Ekta is making me Hate Purvi!!!! - Page 3

Originally posted by: zonan

Why can't purvi fall in love and romancing her husband?

she is a human and has love and sexual needs..and the only person who have that rights to fill that is only and only her husband, Dr. Onir Dutt.

Originally posted by: arvifanalways

What I don't understand is how can ANYONE who has just lost /donated her child can start romancing anyone, even he was her so called husband😕this has tarnished the character of purvi because a woman who can forget her own child so fast is not capable to loving anyone. I hope Ekta decides not to show this disgusting romance between mishti and Onir because no woman can connect with a woman who can forget their child as if she was a piece of furniture and gets busy romancing

The baby is not dead for her to mourn its loss, the baby is right there though she doesn't have ready access to Pari. The baby, moreover, is not with a stranger, Pari is with her dad and a very caring aunt. If a person is feeling down, depressed and vulnerable, they find solace in people who love and care for them. So if Purvi starts to like Onir who has been her rock for the past several months, it is only natural. In her time of need, he has been by her side, he deserves her love. Whether she gives it to him or not, is another matter.

As for Arjun (RD was fabulous yesterday), he has another think coming. However much he loves Purvi, the poor guy has to keep it under wraps. He is married to Ovi, he had a baby with Ovi meaning he is leading a normal married life, he cannot cast those soulful glances at Purvi, she is married, he is married, he has moved on. What good will telling the world that Pari is Purvi's daughter do? I have advocated from the first that Arjun had a right to know, Ovi has a right to know, as to everyone else, it is none of their beeswax as to who Pari's parents are.

I loved ARVi together but don't see how they can be reunited, that is all.

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

The baby is not dead for her to mourn its loss, the baby is right there though she doesn't have ready access to Pari. The baby, moreover, is not with a stranger, Pari is with her dad and a very caring aunt. If a person is feeling down, depressed and vulnerable, they find solace in people who love and care for them. So if Purvi starts to like Onir who has been her rock for the past several months, it is only natural. In her time of need, he has been by her side, he deserves her love. Whether she gives it to him or not, is another matter.

As for Arjun (RD was fabulous yesterday), he has another think coming. However much he loves Purvi, the poor guy has to keep it under wraps. He is married to Ovi, he had a baby with Ovi meaning he is leading a normal married life, he cannot cast those soulful glances at Purvi, she is married, he is married, he has moved on. What good will telling the world that Pari is Purvi's daughter do? I have advocated from the first that Arjun had a right to know, Ovi has a right to know, as to everyone else, it is none of their beeswax as to who Pari's parents are.

I loved ARVi together but don't see how they can be reunited, that is all.

Originally posted by: arvifanalways

Since you think sexual needs are more important than anything and anyone , even your own daughter, then I guess you must have been supportive of purvi and Arjun having sex merely just the day before their marriage too. I guess if u have ever criticized Arjun and purvi for having sex then that means you need to be consistent in the future😆 mishti romancing unethical doctor Onir at this time is 100 times worse than sleeping with your fianc because a child is involved now

I did not quite approve of Arjun and Purvi in the hut incident but you are right, sleeping with her fiance just before the wedding may be condoned. But I don't understand why she should not romance Onir because a child is involved.

If Purvi doesn't romance Onir, is Arjun going to leave Ovi for her? Is the hope that if Purvi remains unattached, Arjun will come back to her?

If Purvi romances Onir, will Arjun not be ready to take back Purvi in the future at some point when the heavens align again?

What has her romancing Onir got to do with the baby? Arjun romanced Ovi and had a baby, did he give the hut incident a thought that maybe just maybe he could have gotten Purvi pregnant? Did that stop him from sleeping with Ovi? How was he able to do that when he loved Purvi? It should have been physically impossible for him to have been even momentarily attracted to Ovi even at Purvi's request.

If the hope is that since Arjun knows the baby is Purvi's and sans a Purvi Onir romance to complicate matters, Arjun will get back together with Purvi, how can he? He leads a normal married life with Ovi, his telling the world will not let Ovi give up on him, he will look like a heel if he leaves Ovi for a past "mistake" done before marriage. Purvi will not leave the man who gave up his everything for her and destroy her sister's life in one fell swoop.

At best, Pari can take turns living with both sets of parents, just Arjun discovering he is the father of Purvi's baby unfortunately cannot re-unite them, however much one wants them to be together.

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

I honestly don't understand, Purvi cannot have relations with her husband because Arjun has not moved on? But Arjun has, he made a baby with Ovi, so he can consummate his marriage but not Purvi with Onir? That seems like a double standard to me. The DNA test proved Arjun was the dad of the baby which didn't surprise Ovi or Arjun meaning there is no chance the baby could have been Romil's. If Arjun and Purvi truly love each other, neither of them should be able to move on in any sense or fashion.

Jahnvi di...i had to come out of hiding...😆 you are 100% right...arjun has slept with ovi there is no more doubt about it...if there was ovi would have freaked out...but she didnt...she even said that the baby looks like arjun...why would a mother make such a statement if it is not right...arjun can sleep with 2 sisters but purvi cant fall in love with a man who helped her all the way...even i am confused...

Originally posted by: arvifanalways

So far it has not been shown that Arjun and ovi have slept together and after the leap when Arjun even touched ovi, she looked weird. I won't be surprised if this this truth is revealed later

I truly hope you are right. But why then were Arjun and Ovi not surprised at the DNA test results?

I don't want Ovi's baby to be Arjun's for more than one reason. One I do not want Ovi to have the satisfaction ever of having gotten Arjun and his baby. She needs to pay for her evil machinations before she can come anywhere close to Arjun even if the CVs want them together as a pair.
Second, if ever Arjun and Purvi are going to be back together, it will leave a very bitter taste if he has slept with both girls, both sisters. And his love for Purvi would be more than a little sullied if Ovi's baby was his and he still wants to reunite with Purvi. Right now, all indications are that Ovi's baby was Arjun's so the CVs need to tread carefully if ARVI's is indeed the next pavitra rishta.

Originally posted by: arjunaluis

Jahnvi di...i had to come out of hiding...😆 you are 100% right...arjun has slept with ovi there is no more doubt about it...if there was ovi would have freaked out...but she didnt...she even said that the baby looks like arjun...why would a mother make such a statement if it is not right...arjun can sleep with 2 sisters but purvi cant fall in love with a man who helped her all the way...even i am confused...

Originally posted by: arvifanalways

I think there is a reason why it has not been shown that Arjun and ovi slept together . I think this truth might be revealed later that ovi just made Arjun believe that he slept with her , that may be the reason after the leap they were not at all behaving like a Normal couple who are close to each other.

If that is the case, why didn't Ovi freak out when the DNA test said Arjun was the father? She should have gotten suspicious if she knew the baby was not his. Unless, they show her bribing or tampering with the testing evidence but that too wouldn't make sense because she would have wanted to know if the baby was Onir's so she wouldn't have changed the test results to baldly say it is Arjun.

Too many loopholes to go that route, like I said, the CVs need to be very careful with the story if that is the way they want to proceed.

Originally posted by: arvifanalways

I think there is a reason why it has not been shown that Arjun and ovi slept together . I think this truth might be revealed later that ovi just made Arjun believe that he slept with her , that may be the reason after the leap they were not at all behaving like a Normal couple who are close to each other.

I just dont see it happening...the pregancy report clearly stats that ovi was 5 and half months pregant...or 6 and the half months cant remember which...it shows that ovi was pregnant 2 weeks after purvi left...at this time ROMIL the great wasnt around he had left...why would ovi or any other wife who has done everything to get a guy sleep with another guy when the guy's ex is no more around and the road is clear for her to have him all to herself...so only arjun can be the father...and the reason they are not showing arjun-ovi sleeping together is first because no one wants to see it...second to give hope to the arvi fans and third who wants to see a man sleeping with one girl (purvi) and then with another(ovi)...TRP would be 0...

Abi, lol, you are right, I would not want to see Arjun romancing Ovi. Sadly, that would make me see red.

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