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archverma10

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Posted: 12 years ago

#51

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
About ' vashikaran'

in mantra vidya there is a special mantra for this phenomenon

in english it is called hypnosis

but thats the closest word that comes to describing it . It is not exactly that . But yes , its the closest . It means holding total sway over a person to make him or her do ur bidding .

Any guesses who that is in PR and who is the hypnotised party .

Marry my sis . Ok boss .

Now sleep with her . Ok boss .

Give her present . Ok boss .

😆😆😆Ovi is hardly the vashikaran type . Very direct and confrontational . Her straightforward tantrums r even called as spoilt by those who don't like them .

Vashi karan types r the ones who stay behind the curtains and pull the strings and hold absolute sway . In olden days wives used it to tame wild husbands and prevent them from going to other women ...or other women used them to ensnare men and prevent them from going back to their wives .

Vashi karan types r quiet , firm ones who tell u exactly what u want to hear but actually have something else in their heart .

For that matter even Onir is under vashi karan .😆

archverma this is what i feel

The baby that died did not belong to Ovi alone it was Arjun's baby too .

This crucial info about his personal loss should not have been witheld from him .


Purvi did not plan to tell him that his child had come in the world when she was carrying . She planned to keep quiet on that one if his baby with Ovi had survived and she was planning to raise it chupchaap with Onir .


I feel that Arjun deserved to know in both the instances . Its his baby and nowhere has he indicated unwillingness to take responsibility for his mistake .


He has a complete right over his grief .


Decisions r made for Arjun and its time he revolts . He simply must put an end to the misunderstanding that the child belongs only to the woman and she can do whatever she pleases with it ...give it to Onir or donate it within hours of delivery .


Arjun must refuse to give his daughter back if demanded . Its not just Ovi who has been tricked ...its him too .


It has nothing to do with Onir's goodness . This is about his right . He has no right as shown in the serial but justs drifts like a kite with his ex's whims .


He should not give his daughter back and unlike Manav .be unrepentant about it . Wear transparent white saris or lemon yellow noodle strap frocks in the rain Arjun must never repent on not giving up his daughter and hold on tight to her till the end .

OMG! Kools...yaar AMEN. Nothing more to say. Very well said... 👏

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miadelrosario

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Posted: 12 years ago

#52

Originally posted by: rayadallie
I am not sure which mother people are talking about as it was Savita's doings that caused Archana to be the mother described above.

I dont care what a mother may do, she is like any other human being and mistakes she can make like us children also. the only difference is that she fetched us children and nurture us in her womb for nine precious months bearing all tribulations to get us here. We nurse from her. I guess it was no enough to at least show her some respect. Our happiness should matter more than hers. No wonder purvi did sacrificed her love arjun for that same mother that did not nuture her for 9mths.

In reality , many times, strangers treat us better than our own kit and kin. My POV

yep! I agree!

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archverma10

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Posted: 12 years ago

#53

Kools am not sold on Ovi and never will be. We will agree to disagree on her because I will never excuse Ovi in any capacity--agree to disagree here :)...But you hit the nail right in the middle of the head for Arjun and Purvi..damn right!!! She was indeed going to never tell him about his baby and doesnt give a shit about his emotions or feelingz. Gonna stop talking now as Im already seeing 😡

Cant get started on the mahanta queen...wont be able to control myself

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pari87

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Posted: 12 years ago

#54

Originally posted by: archverma10
Kools am not sold on Ovi and never will be. We will agree to disagree on her because I will never excuse Ovi in any capacity--agree to disagree here :)...But you hit the nail right in the middle of the head for Arjun and Purvi..damn right!!! She was indeed going to never tell him about his baby and doesnt give a shit about his emotions or feelingz. Gonna stop talking now as Im already seeing 😡

Cant get started on the mahanta queen...wont be able to control myself

Hi Arch,

I absoluely agree on the point of Arjun-Purvi, whatever you have said. Thankfully, you are more than half objective about the scenario which is hard to find. :P

I loved Arjun-Purvi before the wedding night and excused them for everything prior, even though I thought Purvi should never have taken Arjun back after she found out about Ovi, simply because she was the one who wanted family and her mom's happiness more than anything. But, I excused her. I even let it slide that Arjun did not tell Ovi/Purvi about each other and did not even give respect to his friendship by being there for her through the breakup and suicide. I disliked Ovi so much then, it kind of let Arjun/Purvi off the hook for anything they did against her.

But, after the marriage, a lot of people on this forum wanted Purvi and Arjun to get back despite the heartless deal she had accepted and forced Arjun into. They all said, "oh I hope the marriage was fake, or I hope that he walks out on Ovi and gives Purvi a hard time and she comes crawliing back feeling pathetic". Now, when Purvi can be given a second chance, why cannot Ovi? I lost all hope on Purvi for making that one forced choice on Arjun and ruining his life forever. I even disliked Arjun more for not standing up for himself. Even then, post the sham of a marriage and his one-day wrath when he tells her " You did what you had to, now watch what I do". I thought one last chance for both, where he divorces Ovi because he found out about her end of the deal, I thought he will make Purvi suffer and she will soon come to her senses. I gave them both that much space for redemption in my head. I knew I was wrong, but I let them be thinking of foolish immaturity that plagues lovers at a young age.

But I was done giving chances to both of them when it was a month and he was eye lockign with Purvi, without walking out on Ovi, keeping his marriage going, she was still holding reigns on him with her doe eyes and demure halwa making nonsense. The last straw was her asking him to consummate his marriage and running away herself blaming her kartoots on Ovi's securities and simply hiding her pre-marital sex story. That was it!

So, objectively, when everyone is sTILL giving chances to Purvi and Arjun for the plethora of wrongs they are still comitting, Ovi feels like a breath of fresh air. She made one deal and that is it. Since then, she has been redeeming herself, by being apologetic to Arjun at every chance. She is respectful of his dad, does her housewife duties, and overall is putting in every effort to win him over. At this point, she is the one taht deserves a secodn chance at being looked at objectively.

This is why I have turned over to Ovi, she is real and flawed and I do beleive I disliked her for being spoilt and tantrum-types and also for being so blind as to not see that Arjun loved someone else. But I do blame a part of that psyche on Arjun, not having sat her down and been calm and nice about the breakup. He just broke it on her. she took time to get out of depression and delusions. But now she is shining more than Purvi's fake halo and more than Arjun's pitiable love. She has redeemed herself and I wish the forum that hates her with a vengeance could see that. That is what I mean when I say objectivity, which lacks throughout. :P

This is not to offend anyone, was just putting my point across as to how someone who hated her, loved ARVI and rooted for them, switched over to her side :)

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Posted: 12 years ago

#55

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1
Kools, thanks for agreeing with me that Ovi will spit fire and brimstone when she discovers the truth, it was I who wrote that😆

Thanks for the chuckle at the picture of Ovi as the wronged one who had been dealt so many hard blows that she was forced into playing hard ball. Good one, that! 😆

Pampered, spoilt rotten, hard pressed to understand the word "no", when the guy she presumably (presumably because if that is her definition of love, heaven help Arjun!) loved said he did not want to get hitched to the likes of her for life, she plays hard ball alright, she tries to buy him off with money, when that fails, challu that Ovi is, she hits hard against Purvi's Achilles' heel, her aai, and proceeds with cold blooded cunning to use her own mother to get the toy (Arjun) she wants! Bechari Ovi, my foot! 😃 Conniving is not new to her nature, the two instances in Canada prove that clearly.

What did Ovi lack? The blows that she has been dealt? Unrequited love? Happens all the time but yes, to someone like her who lives in the la la land of self aggrandizement that is a hard pill to swallow. Or is it her mother's love? That was not her mother's fault, blame should be placed fairly and squarely at her dad's door and her aaji's feet!

But then not all children bereft of parental love turn out like Ovi, do they? Teju, Arjun, Purvi, they all turned out not selfish or deluded, it is only Ovi's mental make-up of "I, me, myself" that makes her act the way she does. She cannot help it and in that sense, yes, she is to be pitied. I cannot wait for the day fire and brimstone are breathed upon her in plenty, she deserves all the punishment she can possibly get. My POV😉

Brilliant post soapwatcher- take a bow!!👏

I don't understand how persons can defend Ovi's actions of blackmailing and making sordid deals to procure Arjun like a piece of furniture- when Arjun clearly did not love her ( and still does not) and was (and still is) clearly in love with Purvi !! Gosh- the girl thinks only about 'me, myself and I" !! I have never seen a more selfish person ever!!

I sincerely hope that when the truth comes out that her 'perfect baby' is none other than her 'perfect husband' Arjun's and Purvi's child- that she goes cuckoo/bunkers for a long time!! I for one will be jumping for joy if that happens as the wench Ovi deserves nothing less for all the unrepentant wrongs that she has committed!!

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 12 years ago

#56

What wrong has she done

offered the deal ? for that uptill now the punishments thought for her r

her baby should die

she should die

she should find out that her baby had died and she has Purvi's baby which Purvi donated , Purvi's lori and hubby that has been made jhoota by pre marital sex and then given up...all she has is Purvi's jhootan with Purvi constantly hovering around her ...first making lauki halvas and goo goo gaa gaa eyes from the kitchen and then doing mamta nautankies after an unforced voluntary decision which is a follow up of the first corecion ?

What co ercion ...was the deal even offered to Arjun to co erce him to accept it by her ? If at all someone coerced Arjun it was Purvi who shamefully took advantage of his love ...she had any shame in doing that coercion ?

And by offering the deal to Purvi Ovi coerced her is it ? How come Archana was not coerced then who flat out refused it ? So accepting it after mulling over it was not voluntary acceptance but coercion and asking Onir to break his medical ethics and swap without the parents knowledge was not ?

Making Onir follow her from Kolkata to Mumbai by pressurizing him on a personal level for a professional decision was not a coercion but a follow up of Ovi's coercion ?

And for a mere offering of some stupid deal to get her man back ...girls even have cat fights to get the men they love back , she should die , her baby should die , even her baby dying is not enuf ...she should pay more and more but for doing deals like

Arjun lead a unhappy married life in return for her so called great niswaarth pyaar

Onir break his medical ethics for her niswaarth pyaar

Ovi Arjun not knowing even about theit baby's death but chupchaap putting own baby there and saving butt

The punishment for these horrific deals should be ...lemme see ...aha ! Death of Ovi and tossing of Onir after being used like tissue paper and ARVI milan ...maybe a second sex scene ?

These deals r life wrecking deals done without the knowledge of the concerned persons ...that deal was stupid but upfront , all knew what was on the table but here Arjun Ovi don't even know their child is dead ! But the baby dying is not an enough punishment for a woman she must pay more ?

For what ? For breaking the great ARVI up who were babies who were coerced ?

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soapwatcher1

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Posted: 12 years ago

#57

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
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SW the gaalis to Ovi that r given constantly by all is something exactly i would say of 'bechari' Purvi who ...er ...had followed coercions . The baby is the latest victim of her tyaag . Coerced tyaag that has followed .😆😆😆

So ...lets agree to disagree on the becharapan . But wait a minute ...i have something more to say . Ah ! on the 'vash karna' . It interested me that phrase . Back later on that one dear .

Dear Kools, the gaalis I gave Ovi if they can be called that are totally warranted. And let me hasten to add, the same or worse has already been said of Purvi. So yes, let us agree to disagree on that.

And I was talking about usurping by vash karna but you bring up an interesting point and I will be back about vashikaran mantra in a bit after I get off work. Until then ciao! 😉

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jdronamraju

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Posted: 12 years ago

#58

Originally posted by: archverma10
Kools am not sold on Ovi and never will be. We will agree to disagree on her because I will never excuse Ovi in any capacity--agree to disagree here :)...But you hit the nail right in the middle of the head for Arjun and Purvi..damn right!!! She was indeed going to never tell him about his baby and doesnt give a shit about his emotions or feelingz. Gonna stop talking now as Im already seeing 😡

Cant get started on the mahanta queen...wont be able to control myself

I am with you on this Arch ! Sorry Kools and Pari, I do understand what you are saying but my dislike iof Ovi runs too deep to ever forgive her and I dont care how goody she turns. Let us just leave it at that. But, yes, as far as Purvi and Arjun are concerned, i want retribution/redemption/payback or whatever u want to call it for all Purvi did to Arjun, from the night on the hilltop to the baby swapping. All done in the name of love, for everyone except him, and using his love to emo blackmail him ! If anyone else has done this to him, it wouldnt matter as much but from a person who once professed her love for him is unforgivable. If she had the given the baby to Arjun for the sole reason that she wanted to make up to him for the unhappiness she has caused him, I would understand to some extent. But, no, she thought of Ovi and not him ! Purvi has done injustice to him again in both cases. She still hasnt told him it is his baby that he has now and also denied him the knowledge of the death of his other child. How much ever I dislike Ovi, she does not deserve not knowing the death of her child either. I have said this before and am saying it again that she robbed them the chance to grieve their child. Very callous and thoughtless of her. She probably didnt intend to, but that is how it is.
Yes, I would like Arjun to revert back to what he once was and be the self assertive no nonsense guy that he was, fight back for what is rightfully his..but, It probably is just a pipe dream of mine now, as PR is all about Purvi and the holy couple and nothing else.. Let me not even go to the mishtified Doc, please !! 😊

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 12 years ago

#59

No probs Jyothi , my dislike of Purvi 's actions is the same . Too too deep it runs . Also since i have a habit of looking at each thing from my perspective [ which all do] if i was Arjun i would not forgive Purvi more than even Ovi as the betrayal of the loved one hurts the most if u consider the other indifferently or as a villain . Here i do not consider Arjun as the victim as he is a grown adult who has listened to Purvi with a choice not to exercise his brains . I feel sorry for him for being so much under her thumb but where responsibility for his actions is concerned ...he must take it for listening to that betrayer . Only then will he grow up and his character will have some development .

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jdronamraju

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Yes, I think he is paying for the follies he did by listening to her..living a life of samjhauthaa.. however reformed Ovi might be.. it is not the life he wanted..

Despite my lingering hope, I sincerely doubt they will let Arjun do anything else but look mutely at all that goes on around him. Even if he does come to know the truth, he probably will join the bandwagon in praise of Purvi Maathaji...

Shucks...such is how his character has been butchered. But, if I am proved wrong, none would be gladder than me..😊