Ovi is not a bad person

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Today, I felt really bad for her. She is in fact really sweet. She always wants her way that's it. But, deep down she is a good person. She never wishes bad for anyone and how she hated purvi was alright if you come to think of it. She loved Arjun all her life. Not having him drove her mad. Arjun shouldn't have committed to marry her in the first place and even if he did he should have called her and told her. It wasn't that hard. She did what anyone would do to get the person she loved all her life. If you think about it she is at least not fake. She says what's on her mind and that;s good. I feel bad for her she is the one losing everything. Sure, Purvi sacrifices and gives her what she wants but then it's different from having it all to herself. Sometimes when we love someone we think even if it's one sided someday they will come to love us someday eventually. You know she thought that her love was going to be enough for both of them.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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i agree,
she is blunt and honest,wich i like abt her
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Posted: 12 years ago
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she is not even good either.she is here,there and nowhere.how could aperson wants what she wants even knowing you cant have it but deep down still be good.beign to blunt and honest alwasy means that it is good for you to make mistakes apologise for them and continue doing wrong.he what is the point of beign sorry and apologising..its just a mockery. I maybe harsh but ill take a 100 purvis any given day because in life you dont get what your heart always desires.if you do get it out of trickery then dont expect peaches and cream expect to suffer..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: harshadlover16

Today, I felt really bad for her. She is in fact really sweet. She always wants her way that's it. But, deep down she is a good person. She never wishes bad for anyone and how she hated purvi was alright if you come to think of it. She loved Arjun all her life. Not having him drove her mad. Arjun shouldn't have committed to marry her in the first place and even if he did he should have called her and told her. It wasn't that hard. She did what anyone would do to get the person she loved all her life. If you think about it she is at least not fake. She says what's on her mind and that;s good. I feel bad for her she is the one losing everything. Sure, Purvi sacrifices and gives her what she wants but then it's different from having it all to herself. Sometimes when we love someone we think even if it's one sided someday they will come to love us someday eventually. You know she thought that her love was going to be enough for both of them.

Actually,I personally never liked Ovi before!! But a person verryy close to me was always a big supporter of ovi..This support never made much sense to me,considering the arvi fan that i am..But slowly,i too began to realise that,yess,ovi is not all that bad too...She is doing just wat any other common girl in her plc wud do!!!! I wont say that i will support her actions,but i do understand that its the circumstance which lead her into those actions!!! I would like to thank that person who made me see ovi from the other perspective.. And ur post is simple,yet b'ful in its own way..Thnkk u!!!!😊
@bold B'fully written...😊
Edited by aadk - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: chinyere

she is not even good either.she is here,there and nowhere.how could aperson wants what she wants even knowing you cant have it but deep down still be good.beign to blunt and honest alwasy means that it is good for you to make mistakes apologise for them and continue doing wrong.he what is the point of beign sorry and apologising..its just a mockery. I maybe harsh but ill take a 100 purvis any given day because in life you dont get what your heart always desires.if you do get it out of trickery then dont expect peaches and cream expect to suffer..


i first sympathised with ovi !! but she then let me down when she was hell bent on getting arjun by hook or crook!! she did not cared for his feelings at all!!! she should have respected his feelings more than Purvi coz she knew him from child hood n claims to Love him!!!
she could have earned more respect if she has stayed away from ArVi!!

My POV absolutely!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Agreed ovi is not bad at all
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i can understand ovi anger at purvi, arjun, and her aii but i have to disagree with the part where u say
she just did what anybody else would do to get arjun. u can't expect someone to love u just bc u love them. ovi past actions remind me of an abuser. she threatned to kill herself bc arjun would not marry her. when a person lives in a domestic violence situation and attempts to leave the abuser, the abuser will threaten to kill themselves if they leave him/her. it's the same tactic that is used here. if u luv someone u want them to be happy and if arjun was happy with purvi, then ovi should have let them go bc that would show that she truly loved him. and no matter what I can't forgive the fact that she drank while she was pregnant bc she was upset. that's what bad people do. a mother would do anything to protect her child no matter what her situation and ovi intentionally put her child in danger.
for me, ovi is spoilt. she wants what she wants and if she doesn't get it then she throws a tantrum. if she is not happy, then no one can be happy
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Ovi reminds me of this poem by Longfellow:

"There was a little girl, who had a little curl
Right in the middle of her forehead,
And when she was good, she was very, very good,
But when she was bad she was horrid.

She stood on her head, on her little trundle bed,
With nobody by for to hinder;
She screamed and she squalled, she yelled and she bawled,
And drummed her little heels against the winder.


Her mother heard the noise, and thought it was the boys
Playing in the empty attic,
She rushed upstairs, and caught her unawares,
And spanked her, most emphatic."


I am waiting for someone to spank her!!😉 Might yet happen when she reverts from her present angelic self! 😆


Edited by soapwatcher1 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Ovi is only nice when she Got her favourite Ice cream, other wise she is so mean and selfish that she can even kill her self without thinking about her family, oh may be thats show how good and clean heart she is,
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: nikki1591

i can understand ovi anger at purvi, arjun, and her aii but i have to disagree with the part where u say

she just did what anybody else would do to get arjun. u can't expect someone to love u just bc u love them. ovi past actions remind me of an abuser. she threatned to kill herself bc arjun would not marry her. when a person lives in a domestic violence situation and attempts to leave the abuser, the abuser will threaten to kill themselves if they leave him/her. it's the same tactic that is used here. if u luv someone u want them to be happy and if arjun was happy with purvi, then ovi should have let them go bc that would show that she truly loved him. and no matter what I can't forgive the fact that she drank while she was pregnant bc she was upset. that's what bad people do. a mother would do anything to protect her child no matter what her situation and ovi intentionally put her child in danger.
for me, ovi is spoilt. she wants what she wants and if she doesn't get it then she throws a tantrum. if she is not happy, then no one can be happy

Thank u for writing this. I also feel much of the same.

I especially hated how many persons treated the suicide issue with such nonchalance.
@bold - Well said and well written.

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