finally arjun slap ovi wow - Page 11

Originally posted by: peachesnplums

and the MMS was shown by Punni to Ovi at Ovi's and Teju's birthday party. That's when Ovi slapped Purvi.

Originally posted by: sherma

i seriusly dont remeber,ovi-teju seeing the video

have to check the epsiode

Originally posted by: pp29

Kalapi, I find most posts amusing on this forum so I do get entertained plenty, but it does raise a lot of queries about things too. My point is the same as yours that I do not understand why Arjun-Purvi are behaving like idiots and letting this saga continue. ( Ofcourse, CV's are the real game changers here). Arjun SHOULD divorce Ovi. If he cannot find love in this marriage ( which I hope he never does) then he should opt out of it for the sake of both of them ( Ovi and him). Your point about Arjun growing up as a weak man is excellent. I agree each of them have a certain background that adds to their personalities and the way their mind works. Purvi has a superimposed debt like feeling towards her mother ( which is evident when she repeatedly thanks her for having given her a life and blah blah), and yes it is more than her love for Arjun.

In the beginning, it was evident in every episode that she avoided Arjun like the plague. He kept pursuing. She was in love with him ( how much in relation to her love for her mother, I don;t know), but yes she DID love him. Human beings are fallible and being young that she is ( although she thinks she is a grandma), she is prone to certain errors. The man she loved is going on reminding her about their past, keeps telling her he loves her, cannot forget her, and she does live in close vicinity to him. They bump into each other ( thanks to CV's) everywhere. It is hard to keep running away from these things. ( If this was reality, I bet that the woman would have caved in to a physical moment with the man, which is the reality these days in India, no holds barred system of not having a button for your physical or emotional needs).

It is indeed pulling at her heart to stop herself from giving into Arjun. She is trying hard and it is evident. I give her some leeway for making the halwa if people think it was for Arjun. she wasn't trying to snag him, it was probably her way of saying sorry or simply that she knew he liked halwa and served him that. Nothing wrong with either.

Ovi has all the points to account for that you have pointed out in various posts. Her lack of love from mother, her being dumped by Arjun, her mother shoving Purvi's wedding in her face, a lot accounts for Ovi's state of mind too. Each one of the three is wronged in more ways than one, mainly by the elders who ran PR for 3 years before. :P So I think each one of them is getting what they deserve for being stupid. Purvi is obviously not WITH arjun so that's not a happy life either. Ovi is in a loveless marriage. Arjun is stuck in a quandary without any option. I say this because Arjun is not a villain on this show or a self-centred man. He is weak and flawed in more ways than one. Arjun doesn't want to divorce Ovi because he knows the ramifications on the families. Somewhere he knows it isn't right to give up after having made the decision. ( His questions to Purvi about what she wants him to do baffle me though) Same time, he isn't able to forget Purvi. He is finding it hard to love Ovi, after knowing her disregard for his feelings when making the deal. He isn't looking at Purvi's disregard for his feelings either. If I were him, I would dump both. Ofcourse, all 3 kids have an option for solutions but alas, they are not looking for a solution, it seems.

@bold- when you say Ovi is not the homebreaker because Arjun-Purvi were not married, then how did Purvi ever wrong Ovi by being in love with Arjun and carrying it on? Arjun-Ovi were not married either. It boils down to the same thing. I am not saying anything against arranged marriages, ofcourse they work. And my point is not that marriages should be taken lightly in the game of love and keep that as focus of your life either.

Just so called love isn't something that a society bestows or bless, at least in my view, but a marriage is that is accepted by the society and follow the norm set by it. At lesat, this is how I see. Purvi wasn't wrong falling in love with Atrjun, rather I have a problem how she treated Arjun. Ovi is altogether a different issue, Purvi shldn't have given Arjun up, nor Arjun should have accepted. These 2 didn't work on their own relationship, why blame others...that is all I say..

If you saw Kabhi Alvida na Kehna ( giving movie refrences because it's easier), I truly felt bad for Preity Zinta and Abhishek's characters. They did nothing wrong, and yet their spouses cheated and dumped them, after having made promises of marriage and love. They both tried to work on their marriages, were in it for the right reasons and cared about their spouses to a deep extent. But, if Ovi had complete disregard for Arjun's feelings when making the deal, I am not at all for this marriage to work. I do not support Arjun-Purvi if this were real life either. I would expect all 3 to separate and find a new life and start over. I like the actors that play Arjun-Purvi and their chemistry and that is why I root for them beyond all logic since CV's don't seem to make this show based on logic. But, in reality this is unacceptable and so is Arjun-Ovi marriage working out.

I agree that we have one life to live, so if a relationship doesn't work, ppl should move on..but, not trying to make it work, isn't an excuse. Besides, I find it hard to accept Arjun/Purvi now after what Purvi has done, namely giving Arjun up by manipulation right before marriage and secondly telling him to lie in Court...I personally don't believe Purvi loves Arjun and Arjun simply an idiot to go after her without an ounce of self respect...my POV

Marriage doesn't have to work even though there is no love. Maybe this is the 21st century thinking because that is what we see around us. I feel if you entered into a marriage with an open heart and mind and with a resolve to learn to like and love the person, things can work out even between polar opposites. That is the reason arranged marriages work. But if your basis for marriage is completely wrong, well, that kind of marriage doesn't.

As far as getting his saali preggers, they had pre-marital sex a day before their wedding ( if it's the hut scene that led to it), which I do not think is wrong. my POV. The fact that Purvi dumped him after that, is wrong.

I am very old school, I don't support pre-marital sex, my reasons are very different and matches my Mom's POV now...funny. Now, it doesn't mean, my kids will not have pre-marital sex...so you probably see where I come from...the line in red I totally agree with. She shouldn't have given him up after sex...that was totally wrong and unacceptable...what was she thinking, is all I can ask?

Purvi does leave the city and marries Dr. Onir ( if reports are true), which does mean she goes away from Arjun's life to let him be with Ovi. In no way is that the nature of a woman trying to entice her jeeju into illicit relationship by making halwa or anything else.

In Indian, even if I accept that premarital sex is common in middle class society, she hardly can be preggers and bring up a child without a marriage...haven't seen that happen yet...and I know what I am talking about here...people will go for abortions before facing such disgrace and humiliation...and such humiliation will affect even Teju's future marriage proposals...so that is her only option to cover up, by going away and if she wants the child, she needs to marry someone and give the child hus name...India is still India

Originally posted by: peachesnplums

here are the video links - telecast on 14th June and 15th June 2012

http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xrj94o_pavitra-rishta-14th-june-2012-video-watch-online_shortfilms

http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xrjzv1_pavitra-rishta-15th-june-2012-video-watch-online-part1_shortfilms?search_algo=2

Originally posted by: sherma

i seriusly dont remeber,ovi-teju seeing the video

have to check the epsiode

Originally posted by: dumbo15

Honestly both Purvi and Ovi deserve slaps from him.

Originally posted by: ...priya...

i'm so happy for this...nd loved arjun's dialouge after slapping tht b***h...yes i love her