Originally posted by: nikki1591
yea bc ovi drinking while pregnant is not her fault bc she was depressed. next time im depressed , i'll go put my child in danger bc my feelings matter more than my child's well being. there are many pple who are depressed but to put another person's life in danger bc ur depressed is not Okay.and how can ovi get her love back. it's not her love if he never loved her. and wat ovi did by the deal was disgusting. if u love someone then, u want them to be happy with or w/o u.as long as their happy, it doesn't matter. ovi nvr considered arjun feelings on the marriage deal. y is it that pple expect arjun to get over purvi but dont expect the same of ovi when it came to the purvi arjun marriage. and do u honestly believe that had purvi told ovi of the consumation, ovi would have left. the girl who witnessed arjun saying i love purvi. i don't love ovi couldn't get it thru her head that arjun didn't liek her is now expected to believe the consumation. if anything she would have accused of purvi lying and saying arjun wouldn't do that to me
never loved is different...betrayed is different...noone forced arjun to do engagement announcement with ovi...but arjun was forced to marry ovi because of purvi but not because of ovi...it is not ovi's fault that arjun's love did not accept arjun's love...
after a month of wedding, ovi did not have any physical relationship with arjun, and she was ready to move-on...arjun announced publicly that he will love only purvi...but then arjun-purvi hide their physical relationship...and purvi hide the preggo truth from everyone, and blamed everything on ovi's insecurities for leaving the city where the truth is she wants to run from humiliation...
arjun-purvi for a fraction of second did not think that they are consummated and it might lead to kid, and they never thought of anyone's balayi in this...its not their balayi, its not ovi's balayi, its not archu's balayi...for what they took that step...
arjun-purvi had 2 chances, first when they were getting married, and second when public thamasha happened and purvi madam went away from city...but in both situations purvi completely betrayed everyone...
obviously what else ovi has to do...she has blame on her head that purvi left everyone because of her insecurities...and her husband did a nautanki of begging a second chance...and pavitra lovers finally made ovi preggo...where the truth is arjun made ovi as preggo to prove his love to purvi...what a silly immatured thing by arjun-purvi, and portrayed ovi as bad character...
oh ya, i really don't wish you to have the depression of ovi's case...
yes, ovi herself doesn't have any value in arjun's life...she doesn't know why arjun requested for falthu second chance and made her preggo and he is living in imagination life...why should arjun make ovi pregnant when he did not move-on from purvi...isn't it silly...if purvi comes and declares her kid is with arjun, then ovi's kid will not have any value for arjun...
so why to make ovi preggo...why to tell her its your wish to keep baby or not... why to tell her i love my mom and my baby's mom...why to almost slap her on the roadside for lover and why to do eye-locking with lover in the mid-night and in-front of god...
i understand there was/is love between arjun and purvi...but one should respect their own made decisions...i am not opposing arjun-purvi, but there is a limit for everything...arjun-purvi doesn't have any respect for the world most wonderful thing which is love...
it used to be sabh ki balayi...if they told everyone that they have consummated...it used to be sabh ki balayi they used their resources to re-unite ArMan instead of blaming everything on Ovi...it used to be sabh ki balayi after their second chance if they were stick to their decisions...
everyone new reason for ovi's depression...noone helped her to comeout from it...even arjun new the reason, he kept on torturing ovi by day-dreaming of purvi, he is not at al good human being, i don't know why keeps on telling purvi's love made him human...
so then what considered arjun's love...doesn't she know how much arjun loves her...didn't arjun cried before day and asked her not to leave him in any condition...then what was that all, why purvi never considered all these...doesn't she knew arjun is not moving, doesn;t she knew she forced arjun, doesn't she know she was preggo with arjun kid, doesn't she know arjun declared her as one and only love, doesn't she know ovi is ok to move-on, doesn't she know she is doing sabh ki burayi,
purvi has so much non-sense plans to hide the preggo truth, but she doens't know how to reunite arman rather than accepting ovi's condition...so much talented girl purvi who can handle all the situation couldn't make ovi to comeout from the situation...arjun left everything to prove his love to purvi to earn 10,000...what is the respect did purvi gave to him...
purvi's love is just attraction...she can go with anyone who says 'I want to marry you"...she went with vinay, she went with arjun, she went with onir...whatever the situation is or scenario is, she always accepted the man who came asked her love/marriage...