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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: harshadlover16

dude I a loyal fan of Arvi backed out yesterday .because i am so disgusted by the way story if progressing..i want justice for ovi





😕same here..!!!! dont know what nonsense is being shown !!!! 😡
being an ARVI fan,i really felt 2 bad for Ovi !!!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Kools,

So when I see it asserted in the forum that Purvi owes Onir nothing, I am surprised and a tad dismayed. One cannot forget that even if she does not owe him love, there is a little thing called gratitude, the absence of which is the blackest of sins. As you have pointed out repeatedly, if she had not had Onir to protect her, she would have ended up as an outcast unmarried mother in Kolkata, with no one even ready to rent her a room, and sneers and insults following her everywhere she went. Why, what would have happened to her if this scandal of the pyaar ki nishaani had surfaced in the Karanjkar chawl? The whole family would have had a very tough time of it warding off the calumny heaped on Purvi and then on them. It is only because of Onir that Purvi has escaped this sorry fate. And she does not owe him even gratitude?

Shyamala

Shymala dear, I couldn't help myself😃. You have hit the nail on its head, for recently I have concluded that when a man proposes, all the responsibilities and onus fall on him and him alone😉. It doesn't matter if the girl accepts, it only matters that a man has propose and so the girl owes him nothing, zilch😆...she just can walks away from him without even batting an eyelid and guilt free...God, I hope that there aren't many men in this forum, otherwise after reading these post, he will be far too cautious to take a risk of proposing😆..errr...then, in real life we will have no Romeo Juliet or that matter no love story...imagine a world where men are afraid to propose just because the girl owes him nothing at the end…will there be Darmiyaan then???😉

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Hi Mohini, thanks for opening up a new topic under the disgusting feed banner. I'm not sure if the mods had closed the topic regarding my posts or another? I always try never to use inappropriate language at all times!
I just wanted to reply to a few of the original posts:
CHINYERE: Hi and thanks for your post's. I understand what you are saying, I was once an avid ARVI fan myself but I don't blame JUST Ovi, I believe the same finger could be pointed at all three of them for THAT situation. Yes OVI tried to pay off Purvi for Arjun but what is happening now is beyond anything that I can comprehend. Breastfeeding someone elses child without their knowledge is wrong. Why is Purvi trying to bond with Pari after giving her away? Ovi is more than capable of looking after Pari and feeding her. She has become more mature and more responsible in recent times.
As for Purvi, she GAVE Pari away WILLINGLY to Ovi so now Pari belongs to Ovi.
Let's talk about morals: Ovi loves Arjun but Arjun loves Purvi and Purvi loves Arjun. I don't think Ovi once comprehended that two young indians of good morals would ever have sex before marriage.
So she wanted Arjun.
Purvi gave Arjun away. Arjun gave himself away. Ovi took him.
Arjun isn't a child. He was in his senses, he could see two women forcing him to do something he did not want to do. The simple answer should have been 'NO!'
Anyway. Pari is born.
Purvi gives Pari away.
Ovi breastfeeds her own child.
Purvi breastfeeds a child she gave away without the mothers knowledge.
This time Purvi is fully in the wrong.
If I gave birth and my sister breastfed the child without my knowledge, I would take her to court and screw her under a child abuse case.
I'm sorry but Purvi has lost all the appeal that she once had. She's lost it.
And thanks to Harshadlover16, Kalapi, SamjheYaSamjhao, Thapello, SparklingCider, cupcake247, coco101, pkarvi, JulieD, Koolsadhu1000, Sipokobusak, Sidgauri, Sherma, miadelrosario, Dabulls23, daljeet101, Pavrish, nivi.divi, Jesmina.S, Chinyere and of course Mohini for replying to the original topic.
Now I'm off to read Shyamala aunty's post.
Edited by ambolove - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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shyamala she owes Onir everything . He is her shield and neither does he know his own value nor does that immature selfish girl who laps up his attention as if she deserves it knows it .

Forget taunts by women ...the worst Purvi would have faced in Kolkata is the leerie eyeing and propositioning of men of all age groups ..right from twenties to fifties . And i really really wish she had coz the way she was looking amused and non chalant when he proposed out of maturity knowing the future that awaited her .as if it was his need not so much hers only shows the lack of brains , maturity and foresight ...it is bcoz of Onir that Arjun's child did not come illegitimately in the world .left to her ...she was not planning on telling the real father nor concerned that it would be born illegitimate ...she was happily basking in her new role at that NGO .

I absolutely dislike how Onir has pampered this selfish female ...especially with the baby swapping and jeopardising his medical degree but i give credit where it is due ...and the truth is , without Onir she is nothing . He should do exactly what she had done ...go off to Kolkatta by giving her an ultimatum . She will have to face many queries once he is gone . Thats what she deserves... ..ultimatums ...she deserves strictness not pampering . Ovi was criticized as being 'spoilt' but this woman has re defined that word ...imagine how she would be if she had got Ovi's lifestyle when she is so spoilt inspite of being middle class .

It is my personal comment that she deserved Mittal the devil not Onir the God . Mittal may be a devil but he knows his own value unlike Arjun and Onir . He would have also shown her her own value . He would have told her what it was in the world ...whether being an unwed mom increased it or decreased it . Mittal would have flatly refused to sleep on the floor and told her to sleep there herself and made it clear that once the child was born , he expected a real marraige or she she could go to hell .

Onir was her lucky charm that she never valued . She has destroyed him even worse than Arjun .



Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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So true Kool and Shymala that the humiliation that Onir will face will be public and destroy his reputation and all his good work forever - for this girl values no one, and the least - Onir. Onir will even have to compromise his ethics and principles further and work for Mittal (as has been predicted by Varsha I think somewhere) and support organ trafficking – unbelievable how Purvi leaves a path of destruction in her wake…Onir destruction will be horrific and in a normal world could be banned forever from his profession and lose his means of 'livelihood'……thanks god she is only fictional…

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Just like Archana defamed Manav with that stupid court case against him for chalu chawl walas, Purvi will defame this dorcto Dutt-A due to her secrets, premarital sex, pregnancy and baby swapping...Forget abt breast feeding is small compared to all that..Like mother like daughter..Daughter 10 steps ahead of mom
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@ ambolove: Thanks to you for creating the topic in the first place.

I am loving the discussion going on in the forum on this topic.

As a sane and normal human being, it is impossible for me to understand even Onir's actions and why he is so persistent when it comes to catering to Purvi's highhanded and inhumanly demands.

Onir was shown as a person who was always into doing the right thing and helping the needy rather than building a high profile career. So, his current actions present a very baffling and annoying paradox.

Secondly, as Kools pointed out, I am shocked and disgusted by the fact that Purvi has absolutely NO CONCERN AND REGARD for Onir's feelings, let alone a feeling of gratitude for him. This DISGUSTING EXCUSE of a WOMAN, Purvi, is treating Onir in a way that I wouldn't even think about an enemy. Her behavior towards Onir is outright INSENSITIVE, DISHONEST, DISRESPECTFUL, THANKLESS, and PARASITIC (sort of like a LEECH who would SUCK EVERY DROP of BLOOD out of its HOST, Onir in this CASE).

@ shyamala: You asked a very interesting question. If I were to categorically answer your question, I haven't stopped watching PR completely. But, as some kinda solace to myself, I haven't watched 85% of the episodes since Purvi moved back to Mumbai. I do make sure that I read the written updates everyday.

@Kalapi: I am on the same page as you when it comes to why the two damads are still hovering in the deshmukh and Karanjkar residences. I'm sure it again makes no sense to a sensible viewer.

@ Kools and others: The unethical professional behavior Onir has indulged in is shocking and makes me think, "What the hell were you thinking?". Personally, I am in a profession where issues such as plagiarism or cheating can destroy a person's career. I feel that changing babies in a hospital is probably 10 times worse than plagiarism ( of course, that's my opinion). And who would be responsible when Onir's career is destroyed because of this? of course, the eternally mahaan purvi. This woman is SELFISH, SELF-CENTRED, and THANKLESS to the core.

Finally, EK could care the least about a man's mentality and how males might feel watching her shows. And the ladies on this forum would realize why I am saying this.


Edited by Mohini19 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Kools,

With

Thats what she deserves... ..ultimatums ...she deserves strictness not pampering . Ovi was criticized as being 'spoilt' but this woman has re defined that word .

you have said it all. Nothing more need be said.

Shyamala


Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

shyamala she owes Onir everything . He is her shield and neither does he know his own value nor does that immature selfish girl who laps up his attention as if she deserves it knows it .


Forget taunts by women ...the worst Purvi would have faced in Kolkata is the leerie eyeing and propositioning of men of all age groups ..right from twenties to fifties . And i really really wish she had coz the way she was looking amused and non chalant when he proposed out of maturity knowing the future that awaited her .as if it was his need not so much hers only shows the lack of brains , maturity and foresight ...it is bcoz of Onir that Arjun's child did not come illegitimately in the world .left to her ...she was not planning on telling the real father nor concerned that it would be born illegitimate ...she was happily basking in her new role at that NGO .

I absolutely dislike how Onir has pampered this selfish female ...especially with the baby swapping and jeopardising his medical degree but i give credit where it is due ...and the truth is , without Onir she is nothing . He should do exactly what she had done ...go off to Kolkatta by giving her an ultimatum . She will have to face many queries once he is gone . Thats what she deserves... ..ultimatums ...she deserves strictness not pampering . Ovi was criticized as being 'spoilt' but this woman has re defined that word ...imagine how she would be if she had got Ovi's lifestyle when she is so spoilt inspite of being middle class .

It is my personal comment that she deserved Mittal the devil not Onir the God . Mittal may be a devil but he knows his own value unlike Arjun and Onir . He would have also shown her her own value . He would have told her what it was in the world ...whether being an unwed mom increased it or decreased it . Mittal would have flatly refused to sleep on the floor and told her to sleep there herself and made it clear that once the child was born , he expected a real marraige or she she could go to hell .

Onir was her lucky charm that she never valued . She has destroyed him even worse than Arjun .



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Posted: 12 years ago
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Nice thread...awesome posts by everyone...

Onir-Purvi rishta is based on some understanding...still not sure what is that understanding is...if its dosthi ka rishtha, a true friend should say what is correct what is wrong...if Purvi thinks Onir as friend she should think about his medical ethics before asking him to swap the baby...if Onir thinks Purvi is his best friend then he should stop doing somethings and make her realize, like Kools mentioned he should say enough is enough...

there was a discussion Onir is husband while swapping the babies...how all of the sudden he became husband from friend and again he became back to friend...let me accept for a minute Purvi-Onir are husband-wife/mother-father...then what are they for Ovi, why they didn't let her to cry on her stillborn...

I still support Purvi's decision not to have sex with many men...at the same time she doesn't have right to say arjun 'agar thumne mujhe sachha pyaar kiya tho ovi ko pathni dharja dho'...at the same time she doesn't have right to marry Onir on a deal basis to be safer side from society...

Purvi knows everyone put her on their head...she is just taking advantage of everyone...

Purvi's genuine thought of donating her baby immediately after the birth is to make Arjun-Ovi more closer...but doesn't she see Arjun is more sad about Purvi loosing the baby than Ovi having the baby...isn't she still eye-locking with arjun so that he cannot move...

why Onir has to remind her continuously that she has to control her mamtha...can anyone tell me 'why it is called mamtha'...

not just feeding, whole baby switching from beginning of the PR is BS...Sachhu should get attached more to Archu than Shravani...Soham should get attached more to Archu than Varsha...Twins should get attached more to archu than Savita...Madhuri should sacrifice everything for vyshu including varun...and now Pari should stop crying when she is in Purvi's arms...

really BS, a mom who donated baby on next minute of baby birth, can get milk on 11th day, and she is so pro to feed the baby in few minutes...

out from all the feeding thingy, these things really frustrated me
1. Purvi still went to hold the baby after serious warning of Ovi and sincere advise of Onir
2. Onir's expression when Ovi didn't let Purvi to touch the baby, he should have hold Purvi's shoulder just like he did so mnay times so that she won't step forward to hold the baby
3. Arjun thought still its ok to give the baby to Purvi, did he really understands what a mom means, he keep on saying about ashna, what is the meaning of mom that he understood

what i can just say is...Purvi doesn't have any value for any relation...she doesn't care for anyone...she is just a big attention seeker...

i bet, Purvi will not open her mouth even if Onir goes to jail because of Baby Swapping...its been a while Onir is serving to K family and still he didn't get his present - slapochana's slap...
Edited by m_masti - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Kools, Shyamala, Kalapi...

according to PR history, Purvi will never get any ultimatum, Purvi will be scot-free...

for having one-night stand-----Purvi will be called tyaagi...

for donating baby-----Purvi will be called mahaan tyagi...

when all truth comesout------Purvi will be sanskari mahaan tyaagi...


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