Stop the Naari Shakti Morchas - Page 4

Hi Tritha.This post was indeed necessary and i am glad u wrote it.Your elaborate and logical post is something that was needed on IF because these type of excuse i have been hearing just irks me and then i laugh😆 😆 😆.

Heyy tiritha...well said.. 👏👏👏
couldnt agree with you more..this was much needed post..😃
agreed..arjun is victim here..and still is suffering..more than these two ladies...
really should stop this naari shakti morcha..coz ovi is not an innocent abla naari..she is tje one who has to be blamed..she wanted this marriage now she got what she wanted...she took every happiness from arjun's life..even purvi is to be blamed here..she loved him and being the perfect example of Mahaan girl also Sacrificed her love for sake of her family..if you wanted to choose your family anyways then why even love a guy who can do anything for you and then dump him on your marriage day..
clearly he does not deserves this..!!

Originally posted by: ameilia

Hi Tritha.This post was indeed necessary and i am glad u wrote it.Your elaborate and logical post is something that was needed on IF because these type of excuse i have been hearing just irks me and then i laugh😆😆😆.

If every pregnant woman's actions like trying to harm anunbornbaby were to be blamed by hormonal changes,mood swings then GOD helpthisworld.

The baby was just another pawn that Ovi was going to use to get Arjun.She is jealous that the baby gets moreattentionfrom Arjun.Isnt this Ovi's baby we are talking about not some other woman's baby.

Now for Arjun it seems he is not even spared for his dreams.He is not even allowed to do that it seems.First Ovi invades his life and now she has gotten into his head.Today we got to see that Arjun may not be in love with Ovi but she holdsimportanceto him.With all the tantrums,deals,plotting that Ovi has done, it was always Arjun that suffered the most.Still he is a doting husband.Ovi has gotten his name,a place in his family,he iseventaking care of her and her baby but he is still bashed why?

Because Arjun is still deeply in love with Purvi.

How can Arjun be expected to love a woman who didnt give two hoots about him,his feelings,refusing to acknowledge his feelings and his say in any matter.All Arjun has been doing is give,give,give and yet he gets nothing in return.His love has left him and doesnt even know the state that he is in and now the obsessed wife has turned psychotic and wont let him live in peace.

Just give the guy a break from this woman.She needs to beinstitutionalisedand Arjun should just do what he wants for a change atleast he can live in peace then.

heyy amy..again very well said.*claps*
especially the bolded part..couldnt agree woth you more..the limit will be he would also be bashed for running his way to the airport..he is always bashed as he is the only one who care about others..he cared about ovi..the one who has turned his whole life upside down with her deals and plottings..he also cares for purvi who had dumped him on their marriage day and made him marry with a psycho girl.. and now also he is suffering..the most I can say..i dont care about ovi and purvi coz its all because of them..they should suffer..now because of all three one unborn children will also suffer..really a pity..!

this is the most sensible post. Still gender discrimination going on. Evey1 busy reminding arjun- duty of husband, archana- duty of mother and manav- duty of father and still blame game going on purvi but barbie doll is still in safe side.

Dont understand when arjun failed in the role of husband? After his marriage with ovi instead of acting like psycho and treating ovi like garbage (which happens in most of daily soap) he was back to normal in short time. He started working on his marriage 7 months ago. Is it his fault that his wife was busy worshiping punni? or its purvi's fault that ovi is still living in the world of ArVi and still not over with that?

How much u expect from a man? but here people want only arjun to work on marriage and sacrifice and ovi should sit and make face like rotten apple and eat muft ki roti and if get time out of her party management and alcohol than she should narrate the story of arvi and chant purvi's name in front of arjun.

Why arjun still imagine purvi? Simple he was more happy with purvi in those few days than this hell of madam ovi. And arjun was normal in party. It happened because ovi remind him about purvi. And still arjun is in fault.

but here basic duty of people remind rest of the world their duty like

1) manav should stop social service and give time to ovi as if manav has no other business to mind and no other children to look after. 18 years was for Barbie doll still he should waste time on her who didnt invited him in her marriage.

2) archana should act as mother as if ovi darling is only her daughter and leave rest 4. Archana should ask arjun why ovi committed suicide when she knows its because she is psycho. Still she should ask arjun.

3)arjun cant go out of town because ovi baby is alone at home. He should infor her maika wala before going to toilet also as ov cant live alone. Dont know why 5 month pregnant woman live alone when many women work till last month of pregnancy but special pregnant woman should be treated differently. Deshmukhs and arjun shoud sit with her till the bith of baby.

4) And most recent. Purvi is controlling every1 with remote control. Whenever barbie doll fails and there is no1 to blame let indulge purvi who is nt part of their life now.

Originally posted by: AquaNymph

hey dear...🤗 long time.. there used to be days when we chatted in arvi thread for long hours..

anyways yes, i agree to ur points but there are loopholes u see.

1) domestic violence means not just physical torture, there are 3 categories - physical, mental and sexual. If a woman complains that her husband is harassing her mentally though he didnt beat her, that man will be booked under domestic violence too,,

now dont u think arjun is going through this type of harassment?

2) arjun will not slap ovi for her behaviour now.. and unfortunately he cant ignore too as he is pregnant. Arjun as an abuser is out of question.

3) Arjun loves Ovi.. though not as he loves Purvi but still he does love Ovi and care for her. Hence he is not lying. If not he wouldnt have been running like a mad man on the streets on Kolkata hearing that Ovi is admitted in hospital.

And a respect and mutual trust and understanding is important in a relationship than love. Love is the fourth thing that comes in a relationship. When Ovi doesnt respect Arjun, she doesnt trust him and doesnt understand him then how will she gain his true love. She should be happy that inspite of all her tantrums Arjun is the best husband she could ever get.

Originally posted by: AquaNymph

If ovi has shown some maturity instead of being a psycho then Arjun would have definitely loved her.

He has tried everything but he couldnt develop love for her and the reason for it is not his love for Purvi, but Ovi herself.

Ovi didnt fulfill any duties of a wife except for arranging so called parties which any event manager could have done. The real duty of a wife lies in understanding and supporting a husband and take care of his little things which Ovi has never done.

Jab pyaas lagti hai toh pyaase ko kuwe ke paas jaana padta hai, kuwa pyaase ke paas nahi aata.

This is what Ovi failed to understand. And how will she understand? She has got everything she has even thought of since childhood. Arjun was like a toy or accessory for her which she wanted to buy or deal in any case.

It is called Karma.

jaisi karni waisi bharni.

For all the naari shakti campaign holders,

instead of blaming Arjun that he is dreaming of Purvi, what do you expect? That he should love Ovi without any effort from her.

What exactly did Ovi do that Arjun should love her?

The basic thing is trust. Did she trust him?

No. She chose to trust Punni, whom she doesnt even know properly, just for the mental satisfaction that she is the only one who seem to support her insecurities.

ok, if not trust, then did she make a proper conversation with him? No.

Jab dekho taane maarti rehti hai.

Leave alone a wife or a lover, she couldnt even become a good friend to him..

Men are more sensitive than women, especially in love.

A woman may fall in love with difficulty but she forgets easily and men fall in love easily but it takes a lifetime for them to forget.

Women like Purvi, well less said the better. When they love a guy they'll not remember their family and when they remember their family they'll forget the guy.

So please, think logically and stop the naari shakti morchas on justice to Ovi, justice to Purvi and Blame Arjun. It's Arjun who is facing sort of domestic violence here. Unfortunately we dont have law in our country under domestic violence for men and our mindset is so narrow that we dont sympathize with Arjun just because he is a man.

When a guy slaps a girl people call him an abuser and when a girl slaps a guy people say that definitely the guy only must have done something. That is not true. Take for Arjun slapping Ovi - it was needed. But i'm sure many will raise issues on this too and why? Just because Arjun is a man and Ovi is his wife. If a wife gets pychotic and talks rubbish, degrades her husband's image and another girl's image due to her insecurities and misbehaves in a public place not ready to listen to anyone, doesnt she needs to get slapped? and ovi itni besharam hai ki thappad kha kar bhi chup nahi baithti.. lolzz height of besharminess.

I-F is female dominant site, so my post may not appeal to all, but this for the people with conscience who dont like gender discrimination. (which doesnt just mean women discriminating from men but men discriminating from women too)

-Tirtha.

Yuppp Tirtha good n enough post to make people understand that Arjun is toy in between two girls...
Pink bold@ Jab pyaasa kuwa pani ke liye kisi aur kuwwe ke paas jaye toh usse chichora pan kehte hain that what ovi has done always went to punni n plotted wrong things against Purvi...
Blue bold@ Jaisi karni waisi bharni this line is only made for Ovi she wanted arjun but she didn't get love from him,In case she should have taken care of her Baby...
Red bold@ Yes man are more sensitive bcoz when they fall in love they only see the brighter part of the girl but when the girl leaves them then they become like Statue bas unke alwa aur kuch dikhayi nahi deta unhe...
Purple bold@ In india u expect things like this as if man slaps a women then people will say that he is wrong but when women slaps a man then they say wahh aaj is aurat ne kamal kar diya,I don't understand the logic here if people don't know what has happened in between then why to give ur faltu reactions...
Arjun slapped ovi that was much needed bcoz pointing 1 finger to another people u must see that 4 fingers are on ur side also(kisiko ek ungli dikhane se pehle socho ki baki ki char ungliya tumhare taraf bhi hain)Ovi always talked rubbish things i remember when she said to archana that she is feeling insecure bcoz of purvi so we should send her out of this city but Archana denied as she pointed that u are married to Arjun so u should take care of ur marriage Ovi.
Last i can say The worst daughter of Arman is Ovi as she is incredible with her insecurities...

LoL! Where are these so called naari shakti morcha people when Ovi being a woman and pregnant decides to drink wine. and I bet even those naari shalti morcha people blame Arjun for her drinking. Seriously hadh hoti hai yaar. Arjun is trying is best. Even now he know Ovi's life needs saving he is trying his best to save her. Not thinking about his injuries, he's trying to be there for his wife. Atleast his trying to move on but if Ovi won't let him by constantly bickering, then why is it Arjun's fault