The Leap & Purvi

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: hangok
tiim actually i still reader but you have written it so well that i couldnt stop me for writing...

i can only agree with you, there are so many peoples who say that they love purvi but when she needs someone, there is nobody where she can go cry and pour out her heart...

i know arjun loves purvi a lot but he cant do anything for there love, but i think he have to do something, if he loves her really,

so therefor i only hope that this onir will love her from heart and shows her the true meaning of love and suports and stand beside her all the time...
and once again a nice post👏

r u want to say arjun not love her from heart / come on arjun also loves her from heart . difference is arjun is a super stupid lover but may be onir will not turn stupid lover hope so .by the way i dont think purvi and onir r married .

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Originally posted by: soapwatcher1
Tanya, Archana will be raked over the coals and her sanskars will be ridiculed if Purvi is found to be an unwed mother.

I still don't think Arjun and Purvi have an affair after the marriage, I am certain the baby is a result of that hut incident. The romancing in Kolkata does not ring true, there is no baby bump on Purvi in those scenes. Unless there is a flashback when Arjun and Purvi see each other at the Durga puja to earlier Kolkata scenes between the two. I am hoping the CVs will not sink that low as to create an affair between them after marriage unless of course, as I had taken a wild guess that these two are already married before the Ovi wedding and Onir is pretending to be Purvi's husband. Plot seems interesting but degrading if Arjun is dad to two babies.

Archana loves Purvi no doubt but Ovi has driven Purvi away from everyone including her Aai. Manav is trying his best to be a good dad but he is hampered in his efforts by his ladli.😭

can u please tell me more about Arjun and Purvi's hut incident. i can't remember it.

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Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Hi Jhanvi , I did not comment on the show today ...will try not to at all..I am really angry about the way Ankii s being treated , that's why 😡 ( I am her fan na, so I am sure you will understand ) ..

But I had to come here to just give you answer to this ..

You were right and I was wrong ..It does seems that the baby happened when Purvi was going to get married to Arjun and at that time he was not her jeeju so thank God , no dirty Jeeja saali adultery ...🤢

But I would say one thing Jhanvi, I must say that Purvi is really controlling yaar ...see the precap , now she is indirectly telling Arjun to sleep with Ovi ..

You know when first time Purvi met her dad , and the way she used to behave , I had told Jai that Jai , you mark my words , if it is ever between Manav and Arjun then Purvi will choose Manav . Purvi always had Archana ...but she wanted Manav for Archana , Manav as a dad for herself and the whole family to be her family ..Maybe living in house with just those 3 ladies made her want a family very bad ...she has good intentions and wants everyone to be happy ( unless your name is Arjun of course 😆 ) but she does not really needs anyone at all..She is way more confident and sure of what she wants ...much more than her mother ...She controls Archana's life and honestly , she is more of the mother to Archana than the other way ..

Just look how she changed her mind and got Arjun married to Ovi ...Archana did not have a clue ...

She slept with Arjun because she was in love with him ...

She , on her own is on this mission to reform Soham ..

She on her own went to get Vinod to come and live with Sulochna ...

The girl was controlling the whole company on her own , even today they have not found a better replacement ..She really took Arjun heads on when he was the boss..

She was not at all afraid of sachin , a big lawyer and fought him on every step ..had a big Judge sukriti in her pocket ...

Arjun toh, he is totally under her control..She only has to push the button and he starts dancing ...

I really don't think this kind of a girl needs anyone to control her , neither her parents not anyone ...she does exactly what she wants ...

And by the looks of it , this Doctor also will be dancing to her orders ...he is not the father but will be telling the world that the baby is his ...

That's great ...Again I will say that Purvi is a good girl and she only wants a family very badly ...and that is sweet and she is nuts about her parents specially her mother whome she adores and would do anything for her ..Nothing wrong with that ...

However it is very wrong what she is doing to Arjun ..Today that poor fellow was in so much pain ..everyone could see that .He even foolishly confessed his love ( he will now have to sleep with Ovi for this crime ...sister Purvi will make sure of it ) .Wh ycan't Purvi see how much pain he is in and how miserable his life is with Ovi ..She is telling him now to make it worse by sleeping with Ovi ...

Has she not hurt him enough?

When a guy sleeps with a girl and dumps her in literarly few hours after wards then we curse him and call him gaalis for using the girl and what not ...

What will we call the girl , who got intimate with the boy , got him so much in love with her , got him emotionaly and physically involved and then dumpd him and is totally using the fact that he is still foolishly in love with her . That is also not fair at all...

Manav should send Purvi to a good Uni that teaches politics ...she will make a good Prime Minister and because she is good person , she will do the world a lot of good ...

Tanya, I understand you are Ankita's fan 😊but we are not talking about Ankita here but the character, Archana. I am perplexed too that a 26 or 27 yr old is being expected to play grandmother, ridiculous to the extreme! Glad she is quitting, she is not a two bit actress, she can easily find roles better suited. Archana's role has given her name and fame, Ankita now needs to move on.

I would not say Purvi controls Archana's life. I would say Archana controls Purvi's entire world. Nobody stops Purvi when she does these things for Archana. When she got Ovi married, after the initial "why did you do this" all was forgotten, everyone moved on with not a thought to Purvi. Even today, they all looked surprised at Arjun's words. As for saving Soham, nobody stopped Purvi from doing any of the things she did, if matters work in their favor, her family accepts it, if it doesn't, she is blamed. Even today when Ovi kept ranting, the rest of the family except Manav with his "beta" dialogue remained mum.

Remember Archana had asked Purvi a long time ago to play detective and find out who the girl was in Arjun's life when Ovi was upset. Archana does depend on Purvi and trusts Purvi to set things right. With the absence of Manav in her life, she has learned to lean on Purvi and vice versa. Nothing wrong in that.

Purvi is burdened with an overwhelming sense of guilt and debt towards her mother and yes, after a certain age, roles are reversed between parent and child. After having no other sahara except each other, it is but natural for Purvi to want to take care of her mother. Even the day she is brought into the D household, she thanks her mother for her family, her mother does not tell her that she needn't be grateful, there is nothing to be grateful about. It was Archana who talked about Manav to this girl all the time so yes when the divorce was pending, she did thwart Sachin's attempt. Do we call Sachin controlling for trying to run his dad's life? Do we call Ovi controlling and manipulative for trying to control her dad's life (in trying to prevent him from bringing her mother home), in laying forth terms to Purvi and forcing her to give up Arjun or trying to tell her dad not to pay ransom for Purvi? These can all be interpreted as controlling acts as well.

People comply with what Purvi wants for the most part because what she wants is usually the right thing - her mother's happiness in reuniting with her dad, her mother's happiness in gaining her son, her mother's happiness or peace of mind in not leaving her grandmother alone but having Vinod come live with Sulo.

Purvi's efficiency at work is not controlling, she is a great career woman, kudos to her, as Archana herself bragged with rightful maternal pride at Vinay's engagement, she has raised her daughter to be self suffiicent and educated. As for Arjun dancing to Purvi's tune, that is not control, that is love. Manav is helpless before Ovi' tantrums, is that Ovi's control over Manav and the rest of the household or is it Manav's love for Ovi?

If Purvi slept with Arjun before marriage that is not controlling either, who knows how that happened if Arjun (being the guy and her fiance) coaxed her into it. Do we call Ovi controlling for brow beating Purvi in public and in trying to foist herself on Arjun?

Every act can be seen as controlling or not, depending on the perspective of the person at the receiving end.

After today's fiasco, Purvi was left with no option but to tell Arjun once again to move on without her and make a life with Ovi. How can she be expected to console Arjun? He is already a broken man and vulnerable where she is concerned, any sign of affection from her will further break him and make him weak in his resolve to make a go of his marriage. And really there is no way out for either of them, he is married to her sister, he cannot rightfully be expected to divorce his sister to marry her. Will not happen, Aai will not brook it, family will not brook it, Purvi's hands are tied, she put the noose around her own neck by giving up Arjun, she cannot look back, she has to stride forward. Unfortunate that she is to become mother to his child. 🤢

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: 1Haresh1Sukhraj
can u please tell me more about Arjun and Purvi's hut incident. i can't remember it.

Before the wedding, Arjun asks Purvi to meet him, she goes out in the rain to meet him and the camera freezes on them walking towards this shack. Next she is shown returning in an auto which is when Ovi comes to meet Purvi to put forth her preposterous proposal.

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Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Before the wedding, Arjun asks Purvi to meet him, she goes out in the rain to meet him and the camera freezes on them walking towards this shack. Next she is shown returning in an auto which is when Ovi comes to meet Purvi to put forth her preposterous proposal.

it have to be i miss that episode. however i did remember ovi making her request. So nothing at all didn't show what happen in the hut?

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Haresh, no, nothing was shown. It is just assumption on all our parts at this point.

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Abi, glad Laurie inducted you into the APP, welcome. Our work is cut out after today's precap.😉

Agreed...honestly Jhanvi, i am just happy that the circles are going to stop and we get out of this...i just want the leap to take place...i want to know how does Purvi meet Onir and how did they get married...i just want Ovi and Purvi to be far from each other...sick of this humgama...

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Tanya, I understand you are Ankita's fan but we are not talking about Ankita here but the character, Archana. I am perplexed too that a 26 or 27 yr old is being expected to play grandmother, ridiculous to the extreme! Glad she is quitting, she is not a two bit actress, she can easily find roles better suited. Archana's role has given her name and fame, Ankita now needs to move on.

I would not say Purvi controls Archana's life. I would say Archana controls Purvi's entire world. Nobody stops Purvi when she does these things for Archana. When she got Ovi married, after the initial "why did you do this" all was forgotten, everyone moved on with not a thought to Purvi. Even today, they all looked surprised at Arjun's words. As for saving Soham, nobody stopped Purvi from doing any of the things she did, if matters work in their favor, her family accepts it, if it doesn't, she is blamed. Even today when Ovi kept ranting, the rest of the family except Manav with his "beta" dialogue remained mum.

Remember Archana had asked Purvi a long time ago to play detective and find out who the girl was in Arjun's life when Ovi was upset. Archana does depend on Purvi and trusts Purvi to set things right. With the absence of Manav in her life, she has learned to lean on Purvi and vice versa. Nothing wrong in that.

Purvi is burdened with an overwhelming sense of guilt and debt towards her mother and yes, after a certain age, roles are reversed between parent and child. After having no other sahara except each other, it is but natural for Purvi to want to take care of her mother. Even the day she is brought into the D household, she thanks her mother for her family, her mother does not tell her that she needn't be grateful, there is nothing to be grateful about. It was Archana who talked about Manav to this girl all the time so yes when the divorce was pending, she did thwart Sachin's attempt. Do we call Sachin controlling for trying to run his dad's life? Do we call Ovi controlling and manipulative for trying to control her dad's life (in trying to prevent him from bringing her mother home), in laying forth terms to Purvi and forcing her to give up Arjun or trying to tell her dad not to pay ransom for Purvi? These can all be interpreted as controlling acts as well.

People comply with what Purvi wants for the most part because what she wants is usually the right thing - her mother's happiness in reuniting with her dad, her mother's happiness in gaining her son, her mother's happiness or peace of mind in not leaving her grandmother alone but having Vinod come live with Sulo.

Purvi's efficiency at work is not controlling, she is a great career woman, kudos to her, as Archana herself bragged with rightful maternal pride at Vinay's engagement, she has raised her daughter to be self suffiicent and educated. As for Arjun dancing to Purvi's tune, that is not control, that is love. Manav is helpless before Ovi' tantrums, is that Ovi's control over Manav and the rest of the household or is it Manav's love for Ovi?

If Purvi slept with Arjun before marriage that is not controlling either, who knows how that happened if Arjun (being the guy and her fiance) coaxed her into it. Do we call Ovi controlling for brow beating Purvi in public and in trying to foist herself on Arjun?

Every act can be seen as controlling or not, depending on the perspective.

After today's fiasco, Purvi was left with no option but to tell Arjun once again to move on without her and make a life with Ovi. How can she be expected to console Arjun? He is already a broken man and vulnerable where she is concerned, any sign of affection from her will further break him and make him weak in his resolve to make a go of his marriage. And really there is no way out for either of them, he is married to her sister, he cannot rightfully be expected to divorce his sister to marry her. Will not happen, Aai will not brook it, family will not brook it, Purvi's hands are tied, she put the noose around her own neck by giving up Arjun, she cannot look back, she has to stride forward. Unfortunate that she is to become mother to his child.

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If this turns out as being advertised...in this instance, in the face of one wrong (the godforsaken nuptials) another wrong is going to be needed ( pregnancy) to make a right (ArVi union)

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Originally posted by: soapwatcher1
Haresh, no, nothing was shown. It is just assumption on all our parts at this point.

oh, interesting then. i will go and look up for that video. i really hope Purvi is pregnant for Arjun and at the same time i hope Arjun doesn't sleep with ovi. i think if either Arjun or Purvi sleeps with someone else then it will just kill the pureness of their relationship.

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Originally posted by: 1Haresh1Sukhraj
oh, interesting then. i will go and look up for that video. i really hope Purvi is pregnant for Arjun and at the same time i hope Arjun doesn't sleep with ovi. i think if either Arjun or Purvi sleeps with someone else then it will just kill the pureness of their relationship.

Agree 100%. The CVs might lead us to believe all kinds of convoluted nonsense but in the end hoping all will be unraveled with an ARVI reunion.

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