Originally posted by: crazy2012
Thanks for your thread and well written..appreciate it.
Agree with you in regard to many points, but would like to take different views in some cases. Yes, I am a girl too, but still I have tried to analysis the situation logically..you can off course criticize me😃:
1) the domestic violence rules in India has been formed in the frame of dowry system, female harassment, torture etc which are common things in the rural (and urban as well!!) India..so, physically men are stronger than woman - it is proved..
2) yes, ovi is phyco and she has done a crime by drinking alcohol during her pregnancy - still, we must not forget Arjun is a civilised man, he still can not slap a lady who is going to be a mother of his baby - here we cant ignore his duty as well.
3) Arjun's character has lost its dignity. Yes, you have correctly said that man can not forget his love during his life time - this has been told by my friends so many time..so, do not you think that still mean arjun loves purvi..though he claims ovi as his wife..and he has given everything to his wife and he loves his baby's mother..he is telling lie to himself..
hey dear...🤗 long time.. there used to be days when we chatted in arvi thread for long hours..
anyways yes, i agree to ur points but there are loopholes u see.
1) domestic violence means not just physical torture, there are 3 categories - physical, mental and sexual. If a woman complains that her husband is harassing her mentally though he didnt beat her, that man will be booked under domestic violence too,,
now dont u think arjun is going through this type of harassment?
2) arjun will not slap ovi for her behaviour now.. and unfortunately he cant ignore too as he is pregnant. Arjun as an abuser is out of question.
3) Arjun loves Ovi.. though not as he loves Purvi but still he does love Ovi and care for her. Hence he is not lying. If not he wouldnt have been running like a mad man on the streets on Kolkata hearing that Ovi is admitted in hospital.
And a respect and mutual trust and understanding is important in a relationship than love. Love is the fourth thing that comes in a relationship. When Ovi doesnt respect Arjun, she doesnt trust him and doesnt understand him then how will she gain his true love. She should be happy that inspite of all her tantrums Arjun is the best husband she could ever get.