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Posted: 13 years ago
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Tich? that's ur name hun?

Thank you for a well written and much needed post.

Today I felt so sorry for Arjun... he IS trying to do what is best for his baby and by extension the mother of his child (which I still think is questionable). But the point is - he IS trying.

Arjun is hardly ever given credit when its due.

Thank you for posting.

p.s. didnt get most of your hindi... but I loved all that was in English :D.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Amazing post! I hope after your post people may change their mind. I definitely think its karma and that karma hasn't ended yet. Because ovi still have to suffer as she was the one who separated arvi. And I hope that people should stop bashing arjun. Nobody sees his pain which is just so unfair!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thanks for your thread and well written..appreciate it.

Agree with you in regard to many points, but would like to take different views in some cases. Yes, I am a girl too, but still I have tried to analysis the situation logically..you can off course criticize me😃:

1) the domestic violence rules in India has been formed in the frame of dowry system, female harassment, torture etc which are common things in the rural (and urban as well!!) India..so, physically men are stronger than woman - it is proved..

2) yes, ovi is phyco and she has done a crime by drinking alcohol during her pregnancy - still, we must not forget Arjun is a civilised man, he still can not slap a lady who is going to be a mother of his baby - here we cant ignore his duty as well.

3) Arjun's character has lost its dignity. Yes, you have correctly said that man can not forget his love during his life time - this has been told by my friends so many time..so, do not you think that still mean arjun loves purvi..though he claims ovi as his wife..and he has given everything to his wife and he loves his baby's mother..he is telling lie to himself..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: crazy2012

Thanks for your thread and well written..appreciate it.

Agree with you in regard to many points, but would like to take different views in some cases. Yes, I am a girl too, but still I have tried to analysis the situation logically..you can off course criticize me😃:

1) the domestic violence rules in India has been formed in the frame of dowry system, female harassment, torture etc which are common things in the rural (and urban as well!!) India..so, physically men are stronger than woman - it is proved..

2) yes, ovi is phyco and she has done a crime by drinking alcohol during her pregnancy - still, we must not forget Arjun is a civilised man, he still can not slap a lady who is going to be a mother of his baby - here we cant ignore his duty as well.

3) Arjun's character has lost its dignity. Yes, you have correctly said that man can not forget his love during his life time - this has been told by my friends so many time..so, do not you think that still mean arjun loves purvi..though he claims ovi as his wife..and he has given everything to his wife and he loves his baby's mother..he is telling lie to himself..


hey dear...🤗 long time.. there used to be days when we chatted in arvi thread for long hours..
anyways yes, i agree to ur points but there are loopholes u see.

1) domestic violence means not just physical torture, there are 3 categories - physical, mental and sexual. If a woman complains that her husband is harassing her mentally though he didnt beat her, that man will be booked under domestic violence too,,

now dont u think arjun is going through this type of harassment?

2) arjun will not slap ovi for her behaviour now.. and unfortunately he cant ignore too as he is pregnant. Arjun as an abuser is out of question.

3) Arjun loves Ovi.. though not as he loves Purvi but still he does love Ovi and care for her. Hence he is not lying. If not he wouldnt have been running like a mad man on the streets on Kolkata hearing that Ovi is admitted in hospital.

And a respect and mutual trust and understanding is important in a relationship than love. Love is the fourth thing that comes in a relationship. When Ovi doesnt respect Arjun, she doesnt trust him and doesnt understand him then how will she gain his true love. She should be happy that inspite of all her tantrums Arjun is the best husband she could ever get.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ashlaika

Tich? that's ur name hun?

Thank you for a well written and much needed post.

Today I felt so sorry for Arjun... he IS trying to do what is best for his baby and by extension the mother of his child (which I still think is questionable). But the point is - he IS trying.

Arjun is hardly ever given credit when its due.

Thank you for posting.

p.s. didnt get most of your hindi... but I loved all that was in English :D.


hey dear... u can ask me what u didnt understand. The title Naari Shakti Morcha mean Women's Right Campaign.. lolzz..


yup, arjun was always misunderstood just because people are interested in watching mahaan and sanskaari naaris like purvi, ovi and archana.. just coz he is a man doesnt mean that these women can blame him for everything without proper sense of right and wrong.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Manoshono

Amazing post! I hope after your post people may change their mind. I definitely think its karma and that karma hasn't ended yet. Because ovi still have to suffer as she was the one who separated arvi. And I hope that people should stop bashing arjun. Nobody sees his pain which is just so unfair!



arjun's mistake is that he is a man hence the scapegoat for the CVs, ekta and the gender biased fans of PR. First Manav and now him..

people encourage characters like Ovi by sympathizing with her and and let CVs create many other such Manju, Varsha, Punni and Ovis because these people let such characters affect them.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Awesome post dear.. Ppl bash Arjun right and left but dont realize how hard it must be for him to cope with all of this.. He is doing the best he can but still be is being blamed...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: AquaNymph




<font face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">arjun's mistake is that he is a man hence the scapegoat for the CVs, ekta and the gender biased fans of PR. First Manav and now him..</font>

<font face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">people encourage characters like Ovi by sympathizing with her and and let CVs create many other such Manju, Varsha, Punni and Ovis because these people let such characters affect them.</font>

I think we should be more practical. I understand sympathizing with ovi just because she is pregnant is understandable but how can we forget the mistakes that she has done. She basically has ruined everyone's lives. I hate seeing arjun taking care of her. Tolerating this only because she is so called pregnant. And now everyone is praising about onir and comparing him with arjun. That's very discriminating. It feels like as if arjun didn't care about purvi. He also risked his life to save her from those goons and etc. I don't why things change just because someone has done one thing wrong and in this case arjun was intimated with ovi.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Manoshono

I think we should be more practical. I understand sympathizing with ovi just because she is pregnant is understandable but how can we forget the mistakes that she has done. She basically has ruined everyone's lives. I hate seeing arjun taking care of her. Tolerating this only because she is so called pregnant. And now everyone is praising about onir and comparing him with arjun. That's very discriminating. It feels like as if arjun didn't care about purvi. He also risked his life to save her from those goons and etc. I don't why things change just because someone has done one thing wrong and in this case arjun was intimated with ovi.


i agree. pregnancy is a change not a disease.
can u believe that some women's rights commission people here are justifying ovi's behaviour in the last two episodes by giving the reason of mood swings🤣🤣🤣

yeah why do men always need to go on agneepath and give agneepariksha???
as if the females are doodh ki dhuli huyi.. uff..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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dear Tich lovely n logical post...
hope atleast after reading ur post if not sympathise ppl will atleast not simply blame Arjun for everything that's happening...

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