@blue is exactly what I would feel too.
Shyamala B.Cowsik
Originally posted by: tejaswiniwenham
Sherma at this point I think Ovi's tantrums i would say are 100% justified. she shud give evryone hell. not a single person ever considered her in this entire situation- not her mother who thinks she is unnecessarily obsessive, not her best friend turned husband who didnt have the guts to anul the unconsumated marriage nor the inner strength to move on nor the sister whose primary concern is to seem like a good person nothing else.if she loved ovi she wud have told arjun that your free to go. but if you loved me then dont go marry my sister even if she insists- my family and i will knock some sense into her and please understand i cant marry you cos my sister loves you too and it would cos a rift in the family. whether ovi considered her family or not back then, things would have turned around eventually bcos ovi's parents would have made her see that arjun was not good for either of them. and if not then atleast purvi's conscience would have been clear. now some may say y shud purvi be the only one sacrificing- well because purvi is the one who grew up fantasizing about being a part of the deshmukh family with archana, ovi grew up hating her mother and maternal family for leaving her and her sibling. purvi wanted a baba and family- im sorry but you cant have everything the way you want. you cant have manav and archana and savita and damodar, teju sachu soham and conveniently leave ovi out of that list. its a package- your family and you take care of them whether they are awesome to you or not.someone wrote a review about how she accepted arvi engagment but cannot accept arovi divorce. i could have accepted arvi engagement if ovi was a stranger and not family. purvi is the worst example of an adopted sibling...this show will discourage family's with their own children from adopting if this is how little concern kids show for each other.i am only 24- married, have a kid and a stepkid and another on the way. i am half indian and half caucasian english- not conservative by any means. my parents are divorced trust me i understand there are situations where divorce is the best option but not when you divorce your wife to marry her sister or you divorce a wonderful husband for your so-called ishwala love for your ex jeeju. it really hurts to see that they are showing arvi reunion over showing sisters finally resolving issues and bonding. if i've learnt one thing from life its that there is nothing more important than family. i will not tolerate my husband's disrespect from anyone but never ever will i leave my parents and siblings for him either. cos guess what in todays world husbands leave and when he does your family will be there to pick up the pieces.Kools the serial is JUNOON- NAFRAT AISI TOH KAISA ISHQ. on Life Ok