Originally posted by: Tanyaz
You are right that Archana did everything to get Arjun and Purvi married , she was even ready to sell her jewllery and even got Manav ready to do the kanyadaan ..
DK was also so suuportive and he was so happy . I felt bad for him too .
Purvi did a very wrong thing by forcing Arjun to marry someone he did not love at all...No one has a right to misuse someone's love this way ...
Purvi got away with it because Arju nwas a fool ...I want Arjun to realize that he was the biggest fool and get angry and frustrated and yel lat someone ...It can only be Archana as she is the only one who would listen to him .He only opens his heart either to DK or to Archana ...After all Archana is the mother of Ovi and Purvi ...
The nI would like Archana to go to both her daughters and tell them what they are doing to Arjun ..Maybe this will make Ovi behave better with Arjun ( doubt that though ) ...For Purvi , Archana should definitely tell her that she has destroyed Arjun's life , now do not destroy Onir's life please ...stay with this good man and make a good life for yourself and your baby .
that's what I meant ..I wanted Arjun to go and tell Archana how unhappy and desperate he is because of her two daughters .
I agree Tanya that Arjun should be honest with Archana - not yell at her though, it wasn't her fault at all as ptevish said.. 😕 (DK blows with the wind and i no longer care about him...he of all people should have told Arjun this was wrong to marry Ovi when he loves Purvi). Poor Arjun has no one to confide in. Maybe he will confide in Dr. Onir before he realizes who he is ...😆
But i am feeling frustrated with the fact that Archu & others in the D&K families (and some on the forum 😆) are wanting Ovi and Arjun's marriage to work. Like i said earlier it was no different than Varsha stealing Soham, and for sure one would never say, lets' help Varsha be a good mother.
To me, the proof that Ovi never has loved Arjun is the baby. She didn't want it & is only using this baby to get back at Arjun because she's angry at him and to force what she desires from him. She has no concern what so ever for this child, in fact sounds like she hates it. If you really loved someone, and they didn't love you back, but you carried their child, in addition to any normal woman loving the child within her, you would really extra love this child since you understand it is the only thing of that person that you could have and say "at least i have a part of Arjun in this baby."
I know logic says Purvi should just forget Arjun and live happily ever after with the nice Dr Onir, but i don't think she can forget Arjun.. you see her every chance she gets - out of range of Dr Onir when she is alone and with her thoughts and memories - that she is longing for her mother and thinking of Arjun. I agree with you that what Purvi did was very very wrong. I think she didn't understand what she was doing actually. She was only thinking of her mother and didn't think beyond that. She is paying for that mistake a little bit, but the day she allows her feelings to surface will be very very painful for her...i think.
Edited by naava - 12 years ago
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