Originally posted by: gaurav_ankita08
Whom should i go with bcoz,
Purvi n Ovi were on the same base but the thing is that Purvi loved her pregnancy period where Ovi hated it for just a luxurious life but when Pari came to this world Purvi gave her to Ovi that time "Her Mamta Died for Pari"where Ovi is handling her nicely now she hasn't became a perfect mother but by the time she'll be that too.
Its hard to say that Ovi is much better mother than Purvi as per current track.
I totally agree.dont know why this fuss about who is a better mother ,but it is crystal clear that beign a mother doesnt only happen after the baby is born but during the pregnancy.We may not like purvi for giving up the baby but at the end of the day purv still breathe life into that child,she never once saw that child as a burden ,a way to hold on to arjun/onir nor was she put her baby's life at risk unlike ovi who wanted the opposite.Ovi was ready to harm her baby even before it started to come into this world.
yes purvi did wrong by giving up her baby that is what ill never agree to but at it all she didnt leave at the roadside,she didnt abort it,she didnt see a baby as a tool/object to hold on or strehten her marriage with a person who does not love her.you cant just ignore and forget certain things especially when an unborn baby is so defenceless.
Its fine if people have a greater gravitation towards ovi's character than purvi but be honest,who was willing to bring their child unharmed witout expecting anything from thebaby?
both of them in the same boat ovi didnt have motherly feelings when she now got pregnant or they way she treated her unborn baby,but purvi loved her pregnancy and was looking forward to her baby.she never had the intention of using the baby to get arjun.she never once saw her baby as a burden or wanted a more luxurious life for herself.look at all the problems ovi had during her pregnancy.why these problems came about?
had she reallly wanted to be a protective mother or be a better/best mother then she would have protected the baby from conception to birth.
there must not be one sided appreciation but it must work both ways.just as how it is said purvi gave ovi the baby so she can control arjun or she did it for hr own selfish reason,how it is guarenteed that ovi caring and loving the baby is not also a pretence for arjun to love ovi and admire her for beign such a great mother?? is ovi really taking care of the baby becuse she wants to or is it just an act/drama cling on to arjun???everything is speculation and each other's perception . one would say purvi wrong but in my eyes neither of them is better ,they all have their own hidden agenda.but at least purvi had the spine and backbone to get pregnant out of wedluck and stilll give birth to pari whereas ovi was only thinking of beign neglected by arjun and not thinking of the wellfare of her unborn baby.and for me i dont like halway truths/story.
there isnt enuff evidence make a disnticntion as to who is a better mother coz both have screwed up with their babies's life one giving up her baby but protecting the baby from the time it was in the womb the other disregarding the baby's health whilst it was in the womb but taking care of the baby now.so who is better,the one who wanted to snuff the baby's life out or the one who actually wanted to gave life to a healthy baby and give it away..from where i am sitting its not an easy decision to say due to the fact both have falter.thats my opinion,me perception and plz dont tell me to forget ovi's past and what she did because what is worse harming a baby's life /thinking of abortion or giving away the baby to its bilogical parent.at least in one case the baby wasnt a threat to be thinking along the lines of denying it coming into this world.again my opinion,you dont agree fine by me,i am pro life and against abortion and drinking during pregnancy,those are my beliefs..
Anupamaa
