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Ashi22 thumbnail
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Posted: 12 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: Mohini19

Regardless of which side one is on, Purvi supporter or not, one cannot DENY that Purvi is being EXTREMELY unfair to Onir.

What has Onir done to deserve this? No amount of explanation or no reason can justify what Purvi did to Onir as a sacrifice.

And what good daughter role are we talking about here?

Does Purvi have an OUNCE of responsibility towards Onir or not?

What hasPurvi done to Onir, she was a nice wife for 4 or 5 months, he was not intrested in her past so she did not tell him any thing, But now Purvi knows her sister needs her husband's help obviously she will put pressure on him, She is not asking divorce or anything, Why Doctor Onir is showing so much attitude,
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Posted: 12 years ago
#42
* Ovi doesn't want to get treat by Dr. Onir.
* Dr. Onir doesn't want to treat Ovi.
* But everyone else (in this story) knows and thinks that Dr. Onir is the best for Ovi.

Given that scenario, what options does Purvi have? Being the good daughter she has to be help for her parents. Everyone tried their best to talk to Onir and failed. Purvi is making her last ditch effort.

In that effort, she knows Onir will be heartbroken by what she wrote in the letter and the way she has been behaving by not taking his calls. But, she has no choice.

- She isn't doing it to get back to Arjun or snatch him from Ovi.

- All she knows is, that Ovi needs the best care right now and from her parents, that Dr. Onir is the only one who can give that.

As per her, if Onir follows her to Mumbai, he is good for her and her family and without knowing if he will follow her or not, she is taking a big risk.

Yes, in this whole process, it is a bit unfair to Onir, but that is only temporary. All the matter will get resolved when he comes there and she can explain. Her aim is to get Onir to Mumbai for Ovi and not for herself. What choice is she left with from Archana, Manav and Onir, when even he categorically denies to treat Ovi?


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Posted: 12 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: Ashi22

What hasPurvi done to Onir, she was a nice wife for 4 or 5 months, he was not intrested in her past so she did not tell him any thing, But now Purvi knows her sister needs her husband's help obviously she will put pressure on him, She is not asking divorce or anything, Why Doctor Onir is showing so much attitude,



Well, FYI. First of all Dr. O. is not showing attitude. And should Dr. O. force himself on Arjun and Ovi when Ovi herself refused to get treated from him. Now, that makes a lot of sense.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: strega


And just adding some definitions that I go by. THe only one who falls in the cooperation class is Onir. He helped Purvi but himself too :)

Selfishness is harming someone else in order to help oneself;

altruism is harming oneself in order to help someone else;

spite is harming oneself in order to harm someone else;

cooperation is helping someone else and also helping oneself.



Marvelous !!!👏👍🏼This needs to be a separate post by itself !
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Posted: 12 years ago
#45

Originally posted by: Mohini19



Well, FYI. First of all Dr. O. is not showing attitude. And should Dr. O. force himself on Arjun and Ovi when Ovi herself refused to get treated from him. Now, that makes a lot of sense.

He himself said Ovi's problem is psyhological more than physical, so as a Dr he should treat her.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#46
This time around...it does not seem like such an outlandish request. Its not like Purvi is asking Onir to marry someone else😉

He does go out of the country periodically. His patients in Kolkata do have to wait for his return...

What Purvi cannot tell Onir is that Ovi is being temperamental because of me ( oh Onir, bud, you have not seen temperamental...). Otherwise, the sun rises and sets with her, truly.😊
Edited by Pancham101 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#47

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

She was annoying as hell in BALH and She is annoying in PR..


I still dont understand her reasons to run to Mumbai...Now she is stifling Ovi in her parents home..Why cant Ovi have her loving mother and family's care while she is prego?
By this I am not saying Purvi does not deserve it..She should go to Sulo and Archana can visit her there...No need for Purvi to hover aroud Ovi taking or sharing everything special which Ovi deserves...
Now Purvi will kill Ovi or her baby for sure...And Archana Sudhri huvi savita, teju all will join in this murder attempt..
How VMRD killed ArMan's first baby (Archanas myaka) same way Ovi's mayka will kill ArOvi's baby...

Ur statment in RED above - Since when was PURVI in BALH???!!! Did I miss some news, information, episodes?
Did PR and BALH have joint Maha episode we were not aware of?
Did Purvi make a guest appearance in BALH?
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Posted: 12 years ago
#48

Originally posted by: Ashlaika

Ur statment in RED above - Since when was PURVI in BALH???!!! Did I miss some news, information, episodes?
Did PR and BALH have joint Maha episode we were not aware of?
Did Purvi make a guest appearance in BALH?


Because if not ...whatever little I know of the forum...cannot bash actors?
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Posted: 12 years ago
#49
Responding to some comments on this thread..

1. Purvi is in Mumbai for Arjun... Purvi has not conveyed this verbally or non-verbally on the show that I have seen. On the contrary, she is shown thinking of Onir. She wants to see Arjun happy with Ovi because otherwise her guilt in pushing him to marry Ovi will be unbearable.

2. Purvi's actions will kill Ovi's kid - Ovi's issues pre-date Purvi's reentry into her life. Purvi was happy in Kolkatta, The Ds and Arjun landed up there. She did not seek them out. Her complications and issues are her own.

3. Purvi is unfair to Onir - Absolutely yes. However, she sees, as Bee pointed out, no option and has put her own future and happiness at risk.


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Posted: 12 years ago
#50

Originally posted by: Ashi22

What hasPurvi done to Onir, she was a nice wife for 4 or 5 months, he was not intrested in her past so she did not tell him any thing, But now Purvi knows her sister needs her husband's help obviously she will put pressure on him, She is not asking divorce or anything, Why Doctor Onir is showing so much attitude,


Attitude?? Dr. Onir is showing attitude???😲 definitely NOT!
He has been insulted by OVI every single time. Ovi is a spoiled brat and please note that she mocked Onir's small clinic and etc. and she had problems with onir even before she knew that he's purvi's husband. Onir invited ovi cordially for dinner for puja and she used to give insulting looks at him every time. Purvi doesnt care about her own husband's humiliation, but rather takes the side of her sister who has only caused pain in her life and always ill-treated her. Cant Purvi, Arjun the deshmukhs all understand that ovi gets stressed out whenever she sees onir?? I cant understand why the whole family is hell-bent on the matter tht only onir must treat ovi?? Onir is tring to help ovi out...he doesnt want her to take unnecessary stress...thts why he's referring ovi to some other doctor where she'll b comfortable!! THIS IS NOT ATTITUDE. This is a GOOD and PROFESSIONALLY WISE decision made by Onir. Purvi is making a big deal of this small matter... she can't hear someone b against her opinion ...she's so freaking childish tht she left onir...thts PLAIN UNFAIR!!

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