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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: nikki1591

yea bc ovi drinking while pregnant is not her fault bc she was depressed. next time im depressed , i'll go put my child in danger bc my feelings matter more than my child's well being. there are many pple who are depressed but to put another person's life in danger bc ur depressed is not Okay.
and how can ovi get her love back. it's not her love if he never loved her. and wat ovi did by the deal was disgusting. if u love someone then, u want them to be happy with or w/o u.as long as their happy, it doesn't matter. ovi nvr considered arjun feelings on the marriage deal. y is it that pple expect arjun to get over purvi but dont expect the same of ovi when it came to the purvi arjun marriage. and do u honestly believe that had purvi told ovi of the consumation, ovi would have left. the girl who witnessed arjun saying i love purvi. i don't love ovi couldn't get it thru her head that arjun didn't liek her is now expected to believe the consumation. if anything she would have accused of purvi lying and saying arjun wouldn't do that to me



never loved is different...betrayed is different...noone forced arjun to do engagement announcement with ovi...but arjun was forced to marry ovi because of purvi but not because of ovi...it is not ovi's fault that arjun's love did not accept arjun's love...

after a month of wedding, ovi did not have any physical relationship with arjun, and she was ready to move-on...arjun announced publicly that he will love only purvi...but then arjun-purvi hide their physical relationship...and purvi hide the preggo truth from everyone, and blamed everything on ovi's insecurities for leaving the city where the truth is she wants to run from humiliation...

arjun-purvi for a fraction of second did not think that they are consummated and it might lead to kid, and they never thought of anyone's balayi in this...its not their balayi, its not ovi's balayi, its not archu's balayi...for what they took that step...

arjun-purvi had 2 chances, first when they were getting married, and second when public thamasha happened and purvi madam went away from city...but in both situations purvi completely betrayed everyone...

obviously what else ovi has to do...she has blame on her head that purvi left everyone because of her insecurities...and her husband did a nautanki of begging a second chance...and pavitra lovers finally made ovi preggo...where the truth is arjun made ovi as preggo to prove his love to purvi...what a silly immatured thing by arjun-purvi, and portrayed ovi as bad character...

oh ya, i really don't wish you to have the depression of ovi's case...

yes, ovi herself doesn't have any value in arjun's life...she doesn't know why arjun requested for falthu second chance and made her preggo and he is living in imagination life...why should arjun make ovi pregnant when he did not move-on from purvi...isn't it silly...if purvi comes and declares her kid is with arjun, then ovi's kid will not have any value for arjun...

so why to make ovi preggo...why to tell her its your wish to keep baby or not... why to tell her i love my mom and my baby's mom...why to almost slap her on the roadside for lover and why to do eye-locking with lover in the mid-night and in-front of god...

i understand there was/is love between arjun and purvi...but one should respect their own made decisions...i am not opposing arjun-purvi, but there is a limit for everything...arjun-purvi doesn't have any respect for the world most wonderful thing which is love...

it used to be sabh ki balayi...if they told everyone that they have consummated...it used to be sabh ki balayi they used their resources to re-unite ArMan instead of blaming everything on Ovi...it used to be sabh ki balayi after their second chance if they were stick to their decisions...

everyone new reason for ovi's depression...noone helped her to comeout from it...even arjun new the reason, he kept on torturing ovi by day-dreaming of purvi, he is not at al good human being, i don't know why keeps on telling purvi's love made him human...

so then what considered arjun's love...doesn't she know how much arjun loves her...didn't arjun cried before day and asked her not to leave him in any condition...then what was that all, why purvi never considered all these...doesn't she knew arjun is not moving, doesn;t she knew she forced arjun, doesn't she know she was preggo with arjun kid, doesn't she know arjun declared her as one and only love, doesn't she know ovi is ok to move-on, doesn't she know she is doing sabh ki burayi,

purvi has so much non-sense plans to hide the preggo truth, but she doens't know how to reunite arman rather than accepting ovi's condition...so much talented girl purvi who can handle all the situation couldn't make ovi to comeout from the situation...arjun left everything to prove his love to purvi to earn 10,000...what is the respect did purvi gave to him...

purvi's love is just attraction...she can go with anyone who says 'I want to marry you"...she went with vinay, she went with arjun, she went with onir...whatever the situation is or scenario is, she always accepted the man who came asked her love/marriage...
Edited by m_masti - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ashlaika

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Love this poem... completely agree.
Me too waiting for someone to spank her! One can hope right :) 😆


Ash, thank you! I think "She screamed and she squalled, she yelled and she bawled,
And drummed her little heels against the winder." describes all her tantrums so well 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
#53

Originally posted by: m_masti



never loved is different...betrayed is different...noone forced arjun to do engagement announcement with ovi...but arjun was forced to marry ovi because of purvi but not because of ovi...it is not ovi's fault that arjun's love did not accept arjun's love...

after a month of wedding, ovi did not have any physical relationship with arjun, and she was ready to move-on...arjun announced publicly that he will love only purvi...but then arjun-purvi hide their physical relationship...and purvi hide the preggo truth from everyone, and blamed everything on ovi's insecurities for leaving the city where the truth is she wants to run from humiliation...how convienent that ovi is ready to move on after already marrying him and after purvi has left the city

arjun-purvi for a fraction of second did not think that they are consummated and it might lead to kid, and they never thought of anyone's balayi in this...its not their balayi, its not ovi's balayi, its not archu's balayi...for what they took that step...

arjun-purvi had 2 chances, first when they were getting married, and second when public thamasha happened and purvi madam went away from city...but in both situations purvi completely betrayed everyone...

obviously what else ovi has to do...she has blame on her head that purvi left everyone because of her insecurities...and her husband did a nautanki of begging a second chance...and pavitra lovers finally made ovi preggo...where the truth is arjun made ovi as preggo to prove his love to purvi...what a silly immatured thing by arjun-purvi, and portrayed ovi as bad character...

since when did anyone blame ovi for making purvi leave?in fact, everyone just pacified ovi. in fact, it was ovi who kept saying get out of my life and she got it. and arjun made purvi preggo? hilarious. did ovi not have a say in the consumation or was she forced to sleep with arjun. they both made the decision. and arjun tried moving on. if we cant expect ovi to get over arjun, why do we expect arjun to be able to get over purvi. double standardss.

oh ya, i really don't wish you to have the depression of ovi's case..

yes, ovi herself doesn't have any value in arjun's life...she doesn't know why arjun requested for falthu second chance and made her preggo and he is living in imagination life...why should arjun make ovi pregnant when he did not move-on from purvi...isn't it silly...if purvi comes and declares her kid is with arjun, then ovi's kid will not have any value for arjun...
he asked for a chance to move on but she married him knowing he was in love with another girl (on her own free will)
did she really expect arjun to get over it so quickly just bc he said lets give it a second chance?when she just kept yelling at him, did she really expect him to swoon at the sight of her when she kept pulling stupid stunts such as drinking and putting their unborn child in danger. and arjun did not make ovi pregnant. they both took part in the act willingly.

so why to make ovi preggo...why to tell her its your wish to keep baby or not... why to tell her i love my mom and my baby's mom...why to almost slap her on the roadside for lover and why to do eye-locking with lover in the mid-night and in-front of god...

i understand there was/is love between arjun and purvi...but one should respect their own made decisions...i am not opposing arjun-purvi, but there is a limit for everything...arjun-purvi doesn't have any respect for the world most wonderful thing which is love...agree that one should respect their own decision. which is why ovi should respect the fact that she married a man in love with another girl and give him time to get over this girl

it used to be sabh ki balayi...if they told everyone that they have consummated...it used to be sabh ki balayi they used their resources to re-unite ArMan instead of blaming everything on Ovi...it used to be sabh ki balayi after their second chance if they were stick to their decisions...

everyone new reason for ovi's depression...noone helped her to comeout from it...even arjun new the reason, he kept on torturing ovi by day-dreaming of purvi, he is not at al good human being, i don't know why keeps on telling purvi's love made him human...once again ovi married him knowing he loved purvi and he can't be expected to switch off his feelings. ovi got what she wanted which was arjun to marry her? so why is she upset? it not liek ovi was the only one hurting.
y is it that no one looks at arjun pain in the marriage.

so then what considered arjun's love...doesn't she know how much arjun loves her...didn't arjun cried before day and asked her not to leave him in any condition...then what was that all, why purvi never considered all these...doesn't she knew arjun is not moving, doesn;t she knew she forced arjun, doesn't she know she was preggo with arjun kid, doesn't she know arjun declared her as one and only love, doesn't she know ovi is ok to move-on, doesn't she know she is doing sabh ki burayi,

purvi has so much non-sense plans to hide the preggo truth, but she doens't know how to reunite arman rather than accepting ovi's condition...so much talented girl purvi who can handle all the situation couldn't make ovi to comeout from the situation...arjun left everything to prove his love to purvi to earn 10,000...what is the respect did purvi gave to him...

purvi's love is just attraction...she can go with anyone who says 'I want to marry you"...she went with vinay, she went with arjun, she went with onir...whatever the situation is or scenario is, she always accepted the man who came asked her love/marriage...

Edited by nikki1591 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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if i think arjun-purvi are true lovers then Arjun-Purvi should have taken the ovi's deal as test...but they didn't pass the test...

they accepted the deal, so deal conditions are valid...so arjun has to move-on and so purvi has to...

arjun asked for a second chance...so ovi gave him the chance as she believed him and she didn't knew arjun did not move-on...after few days/months arjun's behaviour of day-dreaming made ovi to feel that arjun never moved-on...

arjun has pain in his marriage...but he is spine less...he couldn't stand up for himself...

arjun-purvi made a mockery of love, love is a true feeling, i was supporting their love till one point...

first step they did wrong is, as a childhood friend and as a step sister, they both never tried Ovi to come out from the shock...
the way purvi is concerned about soham though soham kept gun on manav and shot 2 bullets on arjun, purvi still believed soham is a good kid and he can be changed with lil love and affection...but purvi never did that to ovi, ovi made a suicide attempt too...
the way arjun cared for watchman of the his office after he proved archu's challenge, he tried to portray that purvi/archu changed him to a nice human being...but he failed to handle ovi...he was okay to loose the challenge of archu by giving 10000 to chotu's operation, but he forgot about ovi's pain and he forgot about the family's pain where the 2 girls belong...i know he purely loved purvi, but love should not make you this blind...

second step they did wrong is...they made their love as infatuation by one night stand, and kept it secret from everyone, and they should have respected their consummation...they never had a talk about it before accepting so called ovi's condition...they gave-up their love for archu's happiness, they should stand on it...

third time...arjun-purvi were doing eye-lockings, telepathy, noone could see it except ovi and viewers...so ovi decided to move-on...purvi knew arjun is not able to move-on without her, purvi knew she was preggo, but what a stupid condition purvi kept for arjun, prove your love tru love to me by giving patni ka dharja to ovi, and this spine less guy went asked second chance, slept with her and made a sentence i will love my mom and my baby's mom...

but still noone blames arjun-purvi's immature decision...everyone thinks its ovi's deal...

some buri nazars and some sabh ki balayi's just make someone to loose everything in their life...

arjun's statement, he will love his baby's mom, became true, now ovi might not conceive for her lifetime, and one and only purvi is his baby's mom...

purvi didnot respect the struggle that archu went thru by supporting arjun-purvi, archu knew she can never go back to twins when she supported purvi, but purvi didn't have any respect for archu...and purvi shouldn't have told onir that she is orphan...

arjun didnot respect his dad, his dad was so happy for archu's challenge but he went thru so much pain to see his son like that...arjun didn't even respect himself...

even if anyone makes me think ovi is a bad character, she did the mess...then also arjun-purvi can never be redeemed in my view...
Edited by m_masti - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: AnuRD

@ underlined : Now u r contradicting urself..

Purvi has the right to refuse Arjun at the last moment,but Arjun doesn't have the right to refuse OVI..
Wowww!!!!
Double-standards..



Nope . I am not contradicting myself nor do i have double standards . Nowhere did i say that those bethroted lose the right to back out from a marraige . They do ...but it is not liked and comes with a price . Thats exactly what happened in this story ...for a brief time , Arjun chose to be the bad guy and exercise that right at the cost of causing a rift between 2 families and his dad and his business partner till his so called new love dumped him coz she found the deal more lucrative than him .

I have said in all my posts that ARVI should have refused Ovi as a team . Purvi can be understood till the point she broke off and Arjun can be understood that he broke off with his fiancee but that doesn't make them likable ...it only gives them a bit of some sort of grudging understanding till perhaps that point . Beyond that they don't even get that much was my point and will always be .
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Ovi is at fault but to a certain extent - only that she offered this deal to Purvi.


Purvi could have and should have refused this deal. I understand Purvi did it for her Mom but her unceremoniously dumping Arjun after sleeping with him and then making him marry Ovi was a greater fault.

Purvi making Arjun do tests to show how much he loves her is a bigger fault.

Purvi telling Arjun to sleep with Ovi, another huge fault.

Purvi leaving town without informing anyone being pregnant, then fabricating lies, another fault.

Purvi tells Arjun to make his marriage work to Ovi and yet still interferes in their marriage, just more faults to add to the list.

Arjun's great fault is that he lacks a spine when it comes to Purvi. Why did he marry Ovi when he didn't love her? To prove his great love for Purvi? What kind of girl asks her fiance to do that, is what he should have been thinking and then he should have left the scene without agreeing to her demands.


And as for Purvi marrying a late 20 early 30s doctor, Onir looks like he's 27 or 28 and that doesn't make it too old for her to marry him. Plus I don't think there's any such law in India like there is in the U.S. Girls in India get married younger than Purvi to men twice their age and that's still considered normal for many people.


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Agreed ovi is not bad at all
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@ Anum:-

dear ur posts are short but upto the mark n true in the sense!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: salvatore-nina

Ovi is at fault but to a certain extent - only that she <font size="3">offered</font> this deal to Purvi.



Purvi could have and should have refused this deal. I understand Purvi did it for her Mom but her unceremoniously dumping Arjun after sleeping with him and then making him marry Ovi was a greater fault.

Purvi making Arjun do tests to show how much he loves her is a bigger fault.

Purvi telling Arjun to sleep with Ovi, another huge fault.

Purvi leaving town without informing anyone being pregnant, then fabricating lies, another fault.

Purvi tells Arjun to make his marriage work to Ovi and yet still interferes in their marriage, just more faults to add to the list.

Arjun's great fault is that he lacks a spine when it comes to Purvi. Why did he marry Ovi when he didn't love her? To prove his great love for Purvi? What kind of girl asks her fiance to do that, is what he should have been thinking and then he should have left the scene without agreeing to her demands.


And as for Purvi marrying a late 20 early 30s doctor, Onir looks like he's 27 or 28 and that doesn't make it too old for her to marry him. Plus I don't think there's any such law in India like there is in the U.S. Girls in India get married younger than Purvi to men twice their age and that's still considered normal for many people.



I second you!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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purvi's love is just attraction...she can go with anyone who says 'I want to marry you"...she went with vinay, she went with arjun, she went with onir...whatever the situation is or scenario is, she always accepted the man who came asked her love/marriage...

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my thoughts exactly . If 'pyaar' is the 'must' for a marraige , had she fallen in love with Vinay when she agreed to marry him . How much did she know Onir when she happily went to the registrar to marry him . Or does she believe that marraige can be done anyhow and broken at whim once u find 'pyaar' hang on to it by exercising emotional haq .If so , it puts her in a very bad light .

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