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Posted: 13 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: ameilia

Avni,
do u think that the entire D clan would have accepted Purvi is she didnt sacrifice Arjun to Ovi?
Hahaha A big fat NO.
Manav said that he would always be there for her etc but he didnt look at her properly after Arjun confessed he was indeed in love with Purvi.
Manav had the guts to slap a 20+ year old man who didnt commit any crime by loving in love but to knock some sense into his that brat's tiny brain it was so hard for him.Not once did he reprimand her for breaking her sister's engagement and bartering Arjun for Archana's happiness.
Archana the Original Mahan knows wat its like to be separated from the one u love.The pain, loneliness and the sufferings that accompanies it.When Ovi slapped Purvi the first time Puni got the slap for messing with Purvi.Here where Purvi was so happy and enjoying herself after such a long time Archana said nothing to Ovi.No slaps,no famous speech etc.
Blood is thicker than water...the way things unravel in these type of situations like the one today i am left to believe that.
Was there any iota of sympathy or concern for Purvi?NO.They were all comforting the baby as she has lost her pacifier.
Purvi is a part of the D clan only becaz she had to prove herself.Is that how a family operates?None of then would even talk to her properly when she was engaged.No one of them give two hoots abt her esp Savita whom i recalled said she was picked up on the road.How cruel and now they all act so loving and caring,buying her things.Like if they can ever repay her for the favour she has done them.
Its time like this that we see who are our loved ones and who are not.Family stand by you thru thick and thin and never discriminate between the children...here i see blatant discrimination between Ovi and Purvi.
I guess Purvi was Archana's pastime and now she got her parivaar back Purvi can go shove it.
Elders have a right to defend their children but all i see is them once again proving that blood is thicker than water.
Purvi Deshmukh by name not Purvi Deshmukh by heart(my personal view)

Amy I totally agree with you ... when Purvi was in love with Arjun she was the worst girl on earth but now that she gave Ovi her toy shes ok..
In a family you dont have to prove yourself and nor do you owe anyone anything.. The mere fact that Purvi feels as if she has to give back to Archana and has to make sure there are no problems in Ovi's life is wrong...
The only reason Purvi is Purvi Deshmukh is because she needs a name by heart she a different person.. By her actions you can tell she is one of her own kind she may have traits like Archana but she is no copy.. I really want Purvi to change her name to something that does not have Deshmukh in it...

lol so I was just thinking.. Im going to relate this to twilight... I want Onir to be Purvi's Jacob... he brought her back to life... but yet Edward( Arjun) will always remain the love of her life
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Posted: 13 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: jdronamraju



No one except Arjun thinks of her or worries about her. The sad part is she hankers for the "family", and not for him. The family just pays lip service, like they did when they so lovingly wanted her to come live with them, as she has done her good deed of sacrifice for their darling. It is like they pet a stray dog, and reward it for a good deed but never really care for it. All of them care a pin for her, she will always remain an outsider there as long as the matter is regarding Ovi. Not one, even laid a sympathetic hand on her shoulder, rather they were looking at her shocked and suspiscious even when Ovi was on her outburst.
Now, when she leaves town, everyone will internally heave a sigh of relief, after some lip service and carry along like nothing happened today. Mark my words.. That is the D-family for you, when it comes to Purvi.

😲 No one even put a hand on Purvi.. now I feel really bad for her she was all alone while Ovi got all the love and attention... She needs to get away from this family... who will love her one day and hate her the next..
I bet you no one but Archana is going to care if Purvi left.. maybe not even Archana now that she got her family back...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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You know, guys, after the drasted wedding, on some thread, in one of the discussions, I was asked what would I do, if I was in Archana's position, because I was complaining of how bad parents they all are bec none of them did nothing about the marriage but merrily went their way celebrating the reception. I had said that if Ovi was my daughter, I would give her one tight slap and have the marriage annulled immediately for I do not want my daughter to be in a loveless marriage all her life and hanker after a guy who loves someone else.Something in that vein.. I was told then that my thoughts were very radical !! Mine probably are to some, but really, if she was my kid, or even Purvi or Arjun,I would have still done the same. It was just a wedding in name, and the first day, and my thought was that it is better to live a life with a stigma (if at all there is one), than live in a loveless marriage. As parents, it is our duty to help and rectify the mistakes of our kids, irrespective of their ages, when they take actions in haste. They will not understand you then, but will later... But, anyways, that was my POV...Now, look at the mess they have all created for themselves.. Not one of them is happy with their lives...


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Posted: 13 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: jdronamraju

Jai, the comments are not about Ankita, it was about the character, Archana. I wrote what I felt, it is ok to disagree.. But, as I said, there is nothing personal against the actress in there ... On a side note, If Ankita is moving on to do better things, good for her. She definitely does not need to play mother of 5 and a nani at this age. She definitely deserves to go further in her career..But, it was her choice to stay till now too..



Ok...people this is what i have to say about Archana not doing anything...first of all Jai i don't think it is because of Ankita is fed up...even if she is she will still do it if the script says so...she is a professional and like any professional u do your job..Jyothi, to me the reason Archana did nothing is so that Arjun could yell the last line I love Purvi...if Archana had already slap Ovi, she will be having the fight with Archana and Ovi beta will still be thinking and dreaming that Arjun loves her...her mother has told her to trust Arjun and make it work...did she listen of course not...why would she listen now...she needed to listen it from and Arjun and she got it from Arjun...loud, plain and simple...👏👏 Go Arjun...today the parents kept quiet because Arjun needed to voice his feelings...this is the only way for Purvi to leave...if Archana slapped Ovi and told her to accept reality...she would also be able to stop Purvi from leaving...after today it is best for Purvi to leave...and i am thankfully Archana did nothing for it is time we stop moving in circles and finally take the damn leap...😃😃😃

P/S :- Great post...👏👏
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Posted: 13 years ago
#45
I don't think Ovi was ever wronged. What she is now is what she has always been. She never realized that Arjun never loved her even when they were in Canada. She was the one who always claimed to love him to the point of obsession (the reason I use that word is bcos they always showed Teju thinking that way).

In Canada in one of the parties, it is she who falsely tells that Arjun is her fiancee and later tries to get close to Romil and others in the hope that Arjun would feel jealous. Arjun comes to her rescue when she gets into trouble with those guys, but Arjun did not help bcos he loved her, he helped her bcos she was in trouble and she was his friend. She mistakes it for his love. Later Arjun tells both parents that he doesn't love her the way they think he does but is willing to marry her with the thought that someday the friendship can turn into love, since he is always busy and isn't really looking for love and would accept anything that Ovi can give him. He never had planned to fall in love with Purvi but it happened.

After knowing the truth about Arjun, if Ovi had given up, instead of claiming that Arjun did not love Purvi even after repeatedly telling so, and making herself and her family miserable, I would have respected her. But no, she wanted to achieve him and nothing else. She did a terrible mistake by marrying a man knowingly well that he loves someone else. Which was completely wrong.
When she got what she wanted, she should have made the best of it, but no, instead of that, she kept blaming Purvi. Arjun and Purvi never planned to meet or talk after his marriage, but they happen to. If Ovi could give up on her mistrust and insecurities, she could still make a good life, but no, she has never known what those are. If she did, she wouldn't have married Arjun.

Even after loving Purvi and bcos of Ovi's mistake if Arjun married Ovi and then if Arjun had realized he did infact love Ovi, then that would have been a different story. But Ovi is not making that happen, she is hell bent on blaming Purvi and destroying her married life. In addition she wants to trust Punni. If such is the case, no one can help Ovi. She needs to fall, only then she will learn.

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Posted: 13 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: bee5


Bee,
Rithvik was just fabulous today !! He outdid himself !! Fantastic job ! 👏
Jia, as Punni is the best..👏...She comes rarely, but whenever she comes there is halchal all the way.
Shruthi, for a young girl of 19, does a very good job and today I thought she was at her best. I cannot think of another Ovi than her, for she portrays the childish, sullen, petulant, self-absorbed gal very well...She wasn't as good initially, but she has improved by leaps and bounds now. Working with senior actors definitely helps these young kids.

Now coming to the main interest, I do not understand Purvi's sacrifice completely, but do to some extent knowing the history behind it. I do empathize with her need to give her aai back her life. But, what I find objectionable is HOW she did it. That is something I still cannot accept, forgive and forget. She did it behind his back, and not only that, she deceived him till the end, even after deciding to do it. That is unacceptable to me. Anyway, no point rehashing history.
Yes, sadly, Arjun still understands her. Even if he gets frustrated sometimes with her, he still knows why she did it and is trying to honor it for her sake. And probably will do it too, after tomorrow, when she is going to ask him once AGAIN to do it for their love. But, isn't that the biggest loss in her life, to loose such a person? Is this mother and so-called sister worth it?
It is too late now, they are so entangled into this web of sacrifice, they can never breach this contract willingly as long as Ovi holds on to it. And, as of now, there is no way, she is going to give it up.

A family with a father, brother and sisters is just a myth that Purvi had been hankering for so long. As we saw today, they care a hoot for her, when it comes to Ovi. yes, she will be an orphan again in the true sense now. For, she does not have even Arjun now, who would have been her only family in the true sense. Sadly, so..




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Posted: 13 years ago
#47

Originally posted by: Axiom

I wholeheartedly agree Bee! The elders should have stepped in and stopped this farce and gotten Ovi some help right then. Instead they just fed her imbalance by 'going along with it to keep HER happy.' Their message was clear - reward petulance and ignore chasm-sized heartbreaks.

Most of these adults had their own agends anyway so they had not a care for the train wreck that just happened. "They're young and can sort these things out themselves. Ahhh - peace and quiet and no more yelling from the kids" Even today, everyone was shocked, SHOCKED by Ovi's and Arjun's revelations.
Really???
They have all noticed the elephant in the room at one time or another - the most recent Farooq's visit. She erupted then and Purvi disappeared so all was well. Its obvious that Arjun's feelings matters not to the D clan - only Ovi's. He's just the prize that she HAD to have but hopefully one day it wil smack her in the face that love isn't about possession but freedom.
Wait... that was a poor choice of words wasn't it - my bad 🤣


Right, Laurie. The only way the darted girl can redeem is by letting go. The parents definitely do not care, but the viewers do care.

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Posted: 13 years ago
#48

Originally posted by: bee5


Okay I need to step in here.

Actor's age has nothing to do with Character's age.
If they want and are capable, they can play any character of any age. Yes, there are limitations but there is technology to help.

This is no comparison, but an example:
Anupam Kher made an entry into hindi films at the age of 28 yrs in the film Saaransh in the role of an aging old man and he played it fabulously. There are many such examples all over the world.

Ultimately, it is the actor's prerogative and sud be respected.

True but it can affect a actor's career as well and Anki has done more than enough with Archu's character and she has every right to move on if she wants.Actors capabilitty does not come in ,when she can play a role of mother of 5 grown ups of her age and still convince the audience with her acting skills then playing grandmom is not a big deal.So capability is not a question here its a actor choice and I respect her choice and so do many.I would not prefer to go further on this topic as it can result for this thread to shut-down as I know discussing actors personal choices are against IF rules.So I will leave it to that.
I hope I was able to provide some clarification.
Edited by Jaishankar - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#49
Abhi,
U just want the story to move on a fast track so that we get to the leap and then the messier part can start, and we can be done with it.. don't u 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: jdronamraju

Abhi,
U just want the story to move on a fast track so that we get to the leap and then the messier part can start, and we can be done with it.. don't u 😆



Yes Ji...can't take the stupid circle anymore...all crying...at least in the leap i can see Shakti...and Ankit will be back...you can't seriously tell me that u hadn't had enough with this never ending circle...let's more on...

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