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Ashlaika

@Ashlaika

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Posted: 12 years ago

#11

And given Ovi's erratic behaviour, and the tenuous relationship she shares with Arjun - I pity any child who has to be raised in that environment. Sometimes, irrespective of what some say, presence of a child may not improve things - it could also make a spousal relationship worse. And it is very bad for the child to be an innocent victim then.

Peaches - Ur point above - Absolutely correct. A child added to a volatile relationship does not smooth things out in that relationship. It only adds fuel to an already blazing fire. Imagine when u have no attention from ur husband because all his attention is devoted to the child. What reaction will that bring about?

Imagine when the child cries at 4 in the morning but u refuse to get up - who is being hurt here? only the child.

Imagine when u are jealous over ur own child at the inception of its conception because the father was only concerned for the health of that child. What does that say about a "loving" mother

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peachesnplums

@peachesnplums

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Posted: 12 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: sherma
so wat abt arjun-ovi child,doest he deserve a father?
fairness needs to win-a person who luvs sum1 unconditionally needs to b luved back(onir)
and abt ovi-she needed an assurance,wich she got from onir words,the fact punir are married and purvi carryng onir baby made ovi felt lighter and happy
and the famous arvi eyelock arenot there dese days since onir entered mumbai

@bold: and Arjun will prove to be a very good father, even alone. If they decide to reuntie ArVi- both will also take very good care of the child

@red: and when Ovi learns the truth - who is to say she will not blow a gasket? her relationship with Arjun is very tenuous despite her pregnancy. Just some time ago, she was shown to be harming her own child with alcohol consumption. When she learns of Purvi's child with Arjun (knowing CVs' love for tamasha, they won't let it go) - wait for all hell to break loose.

Again, I don't like that all the unborn kids are going to suffer.

As for eyelocks, there has to be Arjun in the episode - we hardly see him anymore. We have to witness Punni and Sunny tracks all the time.

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-Naresh-

@-Naresh-

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Posted: 12 years ago

#13

Tell me if onir nt taking care of purvi & her child then why he changed reports. Onir loves purvi as well as her child. He remains me as satish.

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pari87

@pari87

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#14

So in order to re-unite really immature and juvenile ex-lovers, now jeeja-saali, Ovi's child should die? I don't know about this new weird concept of true love, but I think, a child is above all kinds of true love. And if you have taken your adult step by having a child in this world, then better keep your responsibility to him/her. Arjun-Purvi re-unite, walk over their spouses and even the other child and I wonder what sort of true love that will be an example of?

Itna hi pyaar tha toh, why did Purvi choose aai over Arjun? Next thing you know, another hurdle in Archu's life, she will give up Arjun once again if someone else comes with a proposal! How is Ovi unstable and Purvi stable? Both are unstable in that sense. How is Arjun any stable? He decided to marry Ovi, consummated his marriage with her, but still dreams of saali cum ex-lover, and will later give up his baby to be with his love? LOL.

Saccha pyaar is above ruining other people's lives, giving up on a baby, making a family suffer through their immature decisions. Glad, I am not part of this era of saccha pyaar then . MY POV strictly.

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Ashlaika

@Ashlaika

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Posted: 12 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: Pancham101
Purvi has grown up feeling obligated to her adoptive family. Look at the decisions that she has made due to this fact.
Another kid is now being shaped up to take her place. When she grows up and finds out the truth ...voila ...

Arjun and Purvi LOVE each other ...their child was borne out of LOVE...why must this child have to feel any different?

Perfect point. We all saw how obligated and how much of a low self esteem Purvi had. She never thought she deserved love. Are we gonna put another child through that? Esp. when his father is alive and will undoubtedly love him?

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peachesnplums

@peachesnplums

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Posted: 12 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: Pancham101
Purvi has grown up feeling obligated to her adoptive family. Look at the decisions that she has made due to this fact.
Another kid is now being shaped up to take her place. When she grows up and finds out the truth ...voila ...

Arjun and Purvi LOVE each other ...their child was borne out of LOVE...why must this child have to feel any different?

Great point Sujata, who is to say this will not be brought about later? For all the love given to Purvi, she still sacrificed. And we don't even know what will happen to Purvi's child once its born 🤔 Will the love continue, or will things take a turn for worse?

So best thing to do is to reunite the child with its biological parents. Will get all the love 😊

Edited by peachesnplums - 12 years ago

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pari87

@pari87

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: peachesnplums

Great point Sujata, who is to say this will not be brought about later? For all the love given to Purvi, she still sacrificed. And we don't even know what will happen to Purvi's child once its born 🤔 Will the love continue, or will things take a turn for worse?

So best thing to do is to reunite the child with its biological parents. Will get all the love 😊

what about Ovi's bio child then? Hers can suffer even though he was born to bio parents only. LOL. I love how love trumps over children also!

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soapwatcher1

@soapwatcher1

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Posted: 12 years ago

#18

While arranged marriages can work beautifully most times, being caught in a loveless marriage while you pine for another can be the pits especially if that loveless marriage was forced upon you through conniving and cunning. Better to cut loose than remain miserable and create misery around you.

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rithika2012

@rithika2012

Dazzler

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Posted: 12 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: sherma

seeing a couple wgho luv each other married is a gud thing,but u cant deny not all the couple in luv marry each other

here arvi had chance to marry,but they dint for their reasons,

arvi married other people

being wid one who luvs u is a blessing,purvi shld feel blessed

and onir cares for the baby more den purvi,

onir is not the one who feel insecure cause of arjun

and purvi has strted feeling for onir,

and abt onir past,i think cvs are playing safe,

they r waitng for trp and see where will tehy like to go

@bold: it is not shown any where that onir cares for baby more than purvi.. in fact it was onir who said that she cant love anyone more than her baby in the durga puja...

and for the care he is taking to purvi it is obvious for a person to care if a pregnant is in the house and more over he even takes good care of ovi's baby also he takes ovi ti hospital and to workshops leaving his wife alone in the house so this shows that onir cares for baby but not more than purvi...

Edited by rithika2012 - 12 years ago

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rithika2012

@rithika2012

Dazzler

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Posted: 12 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: pari87

what about Ovi's bio child then? Hers can suffer even though he was born to bio parents only. LOL. I love how love trumps over children also!

till now it is not sure that ovi's baby is arjun's.. cv's are clever at this they kept the way open...

initially they showed like purvi was carrying onir's baby but the truth is something else so it can be the same even here...

so till they confirmly show that its arjun's baby we cant decide it whose...