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Axiom

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Posted: 13 years ago

#21

Fantabulous post Shyamala Aunty!

Purvi deserves what's coming to her for what she did to Arjun.

Atleast the show is practical - it teaches you to fall in love with your head not your heart!

I really disliked what happened here this week - Humpty Dumpty ARVI Toothpaste! 😡

In hindsight, even though Purvi's actions were appalling, immature and nonsensical she did save Ovi's life.They could all be going to a funeral instead of a wedding reception if it weren't for Purvi. So congrats to her!

Martyr level unlocked! 🤣

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 13 years ago

#22

Purvi will ask Arjun to consummate his marraige .

You see , the martyrs always do these unthinkable things .

Manav the martyr had told Jaywant that Archana was still a virgin .

Archana the martyr had welcomed Shravani with an aarti .

Purvi the martyr will 100 % ask Arjun to do jusst that .

Be ready guys .😆😆😆

Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 13 years ago

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jdronamraju

@jdronamraju

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Posted: 13 years ago

#23

After all said and done, right now, it is only Ms. Ovi who can say "Mere paas Arjun Hain !!"

Archana is quite a bit to blame for the way Purvi is right now. Not taking away Purvi's idiotic fault in this. But, to bring an orphan child into your home, and constantly lament before her, your love for your long lost husband, how you would give everything you have to live with your daughters, how mahaan he is, is no small thing. The child is psyched into this mahaanness from the get go. No wonder, she is a Aai happiness obsessed girl. She was indirectly constantly reminded of her "orphan" status, and how noble of her mother to take her in. No wonder, she turned out this way. Even before the wedding, all Archana does, even unknowingly, is remind Purvi, how her wedding has caused havoc in her relationship with Ovi and Manav, how she can give anything to stay with "her" family.

This, ofcourse, no way excuses what Purvi did to Arjun. She is an adult now, can think for herself outside the boundary of her mother. The sheer selfishness with which she went about this in a pre-meditated way, aghasts me. Such is her boundless love for Arjun, that she can do this after he handed over his heart to her. Anyway, no use going over spilt milk. Yes, Arjun is a fool to have agreed to it. Not only is he a putty in her hands, he was also furious, that day, when she said she can stand watching him getting married to someone else, a little of rebound effect is also there.

But, I expected him to say, GO TO HELL, and walk away.. But, alas, that is not the intent of the story ...😊..that would be consistent with the original Arjun Kirloskar, but who we have is just a shell of that person..

Now, as per this MahaEpisode, Purvi can fall flat on her face, for all her Mahaantha is such a wasted effort. And, in a very sadistic way, I am happy about it for she deserves this. She has shattered our boy's life with such callousness, and without a second thought.
Now, her Aai, is gonna go waltzing away in her 50+ weakling of a husband's arms, and leave this chit in her own "orphan" status !! Such wll be her fate for destroying the life of a foolish man who handed over his heart in her hands..
She can watch from the sidelines, as her mahaan Aai has a blissful family life with her new found family.
I still call him "our boy" for, all his foolishness in love, I still think he would never have done to Purvi what she has done to him. Such is his blind love for her. Yes, I am very disappointed in him, but am still sticking to him for I cannot desert him on this.. He is still the boy we always loved. Call it my own foolishness, if you may..😊. I am not sure who is with me anymore, and maybe the sole person bearing the PAP flag, however tattered it may be..

Edited by jdronamraju - 13 years ago

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sur_aur_taal

@sur_aur_taal

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Posted: 13 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: sashashyam
As for me, I feel disgusted with Purvi, and almost equally disgusted with Arjun, for I have no sympathy or empathy for either a manipulative, self-centred and self-destructive fool, or a besotted saphead.

Moreover, I do NOT feel that all will be hunky dory if and when they get together again at some point in the misty future. Marriage is not a game of musical chairs, and moreover, when you sell something or someone, it is gone for good.

I agree! Arjun is not a commodity to be sold or bartered. Furthermore, Arjun should never have agreed to marry anyone out of "love" for Purvi because Purvi asked him to. He is his own person and should have thought twice about the consequences to his own life after taking such a step.

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sashashyam

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Posted: 13 years ago

#25

Saved Ovi's life? No, no, Laurie my dear, she would never have really done it. Look at the shot of her sitting there with the knife in her hand.She has not even made a small nick, and in fact she seems to be waiting for the phone to ring or for someone to come in, as Teju did the last time, and stop her.

You know, there are people who commit suicide for trivial reasons, like schoolkids after they fail an exam. There are others who think they want to commit suicide and instil that same fear in those who love them, but they never really manage to do it, because, subconsciously, they do not want to do it.

I think Ovi belongs to the second category. So I do not believe that Purvi saved her life, and as for her happiness, AK is going to be the proverbial mouthful of Dead Sea fruit for Ovi, something she can neither swallow not spit out.

I misjudged Ovi in that I thought she was going to weasel out of her promise re: Archana, but it is no such thing, and she is in fact going at it full tilt, in large part because she feels that if that does not happen, Arjun will never accept her. Whatever her reason, she is working at it from both ends.

It has not worked as yet at either end, but now that Teju has exposed Savita to Manav, and Archana has announced to Savita that she will not let Purvi's sacrifice go to waste, it is clear that she is going to land up chez les Deshmukhs at the earliest feasible.

But the most interesting part of the mahaepisode (which was surprisingly substantive), as I am sure you will agree, was the 3 1/2 minute scene between Arjun and Purvi. It was good to see Arjun put Purvi in her place unequivocally, and state, bitterly and firmly, exactly what I have said in my post, that BOTH girls had treated him as a commodity and bartered him for their own ends.

He now knows precisely how much he means to Purvi, and he seems to be really and coldly angry with her for the way she had treated him. It does seem that her iron hold on him has slipped quite a bit. Her haath jodke pleading with him, "if ever you reallly loved me", to give Ovi the status of his wife, is treated with the contempt it deserves and summarily brushed aside. And he points out that while he has kept every one of his promises to her, she has broken every promise she had made to him.

Now, he declares with a set jaw, looking like the Boss from Hell he once was, since she now has what she wanted for her aai, and so should be happy, he is going to do what he wants to do, and, "You had better face it Purvi". And then he turns on his heel and leaves without a backward glance.👏👏

If I could have done it, I would have jumped up and hugged him, for being once more a self-assertive and clear-headed man, and not a love-sick poodle. Even though, at this stage, it is all much too late. He was really good in the scene, and it warmed the cockles of my heart (what are these cockles, anyway?) to see him back as our old Arjun, even it is was only in the bitterness and frustration that flood his heart because of this stupid, self-centred girl with whom he has had the misfortune to fall in love.

I have no idea what he is going to do, but it not something that Purvi would like, and she knows it. Serve her right. At the reception in the evening, he looks as grim as in the scene with Purvi earlier, unsmiling and stiff.

When the small scene with Vishnu came up, I was surprised at how pleased I was to see him again, the refreshingly cocky young rascal. I almost forgot all his criminal past. It must have been the sheer relief of seeing someone other than the Karanjkar watering pots, a desperate Arjun and Manav looking like a death's head mounted on a pole!

Let us see what happens to Savita next week, for her arrest, shown so prominently in the promos for the mahaepisode, was not there today.

I am glad you liked this post. It is one of the harshest I have ever written,and I wrote it primarily as a catharsis. Now I shall get around to your latest chapter of The Raging Storm.

Shyamala Aunty

Originally posted by: Axiom
Fantabulous post Shyamala Aunty!

Purvi deserves what's coming to her for what she did to Arjun.

Atleast the show is practical - it teaches you to fall in love with your head not your heart!

I really disliked what happened here this week - Humpty Dumpty ARVI Toothpaste! 😡

In hindsight, even though Purvi's actions were appalling, immature and nonsensical she did save Ovi's life.They could all be going to a funeral instead of a wedding reception if it weren't for Purvi. So congrats to her!

Martyr level unlocked! 🤣

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sashashyam

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Posted: 13 years ago

#26

Sorry of the inadvertent double posting.

SBC

Edited by sashashyam - 13 years ago

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sashashyam

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Posted: 13 years ago

#27

Well, she does just that today, when she folds her hands in pleading and asks him "if ever you reallly loved me", to give Ovi the status of his wife.

Arjun treats this with the contempt it deserves and summarily brushes her aside, with a 'Never!". Good for him!

Shyamala

Originally posted by: bonibright

I was just thinking the same..😡😡
I hope Purvi now doesn't ask Arjun to consumate ..
n moreover dont want Arjun to do what his lady love is asking for..
it will be just tooo much for us viewrs..
pathetic..🤢🤢

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jdronamraju

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Posted: 13 years ago

#28

Shyamala,

Absolutely loved Arjun today !! Was proud of him.. Purvi was lost for words when he started talking... SSSHHH 'ed her...Loved that..👏..Glad to see Arjun getting back on his feet..and the blinkers are falling away...he is gonna play hard ball with her...

Edited by jdronamraju - 13 years ago

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sashashyam

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Posted: 13 years ago

#29

Dear Kalapi,

We are both of a mind on this commodification of Arjun, and the most interesting part of today's mahaepisode was that Arjun too has fully cottoned to what not just Ovi, but Purvi too has done to him.

I don't want to repeat myself, but if you take a look at my long response above to Laurie, you will see what I feel about the excellent Arjun-Purvi scene today. She is put firmly in her place, even if it is far too late now, It will be interesting to see what precisely Arjun is going to do now. I may be wrong, but I somehow do not think he will try to see Purvi anymore now. He came today only to tell her precisely what he has found out, and what he feels about it.It is another matter that anyone with an iota of commonsense would have worked this double deal out on that hilltop itself. I think all this mooning over Purvi, and, as you have noted, her aai's challenge, have turned his brain to mush, poor chap!

In the context of Archana declaring to Savita that she is not about to let 'my Purvi's balidaan' go to waste, she also tells Arjun, as you must have noted, that he is 'a very good man', and she is sure he will keep 'meri Ovi' happy all her life.

Now how is that for trying to tie the bakra firmly to the khoonta, so that he can fulfil Purvi's commitment to Ovi for her? Then, Archana's mahaan daughter can feel morally uplifted, and anything Arjun might feel in the process be damned! Till now, Archana has not said a single word about what her tyaag ki murti has done to Arjun.

Shyamala

Originally posted by: Kalapi

Shymala dear, you hit the mail right in its head. I have wrote this somewhere else, but will just copy now since am getting a bit tired regurgitating the same thing over and over again.
Purvi is very strong and knew why she was doing it and for who. Not only that she went and arranged the whole marriage event and saw it through completion. Whereas Ovi, was weaker emotionally, even though she made the deal, but when She thought that the deal weren't going through, she was attempting a second suicide'Arjun was just the bargaining commodity here'.
Purvi made a deal to give Arjun up and Ovi made the deal to get him back, both made a deal and both are at fault. What I never agreed with that it seems that one deal is better than the other (as Arjun seems to think) and to me it is for Arjun to decide what is 'value' is to both girls'.
Another thread,
'''''what Purvi saw growing up was that Sulo validated, glorified and reaffirmed continuously the "Mahanta' of Archana's sacrifice. Archana's never thought she was wrong on what she did 18 yrs before, or regretted the fact she let her family go away from her, always being happy playing Purvi's mother only. Neither did Sulo helped Archana is her 'self' assessment of 'self' made MAhaanta. This is the environment where sacrifices and tyaag was hailed as supreme form of living and glorified. Never the POV view of the other person was taken or considered. So, unconsciously, Archu became the role model for Purvi, with ever questioning her. See as you say, how the 3 women just glorified 'Scarifices' they made, not even once they thought of the person who is being sacrificed. To me Arjun was that 'bakra' that often is guillotined in temples to please Gods'.how self-centered these women were and Of course, to top it all, Sulo reconfirmed their beliefs yet again by saying, "Purvi is your daughter only"'
Yes, Purvi is a third person in Arjun/Ovi's life and I guess the onus will be on her to move away from the married couple, since, as it was shown Arjun squarely blames Ovi for landing him in the mess today (which is a bit moronic, since he claims to be a successful businessman, perhaps Archu' BS of a challenge 😡has made him weak in the head too) and will go after Purvi'.let see how the story unfolds now'

Edited by sashashyam - 13 years ago

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sashashyam

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Posted: 13 years ago

#30

Dear kool,

As I have noted above, she did precisely that today, in a nice, discreet fashion, of course. He turned her down bluntly and categorically with a 'Kabhi nahin'.

Shyamala

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
Purvi will ask Arjun to consummate his marraige .

You see , the martyrs always do these unthinkable things .

Manav the martyr had told Jaywant that Archana was still a virgin .

Archana the martyr had welcomed Shravani with an aarti .

Purvi the martyr will 100 % ask Arjun to do jusst that .

Be ready guys .😆😆😆

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