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Kalapi

@Kalapi

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Posted: 12 years ago

#41

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
what exactly is ' officially engaged'

i was under the impression that when elders from both the families bless and give their acceptance ...when the groom himself proposes and makes it known to both the families publicly it is a serious engagement

then the exchange of rings remains a mere formality

it is more official than a roadside shaadi whom no one witnesses

??????????

Arjun got himself bethroted before both the families by giving his word ...does that word have value or no

if an engagement is only official by the exchange of rings why is a marraige not official by the exchange of garlands and sapta padi in front of God and society

here why is the roadside unwitnessed shaadi considered real and the public 'official'' shaadi false

Ovi and Arjun 's union was given green signal by elders and later they really got officially married is what i see in the serial

yes in the middle he got engaged to another girl but ultimately married the first girl he was engaged to is the story as i see it

so the break up by the girl on her marraige eve is not official ?😕

Kool, I have said that so many times now, that I given up. Having given the words for marriage is as good as anything. In fact, a marriage once broken after a promise of marriage has been made only equates to a bad omen for the girl Having a formal engagements in much more a formal western idea. In Indian weddings most marriages goes for engagement that is "aashirwad' just before the marriage ceremony just cause most bride parents don't have the money (or the time) to sponsor lavish parties in the name of a marriage at different times. So, Ovi was as engaged to Arjun as anyone exchanging the ring in formal money spend parent sponsored event. And a promise mage is held with the highest esteem because it involves the prestige of 2 families and the life of an innocent girl…

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Posted: 12 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: m_masti

sharma, i don't even see ovi did 1 small mistake...she gave a try to get her love back...and purvi didn't give any response till 11th hour and ovi was ready to give-up her life for her love...then at the 11th hour purvi decided archu's happiness is more and she didn't even think what way ovi can make archu to reunite with family because purvi knew the truth which ovi didn't knew...

so i don't see any ovi's mistake in the whole scenario od wedding...it was complete purvi's decision to accept the condition, purvi is not blackmailed...when her aai didn't like vinay she didn't go with vinay, when her aai liked arjun she didn't go with arjun...it was always completley purvi's will and wish...

and ovi gave arjun-purvi complete freedom to get reunite, but again this pavitra lovers played with ovi's feelings and made her preggo...but still pavitra lovers didn't move-on...

even in the preggo case, i don't see any wrong decision by ovi, she was depressed of everything, she literally witnessed arjun having a parellel imaginary life with purvi, arjun shouldn't have asked second chance to ovi on purvi's condition...

in the whole triangle...arjun-purvi played with ovi's emotions...they should have let ovi know the truth that they consummated...ovi would have gone from their life completely...

even now, arjun-purvi are playing with her...in accident drama also, arjun will take the blame of purvi's baby loss, which will never let him to move-on with so called ovi's baby...and purvi is not letting ovi to cry on her baby's loss, which is really sin...i don't know what purvi's exact plan is, she wants to hide the preggo secret or she wants to be always in the middle of arjun-ovi, but she will portray this as mahaan sacrificing act...

i really don't want purvi to give her baby to ovi, because as we know this girl is 2 steps upfront than her so called aai, her aai played with varsha's emotions and she made soham's life a mess, in real world there is nothing but hang-till-death for soham, but in PR soham is Archu's kid so all his mistakes get only few months jail...as purvi's baby giveing to ovi is not legal adoption, purvi will do anything in the future but still wants to remain mahaan, this in-turn can make ovi's character more bad...and all this is done to make purvi good than ovi...just by taking soham away from archu, varsha became -ve character and all archu's drama is unseen...just like that ovi will be becoming -ve character to make all purvi's nautanki unseen...

yea bc ovi drinking while pregnant is not her fault bc she was depressed. next time im depressed , i'll go put my child in danger bc my feelings matter more than my child's well being. there are many pple who are depressed but to put another person's life in danger bc ur depressed is not Okay.

and how can ovi get her love back. it's not her love if he never loved her. and wat ovi did by the deal was disgusting. if u love someone then, u want them to be happy with or w/o u.as long as their happy, it doesn't matter. ovi nvr considered arjun feelings on the marriage deal. y is it that pple expect arjun to get over purvi but dont expect the same of ovi when it came to the purvi arjun marriage. and do u honestly believe that had purvi told ovi of the consumation, ovi would have left. the girl who witnessed arjun saying i love purvi. i don't love ovi couldn't get it thru her head that arjun didn't liek her is now expected to believe the consumation. if anything she would have accused of purvi lying and saying arjun wouldn't do that to me

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 12 years ago

#43

everytime why r people who r chronically depressed compared to people who don't show signs of depression even among adverse circumstances...if there r people who don't crack under emotional strain . there r equal amount of people who do and if this is a serial why would the first fifty percent be shown ...😕

if Purvi is emotionally strong , Ovi is not

Purvi is even emotionally stronger than Arjun ...

i see Purvi as the strongest emotionally

Arjun in the middle

the weakest ...Ovi ...

it takes all emotional types to make the world , why expect all should be of exact same emotional strength😕

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Posted: 12 years ago

#44

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
everytime why r people who r chronically depressed compared to people who don't show signs of depression even among adverse circumstances...if there r people who don't crack under emotional strain . there r equal amount of people who do and if this is a serial why would the first fifty percent be shown ...😕

if Purvi is emotionally strong , Ovi is not

Purvi is even emotionally stronger than Arjun ...

i see Purvi as the strongest emotionally

Arjun in the middle

the weakest ...Ovi ...

it takes all emotional types to make the world , why expect all should be of exact same emotional strength😕

i dont expect people to be the same emotional strength. but there are boundaries to behaviors. we can't use the excuse emotionally weak to justify putting someone life in danger. so no matter the emotional differences, at the end u are responsible for ur actions. unless u are mentally deranged. ovi is not mentally deranged. if we go by the logic of emotionally weak, then if father who has a 2 year old and is working full time gets exhausted and is emotionally week drinks to cope with his lonliness and the child hurts itself bc the father was being irresponsible, does this mean we forgive his actions. NO bc a innocent life that u were responsible for bringing into the world means more than ur own pain. the child didn't ask to be born

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 12 years ago

#45

Nobody says there is any loss of responsibility dear

every one pays for his or her mistake

but each one reacts differently to adverse circumstance according to his or her emotional strength

some attempt suicide some don't

some drink some don't

some fall apart some don't

each one among these types have ultimately to take responsibility as each one's karma is one's own

but before being so unforgivingly righteous to them ...i feel one must not judge their pain level coz god knows how they went through that mental turmoil ...fine , we didn't do it but maybe it got to him or her

by the same logic is not accepting Ovi's deal ARVI's responsibility

they could have easily refused it together ...they did not . So is not their misery their responsibility .

i don't fault Purvi for refusing Arjun . She had a right to change her mind till last minute . I fault her for later co ercing Arjun to do this and do that by saying if u love me u will listen to me . What he did later was his business and not hers .

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Posted: 12 years ago

#46

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
Nobody says there is any loss of responsibility dear

every one pays for his or her mistake

but each one reacts differently to adverse circumstance according to his or her emotional strength

some attempt suicide some don't

some drink some don't

some fall apart some don't

each one among these types have ultimately to take responsibility as each one's karma is one's own

but before being so unforgivingly righteous to them ...i feel one must not judge their pain level coz god knows how they went through that mental turmoil ...fine , we didn't do it but maybe it got to him or her

by the same logic is not accepting Ovi's deal ARVI's responsibility

they could have easily refused it together ...they did not . So is not their misery their responsibility .

i don't fault Purvi for refusing Arjun . She had a right to change her mind till last minute . I fault her for later co ercing Arjun to do this and do that by saying if u love me u will listen to me . What he did later was his business and not hers .

exactly arvi are responsible for their own pain. and purvi may have emotionally blackmailed arjun into accepting the deal the same ovi emotionally blackmailed purvi into accepting the deal for her mother. that i think we both can agree on. but what annoys me is that ovi always plays the victim. she knew she was going into a marriage with a man who didn't love her and yet she expected him to be immeditely happy with her. and even when purvi left she kept blaming purvi even though purvi had not been heard for 6 mnths. she doesn't accept responsibility for her own mistakes in this stupid mess created by three very stupid people. i dont discount arvi blame but yet i've yet to see ovi for once accept responsibility and think of other's feelings. and liek i said, we must have limitations to our behavior. a professor once told me sometimes adults become brats when we don't teach them to not wear their heart on their sleeves and that throwing tantrums is not acceptable. ovi just reminds me of such an example but her becoming a mother should change that. i can forgive everything else that ovi has done bc each action involved another adult who in the end who made thier own decision but not the drinking bc an innocent child was put in danger bc of her actions. and no matter what the pain, i can't ever forgive that

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Anweshaaa

@Anweshaaa

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#47

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
Nobody says there is any loss of responsibility dear

every one pays for his or her mistake

but each one reacts differently to adverse circumstance according to his or her emotional strength

some attempt suicide some don't

some drink some don't

some fall apart some don't

each one among these types have ultimately to take responsibility as each one's karma is one's own

but before being so unforgivingly righteous to them ...i feel one must not judge their pain level coz god knows how they went through that mental turmoil ...fine , we didn't do it but maybe it got to him or her

by the same logic is not accepting Ovi's deal ARVI's responsibility

they could have easily refused it together ...they did not . So is not their misery their responsibility .

i don't fault Purvi for refusing Arjun . She had a right to change her mind till last minute . I fault her for later co ercing Arjun to do this and do that by saying if u love me u will listen to me . What he did later was his business and not hers .

@ underlined : Now u r contradicting urself..

Purvi has the right to refuse Arjun at the last moment,but Arjun doesn't have the right to refuse OVI..

Wowww!!!!

Double-standards..

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zonan

@zonan

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#48

Originally posted by: Kalapi

hahaha...you don't get it Sherma, Purvi and Arjun are the only saints in PR land😆

lol..this made my sunday morning a good one to begin with.
sherma, kalapi..your posts are short but packed with truth.
😆

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Manoshono

@Manoshono

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 12 years ago

#49

Originally posted by: sherma

ovi was bad to purvi,so she is evil
onir is gud wid purvi,so he is evil
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i dont understnd hw exactly people shld beleive wid arvi so thta they are termed as nrmal
ovi did 1 small mistke,she excepted in front of every1,
she dint tried to cover up unlike purvi and punni
<div>purvi is lying cheating evry1,including her parents and her so called family

Purvi sacrificed her love for her Aii's happiness, she is considered wrong.

Arjun accepted Purvis condition because he loved her , he is considered spineless.

Ovi gave bribe to Purvi to buy Arjun back. She has a right to do so.

Ovi separated two lovers out of her own ego and desires, she is considered mahaan and right.

Ovi starts drinking alcohol, while she was pregnant. Oh, she must have had mental break down due to stress that was given by her husband. Because, she knew her husband loved someone else before she got married.

Ovi is an angel and the rest are only considered fools!

How should people believe with Arvi, so Ovi can be termed normal(and I am excluding Onir, his chapter is a different story)?

Well she should have respected Arjun's decision, and instead of taking advantage of Purvis weakness, she should have been the one who would have made them reunite.

Probably she doesn't know any meanings of love. Otherwise she would have done the opposite of what she did in the past.

Edited by Manoshono - 12 years ago

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Manoshono

@Manoshono

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Posted: 12 years ago

#50

Originally posted by: Kalapi

hahaha...you don't get it Sherma, Purvi and Arjun are the only saints in PR land😆

No, no, Ovi is the only saint in PR. she is kind, selfless, caring, and most of all she was a good mother, who drank alcohol when she was pregnant because simply she wanted to rejoice being a mother. 😲

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