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Posted: 12 years ago
One thing is sure .

Evil or not can be a debatable view of Onir but as masti put it aptly once

Onir is gonna be the next bakra .

Where he went wrong

in not saying NO to Purvi ever . There were multiple times she was very wrong but he did all the rubbish she asked him to . His character development was halted bcoz of that attitude . He did exactly what Arjun did ...say 'YES' to whatever she suggested . When in reality the best medicene Purvi should have got were firm refusals . She would perhaps have been slightly shocked as she is so used to getting her way but that was exactly what was needed .

in deciding along with Purvi that wrong deeds r ok to do once in a while for 'improving others ' lives' . His own words . Well he needs to be told [ if his medical license is not cancelled] that it is not his and that screwed up 19 yr old's business to 'improve people's lives' . May i know who has given that 19 yr old the right to 'improve people's lives' ? And instead of correcting her sharply for this megalomania , he is joining her in this craziness ? How much of life has 19 yr old Purvi seen to determine what 'improves' and what deteriorates life in general ?

Husbands who become 'yes mens' of wives are not good husband s . Onir was one of the worst pamperers of Purvi ...Mishti , Mishti , Mishti all the time , he made her sit on his head .

Husbands who allow wives to control them professionally are not good as professionals either .

Whatever Mittal is , he read Punni clearly and kept her in place .

Onir could learn a thing or two from the man he is pulling to court .


It is not a question of being masterful or exciting , Onir did not even show the basics like self esteem that every human being must have .

The transparency and goodness of Onir was only in Kolkata . In Mumbai all he did was cover up his wife's deeds , at times crossing the ethical boundaries to do it .

He did not treat the poor in Mumbai . He treated his saali at his wife's behest .

He swapped babies coz his wife convinced him he would 'improve lives'

He witheld crucial information from a couple that their baby had died . Neither could they give their baby a proper funeral nor grieve over their loss . The baby was disposed off as if it was an roadside laash .

All i know is he will be the sufferer while Purvi will go scot free . I agree she is the master mind but Onir was even more idiotic than Arjun who had the good sense not to lie in court .


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Posted: 12 years ago
Kalapi,

I don't know about Onir being evil, he is truly a lallu and foolishly besotted husband ( JKG to a whole different level). Manav, I don't remember if he ever did this, but as much as he loves Archana, I don't know if he would do things against the law for lady love's sake. I mean, I don't see him as defying law and order or going against his own basic ethics or principles if Archana asked him to. He probably would reason out with her. I may be wrong, but I did not watch PR consistently at a point so I might have missed any occasion where he could have.

Onir has, as they say, in Bollywood, "apna zameer bech diya" and not for money in a helpless situation, or for getting out of a sticky adversity, but for lady love's weepy BS...I don't at all render his baby swapping idea as a lame attempt at impressing his Mishti so that she stays with him forever. He may be a fool, but as a doctor, he simply should know better. Which is why, I want his medical license stripped off. Right now, he seems way too arrogant about never being caught, and then having the audacity to file case against Mittal, only after having saved his own butt.

What I feel sympathy for however is, his blind faith in Purvi and her goodness. He truly believes she means well, he cannot even foresee what circumstances he is signing himself up for. he doesn't see through her sly ' humari galti' and thinks she will stick it out with him through thick and thin. I feel sorry on that count, that bichara really believes he has landed himself a true devi of a wife and she will be the savitri to his satyavan...but sadly she won't stand by him, much less, fight with the court for his release...she will stand in her maika, weeping tears and lapping up the attention that second lallu will offer...she will happily switch as per convenience..and if arjun gets serious about Ovi, she will wait till the next lallu comes along...such is her philandering personality that I will liken her to the kind of women that are called some very disgraceful names in society.

Btw guys, new promo shows our dearest lallu shedding tears of god knows what, but seems like they are of appreciation and gratitude ( as we suspected) for lady love Purvi as he finds out she was the one who donated child to Ovi. The dear lallu could not believe his eyes that someone could be so daryadaan and so pure and selfless. Well, I had no patience for that kind of devi-worship of a woman who would be called dayan otherwise in society. But, well, I guess the love-child bit will still take a while to uncover. One by one, CV's are taking slow steps towards truth unfolding. LOL.


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Posted: 12 years ago

Pari, I do not know when "evilness" grows in or develops in a person. When does a person becomes evil, what forces him/her? See the men who raped the women maynot have been evil to being with (that is been evil to everyone from childhood). But an act they committed transformed them into an evil person. So, the rape is condemned... the act as well as the perpetuators. And that one act might be enough or a series of crime that brings those crime to the forefront. When a person goes against the very nature of his profession, he does turn evil ...for he is not acting ethically. The first of Onir crime did start with the report ...we do not know how much was his involvement, but definitely he influenced it to happen. We might say, this is small, doesn't really affect anyone so ignore. But baby swapping is a huge offense ...we say he is lallu in love, but sadly a court of law doesn't accept that excuse. Moreover, in a court of law will find it hard to prove that Purvi was the mastermind behind the act... so, could be innocent and dealt leniently. No, I don't think being lallu will be acceptable in a Court nor a reason to overlook his crime. His crime becomes compounded simply for he is a doctor who is and should be trusted by patients and of course by doctor/patient confidentiality. Being LAllu isn't an adequate reason for him to get any cookie point. In USA, he will be simply banned, and no Court will consider his other good works ... this is so strict here.

Yes, I read the promo. I guess the CVs are trying so hard to prove Purvi as the mahaan queen. Is the stale Arjun Purvi union on the card? I am so eager to see, if stale shirt ka button can get high TRPS after so much dirty water has flown under the bridge. And even funnier, I find that the demand of the golden couple union is as strong, after of course a slap that Arjun gives to Purvi😆, what about that Ovi is the legal wife and Arjun and Ovi did conceive a child together...that makes no difference ...which world do I live in😕

Edited by Kalapi - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Kalapi

Pari, I do not know when "evilness" grows in or develops in a person. When does a person becomes evil, what forces him/her? See the men who raped the women maynot have been evil to being with (that is been evil to everyone from childhood). But an act they committed transformed them into an evil person. So, the rape is condemned... the act as well as the perpetuators. And that one act might be enough or a series of crime that brings those crime to the forefront. When a person goes against the very nature of his profession, he does turn evil ...for he is not acting ethically. The first of Onir crime did start with the report ...we do not know how much was his involvement, but definitely he influenced it to happen. We might say, this is small, doesn't really affect anyone so ignore. But baby swapping is a huge offense ...we say he is lallu in love, but sadly a court of law doesn't accept that excuse. Moreover, in a court of law will find it hard to prove that Purvi was the mastermind behind the act... so, could be innocent and dealt leniently. No, I don't think being lallu will be acceptable in a Court nor a reason to overlook his crime. His crime becomes compounded simply for he is a doctor who is and should be trusted by patients and of course by doctor/patient confidentiality. Being LAllu isn't an adequate reason for him to get any cookie point. In USA, he will be simply banned, and no Court will consider his other good works ... this is so strict here.

Yes, I read the promo. I guess the CVs are trying so hard to prove Purvi as the mahaan queen. Is the stale Arjun Purvi union on the card? I am so eager to see, if stale shirt ka button can get high TRPS after so much dirty water has flown under the bridge. And even funnier, I find that the demand of the golden couple union is as strong, after of course a slap that Arjun gives to Purvi😆, what about that Ovi is the legal wife and Arjun and Ovi did conceive a child together...that makes no difference ...which world do I live in😕


Kalapi, that is a good point that you have brought up! Your question does make one think, that when does someone become evil ? I absolutely resonate with your analogy for the rape crime as well. Although in the delhi rape case, the main accused was known to be a creep and stalker by his chawl people so one knows his previous mentality, but in many other cases, a perfectly normal person does something unbelievable criminal and you wonder what happened and the psyche of such a person is forever questioned. Like in the case of Sanjay Dutt or Salman Khan for example, both touted as the most loving and affable stars by their own fraternity, with a lot of good will from the charity that they do and all the humanitarian work too, but it does not absolve them at all of their past actions. For one, domestic violence and killing people and for the other a big hand in terrorism against his own country and countrymen. You really brought up a good question. Would we call both evil, keeping in mind what they are outside of their criminal space? Sallu is known to be a super loving guy and does a lot of humanitarian work and Sanju baba is known to be the most bankable friend and helping hand to anyone in the industry. But, can we keep that separate from their criminal acts? I guess not and the courts like you said, do not keep personalities, or charity or character testimonials as leeway for crime. But then would we call them criminals with evil intent? Or just normal human beings who made bad decisions? Sallu rode over people in a drunken state, which I highly condemn and hold him in very bad light for, but I don;t know if ever INTENDED to kill people. I could be wrong, but I don't know if he ever did this out of "hey, I wanna kill these people so bad, let's roll over them today". He should serve time, and should be stripped of driving forever I believe and all of murder charges should be placed, but I still wonder of the simple "intent" clause. Sanjay, after reading the Tehelka article about the case, he definitely had all the intent to kill people when he made comments at the time of being caught and being asked his intention by his father, so he, being a misguided teenager and brainwashed civilian, is no excuse. he had all intent to kill. I don't know about now, but yes at that time it made him a very evil person and that is why I am happy at the verdict today. The court would not give a dime for either Sallu's goodness, Sanju's testimonials or Onir's previous charity work for his needy patients. All three should be tried and convicted of their crimes.


For Onir, I don't know if I see him as evil yet. I mean, he doesn't seem like he intended to swap babies with the intention of taking away ArOVI;s rights to mourn their dead baby, or to take revenge on Arjun because he is Purvi;s ex ( although it would be interesting if this is the hook by which they make Onir negative in some kind of FB :P) nor with the intention of not wanting to raise his wife's love child so simply passing the baby off or just for thrills doing this baby swap. His intention was simply in believing that Ovi would be better off with a baby than without one, keeping in mind her mental haalat. Now, ofcourse, I have always maintained that whatever the intentions, when you screw up someone's life by being so arrogant as to think that you can make decisions for their life and do such big kaands, your intention goes right out the window and you are simply held for doing wrong and causing pain to people. I definitely do not care ofr his intention, whether it was Ovi's bhalaai or whether it was pleasing the femme fatale of his life. The outcome of the intention is what matters and that was disastrous and caused the indifferent burial of a child without parent's knowledge, passing off love child to someone else and playing the trust of your patients and much more your own family. I hold him accountable a lot more than Purvi, because she in my mind is of no character, but he had one, a very strong one and he should have played apt on that. So medical license should be stripped off because every one needs to pay for their wrong doings, and such a medical offense this is. A good guy doing the wrong thing is also always punished, no matter his past record, so Onir is no different in my eyes. So maybe in a way you are right, that Onir wasn't evil, but maybe after this criminal act, has gotten there. I don't know what I feel about it, to be honest. It is such a subjective way to look at things in my head.

Evil, I have always equated with the likes of Charles Manson, Hitler, Stalin, Idi Amin, Osama and the kind of people who derive immense pleasure in the suffering of others. IT is hard to explain, but people actions are simply out of the need to pain other people, to see their sorrow and gain pleasure from it, people with no "goodness" in them, but just a warped sadistic pleasure. you can argue that Onir sees his crime as deriving pleasure in knowing that Arjun-Ovi are raising the child and his pleasure at having escaped Mittal's allegations. I don't know, maybe you are right in justifying him as criminal. And I am being biased simply keeping his personality and his past good deeds in mind, so I may not be able to argue. But in my mind, evil does not conjure up with Savita, or Purvi even. Savita is wrong on many counts as you had pointed out, but I don't know if her actions stemmed out of sadistic pleasure or Purvi even, she is my most hated character on the show and I cannot ever justify her wrong doings, but I don't know if she gets sadistic pleasure out of hurting all the people she has hurt. She feels good thinking she has helped these people out. I don;t know, I am so confused suddenly about evil, you have put me in thinking mode :)

Want to know everyone's thoughts on evil! Thanks Kalapi for putting this forward. :) The thread is quiet so this gives something to think and talk about !
Edited by pari87 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago

no gaurav, it was holi special so just some performances nothing else! not worth catching even the dances...
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Posted: 12 years ago
New Promo seems another way of making audiences Ullu.
Pari,Kalpi,Kools,Varsha di,Masti hello guys.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: pari87



no gaurav, it was holi special so just some performances nothing else! not worth catching even the dances...

I get irritated when a single song is played in each n every event but i didn't got time to have a look over it.
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Posted: 12 years ago
Kalapi dear, for your last para, don't you know that Ovi being the one who made the deal has no rights to marriage or baby? Both should be taken away from her just to make pavitra milan happen! After seeing the dislikes on Shruti's fanpage, I have very little faith in humanity and believe really that people today can totally be shallow, petty and ruthless about anything that gets in the way of their own percieved happiness or goals.

but for the show's sake, I do want ARVI re-union and a fresh start for Ovi. She should get her own first hand man, and Purvi should get Ovi's left overs this time because that is what she gave to Ovi in the first place. I do think though that Purvi would not accept Arjun, so he is going to be the ball in the donkey game. Onir has weighed down too much debt and guilt on Purvi ( if she feels any) for her to leave him midway to re-unite with jeejaji.

but yeah, with regards to Ovi, people honestly have no objective opinion, just a callous and shallow idea because she halted the desirable shirt da button fantasies that people saw on screen :P

I just want Ovi to apologize for the deal once and for all, because I do see that as a wrong move. She should not have traded her father's happiness ( I don;t see why she should care for her non-existent mother's happiness) for the man she loved. She has abandonment issues and one can give a lot of justifications for her deal making, but in the end, we know it was wrong. But, that does not mean that she caused the ARVI separation because that was caused by pavitra jodi themselves. But post the deal, Ovi has done no wrong and she has already apologized to Purvi for holding her wrong, to Arjun for drinking and putting their child to risk, to Archana for how she behaved in the past with her. She has nothing more to apologize for. she keeps Punni a distance away and does not get swayed by her gossip or warning without reasoning it out first. Ovi has had tremendous growth in her character and none of her choices or behavior are damaging to anyone, unlike Purvi;s. So once she says oh sory Arjun for making the deal, she is absolved in my eyes for anyone ever raising a finger against her. IT is not her duty to tell her husband, to go back to ex. If Arjun had a spine he should have done that himself.
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Posted: 12 years ago
Kools,

I should have known you would know the story about Samson & Delilah.

Yes, the Biblical Stories are very fascinating and definitely induces faith. I grew up on those stories as young as 3 yrs old in school.

They have them in audio, if you sometimes just want to listen.😃

Edited by hillydee - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
Hi Shyamala

You can call me Hilly.😃

Well, I came up with the word 'evil,' because my view is that, a lie is a lie and there is no lesser or greater lie. Even if we think we are doing good, lying for that sake is still wrong. However, as humans we tend to believe that only severe crimes, like murder or rape is an Evil act.

Onir's crime is Evil to me because he lied, and this lie can lead to Ovi going into shock and possible getting seriously ill ( we know how emotionally fragile Ovi is) Also, if he gets away with it. In the future, suppose Pari finds out later on, wouldn't that have serious impact on the baby in the future? In the west, a lot of people spend a lot of money in therapy for not knowing their real parents, being abandoned and the list goes on.

To me Evil is a matter of conscience, what you feel is the difference between wrong or right. To me Wrong is Evil, and Right is Good.
So, this is based on my personal code of Ethics. Now, I say he is an 'Evil Person,' because he is constantly justifying his behaviour and he shows no sign of remorse.
If he was showing guilt or remorse, then I would call him helpless, a lallu, idiotic etc. etc.
Then he had the audacity to show his superiority to Mittal. Mittal is evil he is doing an unethical and illegal business, and Onir, disposing of someone's baby, not telling parents, not even a funeral, is just as bad.
He could have informed the parents and still offer Pari to them, but no he is doing a wrong act and passing it off as good.
Just plain evil to me.


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