Purvi and Onir will allow that kind of set-up.

Problem solved.