Written Update : 14th December 2012 - Page 9

Originally posted by: sayeed87

tanya, i've finally become IF-Dazzler after more than 2 yrs.😊

Originally posted by: naava

congratulations Sai !!! I also hope you can get some extra help in your studies. Nice to see you on the forum again too.

Originally posted by: newt2007

thanks for the update

Archu's outfit was center of attraction today for me.

All other scenes made a filler to show the difference between Arjun-Ovi and Onir-Purvi marriage life.

though Archu will give some good advice to Ovi. but her dialogue is again big blunder. Archu so blind to her daughter's bad intention. Poor Arjun all are telling him to shower love on Ovi. Ovi who is not at all in the mood to see the reality.

acceptable When ovi got angry on Purvi. now this crazy girl is not liking Arjun showing concern for their own child.

Still the hide and seek not over.

Onir soft. EK likes to turn such character very violent later.

only after TRP release there is chance for further movement in the track is expected.

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Very very funny Usha ...So right you are ...😆😆😆

Archana's children have learned never to be like their mother ...they make others sacrifise . 🤣

yo uknow that Ankita is leaving and the production company is looking for a replacement ..They need not do that ..There is another Archana in the show ...Arjun Kirloskar , always sacrifising , always crying and not talking about his pain ...

He is the next Archana ...

Originally posted by: naava

I watched the show today for the first time in a while..and i have to say, i have a little different take than some. I liked almost nothing about it. 😔

What i did like

1. Anki's beautiful outfit..and i was really struck that it is even more important to show her as a modern woman. It brings freshness to a very stale show.. hopefully symbolic of progress in the thinking in this show of changing some ridiculous ideas that have been glorified (like the kind of sacrificing that destroys)

2. I liked seeing Soham again, i miss him and wish they would show the repaired relationship before Anki leaves

3. I really like Dr Onir as a person...he's sweet and charming but i don't like the marriage, even though i can see he has helped Purvi in some ways.

But so far i don't see much else to cheer...it's still, what word do you guys use? bakwaas? 😆

1. I really disagree with the advice Archu gives to Ovi. From the beginning it was wrong and even now. As a mother who loves her children it would be perfectly alright for her to tell Ovi that she is suffering these problems because she stole someone else's love and demanded something that wasn't hers. She should never tell Ovi that having the baby will bring her and Arjun closer. Ovi is way too selfish to be a mother, she will neglect this child running after her stolen husband. I don't consider their marriage valid and believe they should divorce.

2. Nor was the advice correct that Archu gave to Arjun, imo.

All of this is just exactly the same as if everyone said, well, yes Varsha stole Soham to have him for herself, and so even if it was wrong, we all must try to make it work. . It's hafook, upside down.

3. Purvi and Dr. Onir are sweet but...it makes me mad that the writers or whomever, will cause another heartbreak. What is their problem? And i am not comfortable with whatever immediate transformation of Purvi has happened because if she has just pushed her feelings down even further, it will eventually explode...you cannot squash your emotions forever.

I really do wonder about the CV's, Ekta and the writers. Really wonder.

I come here mostly just to see what my friends are saying, read the writeup..but the show has no substance of any kind. For me anyhow. 😃

EDIT: Onir is a sweet and caring person and would never keep Purvi from reuniting with Arjun...so the only way this could be redeemed imo is if Onir's no-nonsense approach to the petulant child Ovi results in an attraction between them and after Arvi reunited that they would marry. (Onvi ) 😆

Originally posted by: aditty

Naava:

I totally agree with your post!! You couldn't have written "truer lines"!!

I'm so flabbergasted by the fact that so many persons are raving about the 'sweet' Dr. Onir and how's he's oh so right for Purvi!! What good has Dr. Onir done for Purvi that Arjun has not more than done for her OR would not do (if given the chance) ?? Can someone please tell me!! AND if Dr. Onir deserves to be with Purvi for having rescued her in her 'choosen' unwed pregnant state- EVEN MORESO does Arjun after having been asked by Purvi to ruin his life over and over again to prove his undying love for her!!

I have said this before- if there's any justice in this show - Arjun deserves to be reunited with Purvi because after all the hell she has put him through just to prove his love for her- he deserves to be truly happy- and his happiness lies with her and with their child!!

Originally posted by: TALIRAlinda

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he could say easily that i love you i cant marry your sister , i cant consummate this marriage bcz i love you , i cant listen your word coz i want live with you ,, arjun has a tongue and purvi didnt lock it .

its his choice after all may be his heart also wanted this . may be he dont know as purvi said what your heart want you can do it , difference is may be his heart always wait for purvis command just like a mother .

really you cant see anything that what Onir did for purvi . sad , he saved her from so called society where arjun left her for humiliation .

its sad that he didnt get his chance , brain is useless if you cant use it at proper way , everyone has same merit but someone use it , someone not use it so love is useless if you cant take it . arjun didnt get his chance its his fault that he was not able to convince purvi at wedding night as purvi was emotionally blackmailed by crazy spoil brat ovi .

ovi also carry his own blood , how many womens child need arjun for happiness ?? is 1 child not enough for happiness ?? whats wrong with ovis child that he is not happy with that , its also his own blood and he loves his unborn childs mother and according to arcana

obsessed ovi loves arjuns everything what related with arjun and according to arcana this is gods symbol sosssooo

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linda, i think the fault lay with all three pretty equally. but @ underlind green, that was my point not in this post but another one. That if Ovi really did love Arjun she would love this child because it was Arjun's . The fact that she hates this child proves to me she not only is a totally selfish person (how could a woman not love the baby within her by the man she professes to love so much), but also that she doesn't love Arjun at all. Up until this i was willing to concede that though obnoxiously selfish, she maybe did love Arjun. There's no way that's true now. She's using him to feed a very sick soul.