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Your story is so touching Teju...I hope all the best things life has to offer🤗Originally posted by: tejaswiniwenham
I feel like I have been taking Ovi's side a lot lately when really I was an ArVi fan. Its strange how perspectives change...mine changed the moment i saw Ovi in the same position as me. I grew up with very busy divorced parents. Daddy lived in London and Aai lived in NYC so I lived between my Aazuba in Mumbai and boarding school outside London. I missed my aai a lot growing up and did a lot of stupid things for her attention. when my aai retired I was already in college and then right after college my aazuba arranged my marriage and I obliged. Aai regrets never being close to me and when I was pregnant she was there for me but that changed nothing. there was a strange lack of understanding there. it was difficult for me to come to terms with my pregnancy as well...many insecurities from growing up without aai. I was around her age as well at 22. i thought this would ruin my life cos my husband loved someone else and our relationship was not very good. i felt lonely and stuck. but he came through for me and showered me with attention and care. assured me that I could do it. my sons now nearly 2 and a happy healthy child and my relationship with my husband is really good. he loves me and i love him. my relationship with my stepsons mum is really good as well. all ovi wants is the same thing. notice the distinct difference in reactions to wife not having medicine between onir and arjun. thats what makes or breaks relationships.
You know I can too identify so closely with Ovi, because my closest friend in school lost her mom at a young age. She did have a caring family, but still it was never the same...she got into trouble growing up...another day her story...I find it so hard to share...
