Originally posted by: hillydee
I hope Shruti/Ovi is not leaving, because I know I could not tolerate PR any more this time. The past year or so was bad enough. I took even breaks, and it comes back to the same old stories recycled, they even got worse.😔
Why does Purvi annoy me so much? From day one.
First of all in my part of the world, women like Purvi in the office would be instantly disliked even hated. If she was the boss, the staff turnover would very be high, because she was so loud and childish when she first started working at DK and Manav's company. She did not behave properly especially towards Arjun, I just did not find it cute. It was exaggerated. However, the trps went up only God knows why. I should have known that Purvi would be a challenge to watch(🤡), when the cvs made us to believe she had her Masters by 18yrs old, and can run an International Company single-handedly.
Now, she is out of office, and her private life is an equal joke, the only difference is, she is not loud, but she makes the same emotional decisions. It is like something is wrong with her. Her perception of wrong and right is warped.
I mean she gave up Arjun, not because it was wrong to intervene between Ovi and Arjun who had a commitment to some extent, but because of her Mother's happiness. She did not even process that accepting to marry Arjun in the first place, was in itself a question of her Mother's happiness. So, only a deal (plea from Ovi) could make her realise that?
Then she misconstrued the deal and made an even bigger mess by forcing Arjun to marry Ovi. There was no mention of marriage in Ovi's pleas, and I know Purvi can read (figuratively speaking) in general, but Purvi still chose to interpret it her way. If this was a comprehension test, she would fail miserable. Never assume what is not said or written.
Arjun publicly stated how he loved her, even slapped Ovi. Yet, she took from that scene, that Arjun should give full rights of a wife to Ovi. Now first of all, she already slept with Arjun, and was able to advise, sorry order him to sleep with Ovi, for the sake of "their," love. That in itself is twisted. No woman does that, even if she allowed the marriage part, she is not going to be giving him any bedroom advice. Her heart and stomach would not allow it. No so-called deal by Ovi, could counteract such a sick decision made by Purvi. Yet it is always deemed that Ovi is psycho. Seriously?
Ok so she went away pregnant and wanted to cover this shame. Does she really expect a normal man with hormones and he is not the Pope, would marry her just for the sake of the baby and never touched her, never form a real marriage with her? This is why I say her perception of life is unreal, makes no sense. I am not saying while she was pregnant she should have intimate moments with Onir, but for crying out loud, what was the sleeping on the floor and flinching whenever he comes near about? She is that naive to think Onir married her only for the baby's sake?
Now, the baby swapping. She gave about fifty different reasons for this. I am at a lost. She said the baby would bring Arjun and Ovi closer, since they lost theirs. She said Pari would get to be with her real Father.
She never said, but we know it is because she wanted to hide the shame. However, her relationship with Arjun in the first place, is what separated Ovi and Arjun, so how will their love baby bring them closer? The big act of placing the baby with her Dad is of no benefit to anyone but herself, because Arjun was not aware of who Pari was to begin with(he is thinking it is his and Ovi's and life is normal), and most importantly, Pari would not be with her biological Mother.
Onir's medical license, the big drama these days. A doctor walking on the streets looking for any other jobs besides his profession, not because doctors are not in high demand, and by God so many hospitals need them, no nothing normal like that.
Only and only for agreeing with a 19yr old girl, who got herself knocked up before marriage, walk out on the Father in the name of Mahaan, he will listen to that same girl to commit Medical Sin. Not a thought of his hours of sleepless nights studying, all that money spent. Not a thought that this girl can't be worth all that he had worked so hard for, there must be another way. His Medical brain could not process another solution. Her Master's degree brain could not process another solution. The two great brains could not process that they could do the morally right and legal thing and tell Ovi and Arjun the truth, then offer Pari. Ovi probably would have taken the baby, why? because she would have thought she was taking Purvi and Onir's baby. but no these too brilliant individuals brains put together could not process such a solution. Why? Lies, and the pretence of Mahaan deeds were way more enticing, than a moral and logical solution.
So, where is the Mahaan in all of this?
Now here we go around the Mulberry Bush again, she misinterprets Sulo, now telling Arjun stay away from Pari.
Just like Ovi's deal,she came to her own conclusions. Where in the hell did Sulo say Arjun can't see Pari?
Now, thanks to her, Pari once again will possibly be without one biological parent. That of course, is if the baby does not starve to death, or fall out of the sari.
Her idea of parenting...to starve the baby and pay the rent. To starve the baby instead of asking the guy who knocked her up, for money to feed his own child. Can false pride be mistaken for Mahaan??? Or even lack of common sense?
So, where is the Mahaan in all of this? It is everything else but Mahaan. Mahaan my Foot.