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Simran Ramphal

@SimSimmer

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Posted: 12 years ago

#41

Originally posted by: arshi_arvi

Good Post. I was going to make a post that our ALO (Alcohol Lady Ovi) is back.

As Arjun doesn't suit Ovi but she is die hard for him and him only... but can't have him,then the only alternative is to marry her best friend😃😉 Then she'll leave my Cheating and lying ARVI alone😃

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Tanyaz

@Tanyaz

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Posted: 12 years ago

#42

Purvi and Shravani's story are totally different ..

Manav himself proposed to Shravani ( because he wanted to save his broother's child ) but he always told her that you will only be my responsibility and nothing more ...and that is exactly what he did ..He stood firm on his words .

Purvi gave up Arjun herself and then even gave up her daughter .I think right now she is happy with Onir and I think she likes being with him .I don't think she will leave him for Arjun or anyone else ...

Arjun is no Manav .Arjun first showed anger on Ovi on suhaag raat bu tthe minute Purvi gave him orders to make a baby with Ovi , he just did what he was told ..Manav never took orders like that from anyone .

Edited by Tanyaz - 12 years ago

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nelum

@manan_virika

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#43

Originally posted by: Tanyaz
Purvi and Shravani's story are totally different ..

Manav himself proposed to Shravani ( because he wanted to save his broother's child ) but he always told her that you will only be my responsibility and nothing more ...and that is exactly what he did ..He stood firm on his words .

Purvi gave up Arjun herself and then even gave up her daughter .I think right now she is happy with Onir and I think she likes being with him .I don't think she will leave him for Arjun or anyone else ...

Arjun is no Manav .Arjun first showed anger on Ovi on suhaag raat bu tthe minute Purvi gave him orders to make a baby with Ovi , he just did what he was told ..Manav never took orders like that from anyone .

I agree with you that Manav back then had a lot of self-respect to stand up for himself but what are CVS doing Arjun? I thought he was suppose to be well educated. Now Manav's character is useless.

Arjun and Purvi should unite for Pari's sake because that little girl will tortured her whole life, and especially because she is a girl.

Edited by arshi_arvi - 12 years ago

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m_masti

@m_masti

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#44

Originally posted by: arshi_arvi

Archana and Manav was pulling a Purvi during that time and got divorced for Shravni's "bhalai." In the end, they did get divorce for Shravni's sake so why can't they get Arjun and Ovi divorced? But the main point is why can't they understand Purvi's situation, they understood Shravni's. That is why Manav is a big hypocrite. Anyway it's up to Ovi and Arjun to get a divorce not their parents. They should just separate for their own benefits.

Purvi hid things so she can keep her family together, and after watching today's episode I think she did the right thing. Look at how these insensitive D and K clan people are reacting.

I just hope Purvi forgets about them, and focuses on her daughter but I'm pretty sure that beti/ma ka gulaam Manav will beg Purvi to give Pari up to Arjun and Ovi.

Shravani and Purvi are completely different...Shravani didnot hide/lie, Shravani did not take any stupid decision...Shravani never wanted to marry anyone to give father name to baby...Shravani was so good to give birth to Sachin, and she filled D home with happiness, in one way if i think whole D family could coume-out from trauma of big Sachin's death by waiting for chota sachin...and Shravani understood the pain of D family and gave them Sachin...

Purvi hiding consummation is okay...Purvi hiding pregnancy is okay...Purvi accepting Onir and getting married is okay...Purvi giving birth to Pari is also okay...but not letting a mom to mourn on stillborn is a sin...swapping the babies is a sin...and expecting Ovi will forgive her as she is attached to Pari is ghor paap...

at the end you want to dump the baby then why to carry that baby...in this case i support aborting the baby by unwed mom, rather than hiding it and saying everything is done for family balaayi...

first of all why to do things that you need to hide from the family...and why to blame someone else to hide your personals...

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nelum

@manan_virika

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#45

Originally posted by: m_masti

Shravani and Purvi are completely different...Shravani didnot hide/lie, Shravani did not take any stupid decision...Shravani never wanted to marry anyone to give father name to baby...Shravani was so good to give birth to Sachin, and she filled D home with happiness, in one way if i think whole D family could coume-out from trauma of big Sachin's death by waiting for chota sachin...and Shravani understood the pain of D family and gave them Sachin...

Purvi hiding consummation is okay...Purvi hiding pregnancy is okay...Purvi accepting Onir and getting married is okay...Purvi giving birth to Pari is also okay...but not letting a mom to mourn on stillborn is a sin...swapping the babies is a sin...and expecting Ovi will forgive her as she is attached to Pari is ghor paap...

at the end you want to dump the baby then why to carry that baby...in this case i support aborting the baby by unwed mom, rather than hiding it and saying everything is done for family balaayi...

first of all why to do things that you need to hide from the family...and why to blame someone else to hide your personals...

Sorry but I believe that there is no sin greater than killing an unborn child. I agree Purvi has a tendency to think too much but she has good intentions. At the end of the day, she is the only one that loses everything.

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Tanyaz

@Tanyaz

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Posted: 12 years ago

#46

Originally posted by: arshi_arvi

I agree with you that Manav back then had a lot of self-respect to stand up for himself but what are CVS doing Arjun? I thought he was suppose to be well educated. Now Manav's character is useless.

Arjun and Purvi should unite for Pari's sake because that little girl will tortured her whole life, and especially because she is a girl.

I am talking about Manav when he was faced with a similar situation as Arjun ..He was also to marry someone he did nto love and the woman he loved , he could not have ...

but right from the begining , Manav told Shravani that he will only marry her as she is his responsibility and nothing else ...once Shravani left the mandap and he went to get her , even then he told her that I am still firm about what I said ...

His mother Savita was putting so much pressure on him to love Shravani, even Archana left him for whole one year so that he would fall in love with Shravani but he was very firm on what he belived in ..he did not lie to Shravani at all.She always knew what her place was in his life and what was Archana's place ...

When Arjun got married , that night he told Ovi that he will never be hers and she will never get close to him... then I thought he would be the same like Manav but Arjun took a turn and just became a very weak person with no mind or decision of his own ...He only does what Purvi orders him to do ...

What kind of a love story is this ..The Cvs have really messed up Arjun's character .He looks like the biggest looser the way they are portraying him .RD should leave this show .He can definitely do better ...

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m_masti

@m_masti

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#47

Originally posted by: arshi_arvi

Sorry but I believe that there is no sin greater than killing an unborn child. I agree Purvi has a tendency to think too much but she has good intentions. At the end of the day, she is the only one that loses everything.

even i don't support abortion...i supported Purvi when she wanted to keep the pregnancy, she started with singing middle class sanskars of not having a boyfriend but she ended up with premarital sex...again i am not opposing premarital sex...i felt Purvi genuinely loved Arjun and she is ready to face the society as unwed mom, but she made me down by marrying Onir...still somewhere i had hope, but she made me feel very down by flirting with Onir in the bedroom and coming out on bedroom balcony and eye-locking with ex...she said Onir as baby's father and said hamari beti...but at the end she wanted baby to be with bio-father...and she didnot let a mom to mourn on stillborn...instead she made everyone to mourn on a live baby, which is a big sin...

a mom can never let anyone to mourn on her live baby...this is really ashubh for the live baby...

read the whole sentence not part of it...i feel aborting the baby is more sinless than dumping the baby after 10 seconds of its birth...i am sure noone on the earth wants to have confused birth...Purvi the mother either wanted baby to be with bio-mother or bio-father which no newborn/unborn deserves...

yes at the end Purvi is loosing everything, because the actions she did are like that...

i don't see any good intentions...she had so many other ways to reunite ArMan but she chose to blame Ovi...she had many options to make things better, but she always chose destruction path...

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pallavi25

@pallavi25

Inactive

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Posted: 12 years ago

#48

Purvi DID NOT plan to dump the baby on Arjun-Ovi beforehand!

Its very easy to pretend as if what Mittal is accusing her and Onir of is true, that they planned the whole thing!

And the hospital CCTV clip has obviously been edited to paint the worst picture of Purvi-Onir. That their main intention of baby swap was so Purvi could dump her illegitimate baby on Ovi so Pari gets to live with her bio father!

That is NOT how it happened and we viewers all know it, the Deshmukhs dont know it so they will assume the worst!

But WE know it!

Fact is:

IF Ovi and Arjun had not tagged along with Purvi-Onir on the temple pilgrimage trip NONE of this would have happened! Purvi would have given birth to her baby as she was almost full term, she would have the baby far away from Mumbai and nobody would know the truth. Onir would say the delivery was premature. That is why they were going there in the first place, because Purvi was almost due.

Later Ovi would also have delivered her own baby safely in Mumbai and possibly she would have a healthy baby too.

And everything would be hunky-dory!

But Archana ruined everything by insisting Ovi-Arjun tag along with Onir-Purvi on that ill-fated temple trip!

Purvi gave up her baby for Ovi's sake only, if Ovi learned she had lost her baby due to the accident she would have lost her sanity again.

Of course Purvi-Onir's misplaced sacrifice was WRONG! They should not have donated the baby to Ovi! They should not have tried to protect Ovi from trauma. They shd have let Ovi face the harsh reality and deal with it! But both knew Ovi was emotionally unstable and not able to deal with a miscarriage at that advanced stage of pregnancy!

Especially when she was really looking forward to becoming a mother! They did do it for Ovi's well-being and NOT for some nefarious purpose, of dumping the illegitimate baby on unsuspecting Ovi!

Edited by pallavi25 - 12 years ago

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rayadallie

@rayadallie

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#49

Originally posted by: Tiyali

I am sorry but thats hogwash.Even if Ovi is devil incarnate, how is one grandmother supposed to feel when one of her granddaughters had sex with her son-in-law, had a baby, enver told them and proceeded to swap it for a dead child? How is she supposed to sympathise with Purvi when Ovi is hurt and crying for the child she NEVER saw? Is that something she brought on herself?

And honestly, Purvi's bhalyai bashan lasted till it was a do or die moment. Then she chose herself, her childhood home over protecting Ovi. Call Ovi what you will, Purvi is a liar and a selfish one to boot. Ovi never did any of that. I suppose its the pamperign afterall, that made her more straight-laced than Purvi.

@bold, Its really hogwash as Purvi had sex with arjun before he was married to Ovi at purvi's request. So the whole issue about son in law is non existent. Regarding the baby, Purvi should have confide in sulo or archu but as I see it in PR it would have make matters worst at the time as she only found out after arjun and ovi's marriage. I think she did the right thing to walk away and bear her pain on her own. I salute her for that as it takes a strong woman to make a decision to keep her child out of wedlock knowing how society would chastise her. I hope we are both looking at the same serial.😉

@red, I symphatise fully with ovi on the lost of her child as i would not wish such on any woman. However, one cannot forget the decision she made to get arjun at all cost no matter what the results are lead to this situation. Had she walk away from inception she would not have live to see this day and Purvi would not have to tell so many lies to keep ovi happy. Here is where I am annoyed with purvi as she got weak in front of ovi rather that be the strong person she was and do what she think was right.

@green, All I would say here is that purvi considers the feeling of others over herself unlike ovi, she considers her own feelings at the cost of others. I guess ovi's behaviour is the one we should condone as its the best way. After all who cares about anyone else's feelings

Edited by rayadallie - 12 years ago

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rayadallie

@rayadallie

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#50

Originally posted by: Dabulls23
Yeah Purvi was such an innocent angel...It was the lover boy Arjun who saw the indian novelty and fell for her...He is the one who put Purvi between himself and Ovi..

But it is not Ovi who came between the pavitra couple..SO get the facts right abt the sequence it all happened

Now I am also waiting for the love birds, the pavitra pair of 21st century to come together..😛

Cheating duo would really make a good pair bonnie and clyde..either way with Onir or Arjun Pure-Vi will have her match of liars and cheaters..

Compared to the MMLA Purvi who is like a pro and Ovi is like a preschooler when it comes to playing games, cheating and lying..

@green really??? As far as I am concerned is that Ovi got beaten at her own game and cannot handle it as she could not control what happened. My POV though

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