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koolsadhu1000 thumbnail
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Posted: 12 years ago
no hilly u did not give any wrong info

a few more typical indian sanskaars

pre marital sex ...a firm no no

making husband sleep on the floor ...a firm no no

definete distinction between maika and sasural and indians believe that a married woman's home is her husband's home and if she stays in her mom's house for long it is questionable and shameful both

a son in law is not supposed to stay for long periods in his wife's maika unless he is a ghar jamaai [ a situation blessed by elders where daughter is only child] ...indians look at it with contempt saying the man seems to have no self respect

the pre marital sex is nowdays changing but still 80 % of the indians have a traditional mind set and frown on it . I am not saying its right or wrong , thats just the way the indian culture is .


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Posted: 12 years ago
Dear hillydee,

Of course, I agree with your take on the Delilah style cunning in women who do such a number on foolish, trusting men. The thing is that even today, in most parts of the world, the men are more powerful, so there are more Delilahs than the other way around. There must still be men who dupe women for their money, but not for their power. As the overt power of women grows, we will undoubtedly see the male equivalent of Delilah too.

Incidentally, the movie. Samson and Delilah, was perfectly cast, and Hedy Lamarr was the epitome of what could be called delilahness, wasn't she? Maybe Greta Garbo could have done it too, but she was always remotely lovely, like an ice maiden, and she never had the kind of smouldering sensuality that Delilah would need.

Incidentally, you might have noted that there is going to be a new 9 pm serial on Sony from today. It has the prettiest girl around in Hindi TV at present, Sanaya Irani - whose huge hit in IPKKND I did not watch, as a couple of episodes with that terminally idiotic family put me off, so much so that not even the very handsome leads could salvage it for me. They talk of Arjun-Purvi's so-called chemistry; it was nothing to that between Barun Sobti and this girl in the couple of episodes that I did watch. No wonder the channel closed the show down when the hero quit. Now that is star power!

To revert, there are also a couple of handsome dogs in that Chanchan, yes, that is the name of the serial, and it is promised that there will be no rona dhona. So I will try it out. In any case, Sanaya is good to look at, unlike the bedraggled, ever weepy Purvi, who, of late, seems to have lost all her looks.

As of now, I watch only Saraswatichandra, which continues to do well, Devon ke Dev Mahadev, and the weekly Ramayana, plus PR, where the real attraction is my mother's caustic running commentary on the goings on.

So this would be worth trying, and who knows, it might even be light and pleasant.

Shyamala

Originally posted by: hillydee

Hi Shyamala,


Excellent Post!!

I am so glad someone knows that story😆

Yes, you are so right, Delilah did go back to Samson and died with him. Something Purvi will never do for either Arjun or Onir.
However, I was trying to take out my piece regarding how she got him to tell her the secret of his strength.😆

Purvi is a piece of work.

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Posted: 12 years ago
btw hilly, i too know about Samson and Delilah

bilblical stories interest me since childhood

i remember seeing the movie Samson and Delilah in school [ they slowed us biblical movies if they were released on a projector in the school hall] and being super thrilled that Samson's strength returned😆😆

the other movie i remember is Pilgrim's Progress , even there i was more interested in the devil who surfaced to tempt coz his nails were painted black😆😆

i remember staring fascinatedly at the black nail polish

was too young to understand the deeper significance of the stories then , but did as i grew up

still read the Bible and its stories still fascinate me , only difference is i read them with detail now and also the research articles done on them . They r beautiful and induce faith .




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Posted: 12 years ago
Dear Karly,

Don't laugh at me, but what is mkkpb? I do not watch most serials, whence my unpardonable ignorance!😉 And if it is from Khubsoorat, I hope it is the original one with Rekha.

As for dumping PR, I have already ditched BALH two months ago, after watching it from the beginning, and if Chanchan is good, I will quit PR too. Since the 6 month leap, I think I stayed only because I Iike Onir's simple and transparent goodness of heart.

Shyamala B.Cowsik

Originally posted by: karly.mkkpb


chanchan is going to be like mkkpb as both are said to have been derived from the movie khubsoorat. i miss my mkkpb so much😭😭😭. i am definitely going to watch chan chan and dump pr





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Posted: 12 years ago
that younger bahu in mkkpb looked sweet .
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Posted: 12 years ago
Thanks a lot, Karly.

Shyamala B.Cowsik

Originally posted by: karly.mkkpb

mkkpb means mrs kaushik ki paanch bahuein. the show with which zee did maximum injustice by not giving it a single promo, no mahaepisode nothing. on top of that they used to cancel its episodes from time to time when they showed qh-pv mahasangams. 🤬.
now from the past 3-4 weeks the trps of zee shows are decreasing and even zee's grps are decreasing. karma definitely bites back😈😈

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Posted: 12 years ago
Dear Hillydee,

Not evil, my dear! Misguided, idiotic, lallu, whatever, but not evil, please!

I am not saying this because I have a soft corner for Onir despite all his follies, though I do, very definitely. It is more because evil is a very serious word and one does not use it lightly.

Evil would be the gang rapists and murderers who attacked Nirbhaya in that Delhi bus on Dec 16 last with such unbelievable brutality and callousness . Evil would the football team members from Steubenville, Ohio, who drugged a 16 year old, dragged her comatose body from one house to another, violated her any number of times, in ways natural and unnatural, took videos of it all, tweeted proudly about what they had done, circulated the videos as MMSes, and jeered about "the dead girl" as someone who deserved not only what she got, but also that they should relieve themselves on her inanimate body.

I do not know where to place the football worshippers in the town who, when the story was finaly broken fully 4 months later, attacked the journalist who dug it out, and trashed the girl as a willing participant because they did not want the bulk of their football team to go to jail.

Reverting to PR, if one says that Onir is evil because of the baby swapping, for there is nothing else to lay at his door, we would have to classify Savita,. Sachin, Ovi and many others as even worse evildoers. This would totally devalue the term 'evil'.

Further, to equate deeds of very different degrees of culpability, for example Mittal having his minions harvest organs from uninformed donors, some of whom might even have been disposed of for that purpose,and Onir's folly in giving away his wife's baby with a view to, as he is told by his mishti, protecting Ovi from having a breakdown, would not be correct either. He does not do it for personal gain, but out of a mistaken indulgence towards his wife plus the belief that he is helping Ovi and Arjun.

So, I do not agree that Onir worse than Mittal, for he and his follies are in no way comparable to Mittal's, not does he qualify for the title of 'evil'. You, of course, need not agree with me at all,but I wanted to put down what I feel.

Shyamala

Originally posted by: hillydee

Varsha Homie🤗


I sure miss you😃

I agree with you that Onir is worse than Mittal. Mittal is evil no secret about it. However, Onir is portrayed as a good guy who loves his wife, but is willing to illegally swap babies, break medical vows, which is one of the ethics code of conduct in Medicine etc.
When a person is evil and you know his face it is upsetting, but when a person pretends to be good and does evil, it makes be Angry.😡

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Posted: 12 years ago
Man I finally saw Friday's episode. JPBP Sulo had full on make up. Did u all catch that? What an audacity of Onir to walk into Telu Mittal's home threatening & mocking him ...grrr moment


What Onir has done to is no way one can compare to Mawali Savita, bad Ovi with. Savita, Ovi are angels who have not committed legal crimes. Than again this is my view and posting it.

I loved Arjun and liked Onir until hell (purvi) broke loose. Cross their paths with her.


Karly superb post abv. 👏👏
Edited by Dabulls23 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
Hello ladies,

Such great posts by everyone! Loved them..I was travelling this weekend too so could only read the posts on the phone and couldn't write back!

Shyamala Aunty,

I must agree on a previous post that I come with my biases :P I had them for Arjun, I have them for Onir :P But the baby swapping is not pardonable in my eyes even if he would have slept on the bed and been a real man to stand up to Purvi. But then, if he were, he would not have swapped babies either..So what can I say! :)

Hillydee, loved your post on Purvi and the tragedy for the real children of Manav-Archana..Agree with each and every word on your posts! Do keep writing on KC, I would really enjoy reading your take!

Teju and kools loved your posts too...esp your last para tejaswini about the couples and what they mean to each other...What a fine analysis and perfect way to put it..really enjoyed reading it..Welcome back Teju! missed you too around the forum! Kools, I agree on eahc count that Ovi should be granted a good life, even if away from Arjun. I honestly wish they show enough character development in her, that when she finds out about Pari being a love child between Arjun-Purvi, the backstabbing that they both did, the absolute disregard that Onir and Purvi showed towards her, the carelessness and indifference of her husband towards her, she should get up, and leave Arjun. I don't want her to necessarily unite Purvi-Arjun as much of the forum thinks that would absolve her of all wrong-doings ( ??? ) but, I just want her to walk out on Arjun. he can choose what he wants after that, but Ovi should simply show self-respect and not some philanthropic move by uniting the lovers. Then, they should show her to have a fulfilling life, either with a loving husband and baby or a career or both actually. why should she not have both?

Onir, well, I don't know where and how they would redeem his actions. but I certainly hope that they don't butcher him any further because he did start out as a breath of fresh air from the stale ARVI. I don't think he deserves the kind of pitiful situation he is in right now either. Loved your post Shyamala aunty on what makes him so besotted with Purvi. So true and after reading that, he has evoked sympathy in me! :)


as for Purvi, worst leads in a long time. She does outdo Archana on many counts. And clearly someone I will never have sympathy for. I do not like her and I wish that she gets all the karma she deserves truly on the show. Punishment,m reprimanding and absolute distance from family is what she should get. Back to Kolkatta and this time without Onir. But then, our dearest has no wild time finding a new man :P So hard to say she will stay "punished" for long!

Varsha di- have missed you so much on teh forum 🤗welcome back!!! :) Hope your vacation was wonderful! The sun and sand must have really been very welcome ! :)

Let us see what new unfolds in PR today :P I am all on team Punni for now!


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Posted: 12 years ago

I guess I disagree. What Onir did was evil in any sense, he by himself acted God and now, if the truth remains hidden the baby will never know what happened in that faithful night, nor Ovi and Arjun know that they did have a dead baby. It is to be evil, as Onir played with his Hippocratic oath, the same Oath he takes to 'do the right thing". Any preggo mothers will think twice before trusting an OBGYN. What more it was a mistake, he supported his wife's whim with his sane brain. If this isn't evil what is?

Now for Ovi, what did she do? Yes, she brought a deal that Purvi accepted and forced Ajun to accept? She was transparent with an interaction... a business interaction that happens all over the world. What more, she was upfront about it with her dad and also Arjun about it. I am sure many considered her evil for she comes between the Golden Couple, but I don't. She is as straightforward with her demands, as any business interaction I am part of.

Sachin ... He knew that Savita signed the document, yes, so he concealed that truth. But, he didn't do it himself. Of course he is evil for he is son of Shravani. But, er...when the truth came out he did confess too. Well, I guess that makes him evil...but no one can prove that he knew that Savita did a forgery of the documents...but, in case of Onir, there is evidence much more than those recording...

Savita of course is a different ball game, and she did many things that can't be supported. I am not supporting those actions at all ...for some were domestic violence, but the finally separation of Arman, are hardly her fault. But then, then the tickets that weren't delivered, so many does lay that claim there ... I guess, Archana couldn't really get a phone call to Canada ... well, Vandu was there...but, I give you that Savita wasn't an ideal Saas

But, Onir, he is playing with his professional ethics and isn't Evil...you know if the truth comes out, he will surely lose his license ... that is how serious this issue is...and Indian medical council will not cnsider the mahaan reason behind it and set an example for other OBGYN - and if it is for FDA - they will put a lifelong ban of Onir -

Originally posted by: sashashyam

Dear Hillydee,

Not evil, my dear! Misguided, idiotic, lallu, whatever, but not evil, please!

I am not saying this because I have a soft corner for Onir despite all his follies, though I do, very definitely. It is more because evil is a very serious word and one does not use it lightly.

Evil would be the gang rapists and murderers who attacked Nirbhaya in that Delhi bus on Dec 16 last with such unbelievable brutality and callousness . Evil would the football team members from Steubenville, Ohio, who drugged a 16 year old, dragged her comatose body from one house to another, violated her any number of times, in ways natural and unnatural, took videos of it all, tweeted proudly about what they had done, circulated the videos as MMSes, and jeered about "the dead girl" as someone who deserved not only what she got, but also that they should relieve themselves on her inanimate body.

I do not know where to place the football worshippers in the town who, when the story was finaly broken fully 4 months later, attacked the journalist who dug it out, and trashed the girl as a willing participant because they did not want the bulk of their football team to go to jail.

Reverting to PR, if one says that Onir is evil because of the baby swapping, for there is nothing else to lay at his door, we would have to classify Savita,. Sachin, Ovi and many others as even worse evildoers. This would totally devalue the term 'evil'.

Further, to equate deeds of very different degrees of culpability, for example Mittal having his minions harvest organs from uninformed donors, some of whom might even have been disposed of for that purpose,and Onir's folly in giving away his wife's baby with a view to, as he is told by his mishti, protecting Ovi from having a breakdown, would not be correct either. He does not do it for personal gain, but out of a mistaken indulgence towards his wife plus the belief that he is helping Ovi and Arjun.

So, I do not agree that Onir worse than Mittal, for he and his follies are in no way comparable to Mittal's, not does he qualify for the title of 'evil'. You, of course, need not agree with me at all,but I wanted to put down what I feel.

Shyamala

Edited by Kalapi - 12 years ago

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