Predict : Ovi's reaction - Page 7

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

No probs Jyothi , my dislike of Purvi 's actions is the same . Too too deep it runs . Also since i have a habit of looking at each thing from my perspective [ which all do] if i was Arjun i would not forgive Purvi more than even Ovi as the betrayal of the loved one hurts the most if u consider the other indifferently or as a villain . Here i do not consider Arjun as the victim as he is a grown adult who has listened to Purvi with a choice not to exercise his brains . I feel sorry for him for being so much under her thumb but where responsibility for his actions is concerned ...he must take it for listening to that betrayer . Only then will he grow up and his character will have some development .

Originally posted by: pari87

Hi Arch,

I absoluely agree on the point of Arjun-Purvi, whatever you have said. Thankfully, you are more than half objective about the scenario which is hard to find. :P

I loved Arjun-Purvi before the wedding night and excused them for everything prior, even though I thought Purvi should never have taken Arjun back after she found out about Ovi, simply because she was the one who wanted family and her mom's happiness more than anything. But, I excused her. I even let it slide that Arjun did not tell Ovi/Purvi about each other and did not even give respect to his friendship by being there for her through the breakup and suicide. I disliked Ovi so much then, it kind of let Arjun/Purvi off the hook for anything they did against her.

But, after the marriage, a lot of people on this forum wanted Purvi and Arjun to get back despite the heartless deal she had accepted and forced Arjun into. They all said, "oh I hope the marriage was fake, or I hope that he walks out on Ovi and gives Purvi a hard time and she comes crawliing back feeling pathetic". Now, when Purvi can be given a second chance, why cannot Ovi? I lost all hope on Purvi for making that one forced choice on Arjun and ruining his life forever. I even disliked Arjun more for not standing up for himself. Even then, post the sham of a marriage and his one-day wrath when he tells her " You did what you had to, now watch what I do". I thought one last chance for both, where he divorces Ovi because he found out about her end of the deal, I thought he will make Purvi suffer and she will soon come to her senses. I gave them both that much space for redemption in my head. I knew I was wrong, but I let them be thinking of foolish immaturity that plagues lovers at a young age.

But I was done giving chances to both of them when it was a month and he was eye lockign with Purvi, without walking out on Ovi, keeping his marriage going, she was still holding reigns on him with her doe eyes and demure halwa making nonsense. The last straw was her asking him to consummate his marriage and running away herself blaming her kartoots on Ovi's securities and simply hiding her pre-marital sex story. That was it!

So, objectively, when everyone is sTILL giving chances to Purvi and Arjun for the plethora of wrongs they are still comitting, Ovi feels like a breath of fresh air. She made one deal and that is it. Since then, she has been redeeming herself, by being apologetic to Arjun at every chance. She is respectful of his dad, does her housewife duties, and overall is putting in every effort to win him over. At this point, she is the one taht deserves a secodn chance at being looked at objectively.

This is why I have turned over to Ovi, she is real and flawed and I do beleive I disliked her for being spoilt and tantrum-types and also for being so blind as to not see that Arjun loved someone else. But I do blame a part of that psyche on Arjun, not having sat her down and been calm and nice about the breakup. He just broke it on her. she took time to get out of depression and delusions. But now she is shining more than Purvi's fake halo and more than Arjun's pitiable love. She has redeemed herself and I wish the forum that hates her with a vengeance could see that. That is what I mean when I say objectivity, which lacks throughout. :P

This is not to offend anyone, was just putting my point across as to how someone who hated her, loved ARVI and rooted for them, switched over to her side :)

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

About ' vashikaran'

in mantra vidya there is a special mantra for this phenomenon

in english it is called hypnosis

but thats the closest word that comes to describing it . It is not exactly that . But yes , its the closest . It means holding total sway over a person to make him or her do ur bidding .

Any guesses who that is in PR and who is the hypnotised party .

Marry my sis . Ok boss .

Now sleep with her . Ok boss .

Give her present . Ok boss .

😆😆😆 Ovi is hardly the vashikaran type . Very direct and confrontational . Her straightforward tantrums r even called as spoilt by those who don't like them .

Vashi karan types r the ones who stay behind the curtains and pull the strings and hold absolute sway . In olden days wives used it to tame wild husbands and prevent them from going to other women ...or other women used them to ensnare men and prevent them from going back to their wives .

Vashi karan types r quiet , firm ones who tell u exactly what u want to hear but actually have something else in their heart .

For that matter even Onir is under vashi karan .😆

archverma this is what i feel

The baby that died did not belong to Ovi alone it was Arjun's baby too .

This crucial info about his personal loss should not have been witheld from him .

Purvi did not plan to tell him that his child had come in the world when she was carrying . She planned to keep quiet on that one if his baby with Ovi had survived and she was planning to raise it chupchaap with Onir .

I feel that Arjun deserved to know in both the instances . Its his baby and nowhere has he indicated unwillingness to take responsibility for his mistake .

He has a complete right over his grief .

Decisions r made for Arjun and its time he revolts . He simply must put an end to the misunderstanding that the child belongs only to the woman and she can do whatever she pleases with it ...give it to Onir or donate it within hours of delivery .

Arjun must refuse to give his daughter back if demanded . Its not just Ovi who has been tricked ...its him too .

It has nothing to do with Onir's goodness . This is about his right . He has no right as shown in the serial but justs drifts like a kite with his ex's whims .

He should not give his daughter back and unlike Manav .be unrepentant about it . Wear transparent white saris or lemon yellow noodle strap frocks in the rain Arjun must never repent on not giving up his daughter and hold on tight to her till the end .

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Varsha ur not wrong ...the verb vash in sanskrit , marathi or hindi means the same ...to captivate .