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Tanyaz

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Posted: 12 years ago

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I have never said that Archna is never at fault ..I have said tiem and time again that she is a weak mother and that is her biggest fault ...

savita is someone who started with dowry demands and ended with taking 18 precious years of Archana's life away ...

I guess it is up to every individual ...I do not find Archana at fault for giving Soham i nthe birthday party ...there is a big difference between a deliberate mistake , getting cheated and doing something intentionaly ..

I do find Archana and manav at fault for almost giving up Soham for legal adoption .

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Jaishankar

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Posted: 12 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: Tanyaz
why only blame Archana ..The whole family was tracked Jai ..even sensible Satish ..
Everyone thought that Varsha was cured ..she has a doctor's certificate to prove it ..It was an unfortunate incident Jai ..

The easiest thing in the world is to find faults in others ...but no mother in this world woudl like her child to be kidnapped ...Blamign her for Soham's kidnapping was a terrible thing .Even manav said this now that when she needed him the most , he abandoned her ..

I blame Archaan and Manav for neglecting Soham for Sachin and Varsha but will never blame Archana for what happened in the birthday party ...

That is what I said Tanya ,all are to blame and Archu cannot alone be said faultless..And come on Tanya common sense says that on that party day in-spite Manav repeatedly taking Soham away ,Archu took Soham and gave it to Varsha trusting Varsha..That trust was foolish but it was a mistake Tanya..Now dont say Archu is faultess here..I can never ever accept that Archu is faultless..Like all she has her share of mistake.She was stupid and foolish to trust her sister in-spite of people saying not to and Manav's warning ,her mistake is she was foolish and weak to trust Varsha more and this cannot be said she did not make a mistake..

Common Tanya you cant say that Archu is not at fault and only Manav is at fault..This is so unfair here,.Archu has made a mistake like Manav and a mistake is mistake no two ways about it.

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 12 years ago

#33

Jai , how many times do you want me to say that Archana 's biggest mistake is that she is a weak mother ..I have said this 100 times ...that is where I find her at fault ... But compared to Manav , her faults are nothing ( in my opinion ) .The relationship broke because Manav chose to trust his mother and not Archana ..and he kept hating Archana for 18 years ...

Can't you see how he is asking God for forgiveness, asking Sulochna also ...of course he is the one who messed up his wife's life jai ...

Archana can be easily manpulated and her love for her people makes her vulnerable ..But I am hoping that things will be different now .She has Purvi on one side and Teju on the other .. I wan tthese two girls to protect their mother from those who wish to harm her .

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Jaishankar

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Posted: 12 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: Tanyaz
I have never said that Archna is never at fault ..I have said tiem and time again that she is a weak mother and that is her biggest fault ...

savita is someone who started with dowry demands and ended with taking 18 precious years of Archana's life away ...

I guess it is up to every individual ...I do not find Archana at fault for giving Soham i nthe birthday party ...there is a big difference between a deliberate mistake , getting cheated and doing something intentionaly ..

I do find Archana and manav at fault for almost giving up Soham for legal adoption .

If mistake is taken as deliberate ,Manav did not do anything deliberate as well Tanya..A simple fact is mistake is a mistake - deliberate , unintentional or what not..IF Manav is at fault in Soham's case then Archu is also at fault at Soham's case.Archu saying faultless after that blunder is so unfair to put the blame on Manav..Manav did not give Soham to Varsha that day.It was Archu and that was a mistake which she did ,unintentional and foolish may be ,but it was a mistake.

Mistakes are made unintentionally and if its deliberate then its not a mistake but a crime hence I said mistake.There is no deliberate mistake here,this mistake was done foolishly,unintentionally by Archu and it is a mistake - a simple hard fact.

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Jaishankar

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: Tanyaz
Jai , how many times do yo uwant me to say that Archana 's biggest mistake is that she is a weak mother ..I have said this 100 times ...that is where I find her at fault ... But compared to manav , her faults are nothing ( in my opinion ) .The relationship broke because mana vchose to trust his mother and not Archana ..and he kept hating Archana for 18 years ...

Can't you see how he is asking God for forgiveness, asking Sulochna aslo ...of course he is the one who messed up his wife's life jai ...

And in my opinion Archu is equally at fault. I see from both sides of the coin and for a relationship to succeed both need to be in sync which was not the case. Both share their mistakes and comparing the intensity or who did what does not resolve the problem.For me both did the mistake of trusting others and have paid for it.And both were wrong.I will not support both for their wrong doings.

My point is simple both were wrong and both paid the price (i.e) their relationship and their son.

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 12 years ago

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It's up to you how you wish t take this jai ..I told you before , will say this again...after seeing the doctor's certificate , after being told by satish ( whome she trusted ) that varsha is totally cured , Archaan gave Soham to her for a few hours .. Savita too took Sachin out when she knew that she had a problem with forgetting , she left the child on a stall...

I myself once forgot where my son was and started window shopping in the next shop ..Thank God I found him soon...but these mistakes happen ..A mother is human too , she can make mistakes too but to blame her for killing the boy was downright unfair and that is what Manav did ...then taking the twins away from her , then sending his mother with the tickets and finally beliving that Archana is a gold digger ( that shocked me more than anything else ) and kept believing it for 18 years ...

Archana too was served with divorce papers ( by savita ) ...but she did not believe them .She trusted her love and her relationship ...She remembered the good times that they had shared ..when in return look what Manav did ...he did not tell his daughters one good thing about Archana ..was she really that bad ????

For me that is the biggest difference between Archana and Manav .Manav is always so quick to mistrust her .. If someone gets on his wrong side then God help them ...like he is with his mother right now ...

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 12 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: Jaishankar
OK Jai , that is your opinion ...and I respect it ..
But in my eyes , Manav is the one who is way more at fault for the breaking of the relationship ...

I think we should agree to disagree and end it here because both of us are just repeating the same things again and again ...people will get bored ...😆

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Jaishankar

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Posted: 12 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: Tanyaz
It's up to you how you wish t take this jai ..I told you before , will say this again...after seeing the doctor's certificate , after beign told by satish ( whome she trusted ) that varsha is totally cured , Archaan gave Soham to her for a few hours .. savita too took sachin out when she knew that she had a problem with forgettign , she left the child on a stall...

I myself once forgot where my son was and started window shopping in the next shop ..Thank God I found him soon...bu tthese mistakes happen ..A mother is human too , she can make mistakes too but to blame her for killing the boy was downright unfair and that is what manav did ...then taking the twins away from her , then sending his mother with the tickets and finally beliving that Archaan is a gold digger ( that shocked me more than anything else ) and kept believing it for 18 years ...

Archan too was served with divorce papers ...but she did not believe them .She trusted her love and her relationship ...

For me that is the biggest difference between Archana and manav .Manav si always so quick to mistrust her .. If someone gets on his wrong side then God help them ...like he is with his mother right now ...

YEs that was I said it as a mistake and not crime..My whole point is yes mistakes happen and Archu is human and she is not faultless and she made a mistake - that's it.A mistake is called a mistake coz its made unintentionally and not deliberately and hence I said Archu made a mistake.

Accusing Archu of killing her son was a crime done by Manav. This even though done in rage was ridiculous in short.He had his reasons and in his rage its clear he looses his sense and talks all the crap like today.Archu got the taste that day and Savita today.

CV's wanted to bring in a change between old Manav (Sush)and new Manav (Hiten) and to show that they added this unwanted character trait of Manav loosing his senses under pressure.

But again for me mistake is a mistake and Archu is a human too and she did make a mistake - that is what I am trying to say..MY whole point is she is a human and she has made a mistake like Manav .

PS : Ah good that you found your son soon..Good dear 😊

I agree to disagree and rest my case too..Folks will throw chappals now 😆

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Jaishankar

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Posted: 12 years ago

#39

I really hope this time Arman learn from their past mistakes and keep their relationship on top priority over anything else and trust each other and fight together to awaken Soham inside the clouded heart of Vishnu.

Hope to see Manav returning back to his senses soon and Savita playing a key role in Varsha's truth exposure.

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 12 years ago

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I think Varsha is super confident that Soham will never leave her but Purvi will change this ..At some point she will tell Soham that his mother has been feeding her lies day and night ..

I do not expect Archana to fight back because she is just not that good in doing this, but Teju and Purvi will ..and Manav will be broken to see that his son is a criminal ..He may not even want to know someone who kidnaps people ...

I have never seen manav so crazy for anything like he is for Soham right now ...He is in a bad shape .Soham has become his weakness ..He will be shattered to find that the boy he hates so much is his Soham .

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