Stop the Naari Shakti Morchas - Page 5

Originally posted by: krishnaria

wonderful topic Tich..

very well written n much needed.totally in support.

Originally posted by: Sugar_21

I agree with what you say. Ovi deserves all the problems she's going through, but one thing I fail to understand is why didn't her family (including Arjun, Purvi, her parents) ...why didn't they once contemplate that Ovi is showing signs of psychotic illness...why didn't the take her to a counselor or psychiatric? I say this without any sarcasm, she needs help, she is a victim here (a victim to psychotic illness). Instead of helping her, people are just giving in by giving her what she demands (for example, getting her married to Arjun and then accepting this inane marriage, and then accepting her inexplicably eccentric behavior).

As for Arjun, man...I feel sorry for this guy. Such a sweet guy, but horrible fate (at least according to what has happened so far in the show).

I hope Ovi gets the medical help she needs, and Arjun gets the love he's been yearning for, and Purvi also needs to realize that her decision to abandon Arjun was unjust.

Originally posted by: Shaina_b

A much needed post!!!!!

Honestly I cannot see Arjun in this state!!!!😭 😭 😭 😭

He should go far away from these Deshmukh girls!!!!!

One wants him as a trophy and the other uses him to become mahaan!!!!!

Arjun just get rid of both of them and in good time find a good girl for yourself!!!!!!😊

Originally posted by: ameilia

Hi Tritha.This post was indeed necessary and i am glad u wrote it.Your elaborate and logical post is something that was needed on IF because these type of excuse i have been hearing just irks me and then i laugh😆 😆 😆.

If every pregnant woman's actions like trying to harm an unborn baby were to be blamed by hormonal changes,mood swings then GOD help this world.

The baby was just another pawn that Ovi was going to use to get Arjun.She is jealous that the baby gets more attention from Arjun.Isnt this Ovi's baby we are talking about not some other woman's baby.

Now for Arjun it seems he is not even spared for his dreams.He is not even allowed to do that it seems.First Ovi invades his life and now she has gotten into his head.Today we got to see that Arjun may not be in love with Ovi but she holds importance to him.With all the tantrums,deals,plotting that Ovi has done, it was always Arjun that suffered the most.Still he is a doting husband.Ovi has gotten his name,a place in his family,he is even taking care of her and her baby but he is still bashed why?

Because Arjun is still deeply in love with Purvi.

How can Arjun be expected to love a woman who didnt give two hoots about him,his feelings,refusing to acknowledge his feelings and his say in any matter.All Arjun has been doing is give,give,give and yet he gets nothing in return.His love has left him and doesnt even know the state that he is in and now the obsessed wife has turned psychotic and wont let him live in peace.

Just give the guy a break from this woman.She needs to be institutionalised and Arjun should just do what he wants for a change atleast he can live in peace then.

Originally posted by: ashvikluverrr

Heyy tiritha...well said.. 👏👏👏
couldnt agree with you more..this was much needed post..😃
agreed..arjun is victim here..and still is suffering..more than these two ladies...
really should stop this naari shakti morcha..coz ovi is not an innocent abla naari..she is tje one who has to be blamed..she wanted this marriage now she got what she wanted...she took every happiness from arjun's life..even purvi is to be blamed here..she loved him and being the perfect example of Mahaan girl also Sacrificed her love for sake of her family..if you wanted to choose your family anyways then why even love a guy who can do anything for you and then dump him on your marriage day..
clearly he does not deserves this..!!

Originally posted by: pomegranate

i think we can all agree that this entire mess is arjun, purvi and ovi's fault. Arjun should of just divorced ovi instead of making an even bigger mess by getting her pregnant. obviously, ovi expected certain amounts of affection from him because he went back to her and asked her for a second chance. Arjun should of thought twice before listening to purvi's ridiculous demands, because he knew very well that he has nothing to offer ovi except for friendship. He has made too many mistakes to count but blaming him for ovi's meltdown is just ludicrous. Ovi put an innocent baby in danger and people are defending her by saying it is "pregnancy hormones." excuse me but I have never heard of any hormonal pregnant women who put her unborn baby's life in danger.I see people blaming arjun for everything and I agree that he is not without fault. But if something happens to ovi's baby then it will be her own fault. she was the one who decided to consume excessive amounts of alcohol. she may be depressed but there is never a good excuse for putting your baby at risk. Arjun never loved her and never will so maybe it is time to accept that and learn to love the baby that has become a part of her.

Originally posted by: ..aastha..

this is the most sensible post. Still gender discrimination going on. Evey1 busy reminding arjun- duty of husband, archana- duty of mother and manav- duty of father and still blame game going on purvi but barbie doll is still in safe side.

Dont understand when arjun failed in the role of husband? After his marriage with ovi instead of acting like psycho and treating ovi like garbage (which happens in most of daily soap) he was back to normal in short time. He started working on his marriage 7 months ago. Is it his fault that his wife was busy worshiping punni? or its purvi's fault that ovi is still living in the world of ArVi and still not over with that?

How much u expect from a man? but here people want only arjun to work on marriage and sacrifice and ovi should sit and make face like rotten apple and eat muft ki roti and if get time out of her party management and alcohol than she should narrate the story of arvi and chant purvi's name in front of arjun.

Why arjun still imagine purvi? Simple he was more happy with purvi in those few days than this hell of madam ovi. And arjun was normal in party. It happened because ovi remind him about purvi. And still arjun is in fault.

but here basic duty of people remind rest of the world their duty like

1) manav should stop social service and give time to ovi as if manav has no other business to mind and no other children to look after. 18 years was for Barbie doll still he should waste time on her who didnt invited him in her marriage.

2) archana should act as mother as if ovi darling is only her daughter and leave rest 4. Archana should ask arjun why ovi committed suicide when she knows its because she is psycho. Still she should ask arjun.

3)arjun cant go out of town because ovi baby is alone at home. He should infor her maika wala before going to toilet also as ov cant live alone. Dont know why 5 month pregnant woman live alone when many women work till last month of pregnancy but special pregnant woman should be treated differently. Deshmukhs and arjun shoud sit with her till the bith of baby.

4) And most recent. Purvi is controlling every1 with remote control. Whenever barbie doll fails and there is no1 to blame let indulge purvi who is nt part of their life now.

Originally posted by: gaurav_ankita08

Yuppp Tirtha good n enough post to make people understand that Arjun is toy in between two girls...
Pink bold@ Jab pyaasa kuwa pani ke liye kisi aur kuwwe ke paas jaye toh usse chichora pan kehte hain that what ovi has done always went to punni n plotted wrong things against Purvi...
Blue bold@ Jaisi karni waisi bharni this line is only made for Ovi she wanted arjun but she didn't get love from him,In case she should have taken care of her Baby...
Red bold@ Yes man are more sensitive bcoz when they fall in love they only see the brighter part of the girl but when the girl leaves them then they become like Statue bas unke alwa aur kuch dikhayi nahi deta unhe...
Purple bold@ In india u expect things like this as if man slaps a women then people will say that he is wrong but when women slaps a man then they say wahh aaj is aurat ne kamal kar diya,I don't understand the logic here if people don't know what has happened in between then why to give ur faltu reactions...
Arjun slapped ovi that was much needed bcoz pointing 1 finger to another people u must see that 4 fingers are on ur side also(kisiko ek ungli dikhane se pehle socho ki baki ki char ungliya tumhare taraf bhi hain)Ovi always talked rubbish things i remember when she said to archana that she is feeling insecure bcoz of purvi so we should send her out of this city but Archana denied as she pointed that u are married to Arjun so u should take care of ur marriage Ovi.
Last i can say The worst daughter of Arman is Ovi as she is incredible with her insecurities...