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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sidgauri.

tyaagi for what ?? for doing the tyaag of her virginity ??? and that too in a jhopdi !!! how downmarket and class less😆



in PR land it is tyaag...PR saskari people say,
1. Purvi knew that she might become pregnant but still she accepted Ovi's deal for Ovi's happiness...
2. even after knowing Purvi is pregnant, she still wanted to tyaag everything for Ovi's happiness...




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Posted: 12 years ago
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Dear Masti,

I am afraid you are going to be proved right in toto.

I have only one suggestion: as the third and highest stage of tyaag, the most apt adjective would be mahaanatam, which is the superlative of mahaan in Sanskrit, i.e. the greatest. So, the sequence would be: tyaag, mahaan tyaag, mahaanatam tyaag. Neat, isn't it?😉

Now if Purvi goes in for a fourth stage, I will be at a loss for the correct word, which is something that rarely happens to me!!😉


Shyamala


Originally posted by: m_masti

Kools, Shyamala, Kalapi...

according to PR history, Purvi will never get any ultimatum, Purvi will be scot-free...

for having one-night stand-----Purvi will be called tyaagi...

for donating baby-----Purvi will be called mahaan tyagi...

when all truth comesout------Purvi will be sanskari mahaan tyaagi...


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Dear Mohini,

This is only about the part in red, which I have extracted from your very forceful post.. Let me attempt an explanation, and let us see if you can agree with it at least in part.

Ideally, love should make you stronger, and protective of the loved one, in the sense that you do whatever is best for him/her. But then, in some people, love makes them weak,and even the best of them succumb,whether it is an impulsive boy like Arjun on the hilltop, or a much more mature Onir now.

One has to have pity for such failings. It would have been far better for Onir to have put his foot down with Purvi and read her the riot act at once when she proposes the baby exchange, but she is his greatest weakness. He is not a young man in love, you see. He is someone who was perfectly happy with his patients and his idealism, till one day this girl came along and turned his well ordered world topsy turvy. When love hits an otherwise unlikely candidate like that, it hits him very hard. Now he cannot bear to see her unhappy, and that warps his judgement.

Even then, he is more sensible and firm in lecturing her post facto about the need, once she has made this decision, to stay the course, and yesterday he tells her bluntly that what she is doing is wrong for all concerned, especially for the baby, and that they should move forthwith to Kolkata. But it is too little and too late, and now he is well and truly in the suds.

I am not at all sure of the credibility of any case that could be made against him on the basis of the CCTV evidence, but why would that bother the CVs? I am now only waiting to see if Purvi limits her reaction to clinging to the bars of his cell at the police station and weeping buckets of (many would say crocodile) tears, or if she actually confesses to her vital part in the matter. Not that this will absolve Onir of the misdeed, but legally speaking, I do not think the case will hold if the Ds and Arjun and Ovi refuse to press charges.

There is, I am afraid, no reprieve for those of us wanting Purvi to get her just deserts.

Shyamala


@ ambolove: Thanks to you for creating the topic in the first place.

I am loving the discussion going on in the forum on this topic.

As a sane and normal human being, it is impossible for me to understand even Onir's actions and why he is so persistent when it comes to catering to Purvi's highhanded and inhumanly demands.

Onir was shown as a person who was always into doing the right thing and helping the needy rather than building a high profile career. So, his current actions present a very baffling and annoying paradox.



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Posted: 12 years ago
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@ Shyamala: I think I do agree with your explanation and especially the part where you mention that Onir is one of those unlikely candidates. However, one thing about Onir bothering me a lot is that he has never questioned or given a thought to the fact that Purvi has made ZERO ATTEMPTS to reciprocate his feelings. That is truly inexplicable for me.

In this entire pregnancy/kid donation/breast feeding fiaso, one person who was used/misused/abused and has lost the most is Onir.

  1. The poor guy was LITERALLY forced to come to Mumbai on "mahaanatam" lady whims.
  2. The guy had to live in the 2 room Deshmukh house with 5789 other members of the deshmukh/kirloskar family.
  3. The guy saw all the stupid dramas of the D/K family (including drama at Punni's sakharpuda ceremony, manjusha/savita argument, Sulochana's stupid asthma attack etc. etc.)
  4. The guy had to help "mahaantam" lady when she was being blackmailed by her ex would-be fiance.
  5. The guy had to exchange babies on "mahaantam's" whims
  6. And the guy is still continuing to play along with "mahaantam" lady's never ending mahanta's.
But, I also wonder if I should sympathize with him or not. In some sense, he asked for all this.
Finally, no point even wishing that mahaantam Purvi gets punished because we know it ain't happening. She is CERTIFIED mahaan.
Edited by Mohini19 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I'm at a loss as to how the CCTV video will be credible evidence in any court case. Unless of course there were some sort of tell tale signs such as pink blankets/blue blankets. Even then Onir can simply say that he switched blankets due to vomit? As far as my memory serves me, Pari had a white blanket and so did the dead baby. The court case ends there. Onir could plead innocence by saying he had simply wanted to show Arjun and Ovi, his and Purvi's new but very much dead baby and hadn't realized that Ovi was still unconscious. New born babies all tend to look the same and I'm assuming that Ovi/Purvi baby would have had a striking resemblance to each other.
As for organ traficking, Onir should show his respectibility and good reputation by refusing to do something so low and just hand himself in to the police to catch those that are doing the traficking. I don't think a man of his reputability should give into blackmailing demands.
The only way this show can be any less disgusting and actually pull back its reputation is if they somehow portray Purvi as a mental patient who dreamt up the fact that she slept with Arjun and breastfed a baby.
Edited by ambolove - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Well if there is ever a doubt in case of babies, a DNA test is always ordered...and the claim/dispute can come from any one...
Now, of course, a DNA analysis will dig out more dirt so we might end up seeing Purvi with the help of lover Onir switches her hair sample for Ovi's😆, so we will have many more reasons to debate 😉
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kalapi

Well if there is ever a doubt in case of babies, a DNA test is always ordered...and the claim/dispute can come from any one...

Now, of course, a DNA analysis will dig out more dirt so we might end up seeing Purvi with the help of lover Onir switches her hair sample for Ovi's😆, so we will have many more reasons to debate 😉



anything can happen Kalapi...the easiest way is...using the truth...get the DNA done for Onir-Arjun-Baby...in this test baby will be Arjun's, so matter solves for now as everyone believes Purvi will never have premarital sex...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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what i think for Onir character is...

Part 1:
Onir is a really good human...when he met Purvi he didn't know anything, he liked her simplicity of doing work in anadhashrama, he started feeling something for her, may be this is his first time he saw someone who is dedicated to orphans and teaching them really good, and everyone in orphanage praising about how kids got attached to Purvi in such a short time...he really saw a good human in Purvi...

Part 2:
He got to know Purvi is Pregoo, he controlled his emotions and told her she is preggo, and she needs rest, she should inform her near ones...then Purvi is said she doesn't have anyone...and the way she said things, made Onir to think how someone can do this to a good human like Purvi...

Part 3:
Onir decided whatever her past is past, and she doesn't have anyone, and my feelings are pure for her, they didn't start after getting to know she is preggo, so the feelings are not sympathy feelings...so lets forget about her past whatever it is...and lets start a new life if she agrees to marry me...

Part 4:
Onir went and proposed her, she asked sometime, then she also agreed, they both got married...

Part 5:
He is still unaware of the full truth, his love is so blind that he is just seeing what Purvi wants to show him...he completely forgot the roots of him...and he completely forgot his ambitions...

Onir started with really good feeling for Purvi, but he completely lost what is he in his blind love with Purvi...
I understand love doesn't happen with conditions...but PR loves makes most middle class families not to accept the love...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Ah! IF unbiased sense prevailed on IF...this thread would have been made sticky!
But then,If wishes were horses...they wouldn't be blinkered?!

The CVs/FektaMa ever heard of the concept of TOUGH LOVE?!
Purvi needs an elephantine dose of it asap!
Edited by znursingh - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mohini19

Asking anything logical for the current track of PR makes no sense.

But, I'll still ask. If this woman, Purvi was really concerned about Ovi, what is she still doing in Mumbai?

Wasn't the whole idea of Onir and Purvi staying in Mumbai was to treat Ovi? Ovi looks hale and hearty now. Why doesn't purvi get the hell out of Mumbai now?

And why can't purvi and Onir rent a house of their own than making a permanent home at the Deshmukh/Karanjkar house? Why is it that Purvi has one excuse after another to find a way not to get out of Arjun and Ovi's life?



I ask this question everyday to myself and the creative heads..

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