Brief Update : 23rd August 2012 - Page 4

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well the eventual happened..Thanks to Archu bringing the invitation and following her mother's foot-steps (Sulo proclaimed Arvi's engagement),now here comes her daughter who after knowing and seeing how was Ovi behaving went with the marriage invitation and in front of Ovi proclaimed their marriage..Ok she wanted to give reality check to Ovi,the sentences she told today to Ovi could have well said in response to Ovi's deal she put to Archu yesterday separately..
Was it necessary to proclaim marriage invitation to entire D's..She was basically concerned with Manav..cant she have done it separately..
I am sorry to say but Archu is in-directly responsible for Ovi's actions today..She has further instigated Ovi here..Absolutely foolish step by ARchu...Manav is going to be so so so pissed tomorrow...
I so want see now give some to Archu here for this non-sense..This foolish act has endangered her daughter's life..
First Archu needs a reality check of things..This non-sense of K's is really so foolish ,first Sulo ,now Archu...
I dont understand the way Archu stated her reasoning's...Was it necessary to say "you are no one to come in between Arvi.."..Of course thats the truth but seeing her condition was it needed to put so harshly...Yes Ovi needs some harsh truth said but this was not the right sentence to use at that time..She could have used it in a different way...
Tomorrow how is she going to handle herself..I am sure Archu is going to be devastated and Manav totally totally pissed..
Archu's own actions has always let her down big time and she has done it again..Tomorrow she is going to face the consequence of her brilliant announcement..
For first time Savita stated the truth,Ovi is better off in Canada..At least now cant anyone take action on this.Savita at least for once do good by telling Manav to send Ovi back along with them..Best thing now is till divorce period is over let Damo,Savita ,Ovi/Tej go back to Canada for good..IT will be good for all of them..Let Sachu stay with Manav till the divorce is over..
If Ovi is not taken care now,then they are going to loose her forever..This is a reality check for Manav and he needs to act now big time..
What was Damo idiot doing..Does he have any sense of what's going on..Good for nothing idiot,just went ahead and kept his hand on Archu in front of Ovi...Which world this idiot lives on..He never opens his mouth and says the truth...Wanted to slap that idiot and kick him out..Such a big time looser ...😡..He needs to be chained outside the K's house for their service for good..
Archu was good to give Purvi reality check on divorce status but what is she expecting from Manav,emotionally hitting him..She saying ,I know no one will come but I am doing duty and stuff - this kind of emotional pour on Manav and trying to sway him to be Purvi's baba is just not right..She needs to stop this non-sense and allow Manav to be on Ovi's side..I hope like Tanya dear mentioned Manav states these facts to Archu now..
Tomorrow Archu unfortunately is going to the most heart-broken one seeing Ovi...What else is left to happen in her life...

PS : Good to see Puru and Mirlani back and of course Hiten at last at least saw a glimpse of him today...

Edited by Jaishankar - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

A girl like Ovi in real life needs psychiatric help ...period .She can either kill herself or kill someone else ..

What is Manav , Teju and Savita doing ...why are they not taking this girl to a doctor , she needs one very very badly .Manav is not doing a good job here .He must take Ovi to a doctor and he must be very firm with Ovi
Another thing Manav should do is tell Archana very very firmly that as it is almost all over between him and her , it is all over also of him being Purvi's father ..He has to tell this to Archana in very clear words' I don't want to be Purvi's father .I don't care what happens in her life .What I said before aout being there for her , that was a mistake and I take my words back ' Please stop pushing Purvi down my throat , she is not my child .
I am happy with what Archana did today except for two things .
1. I am not happy with her taking the wedding invitation to Manav's family and giving it to them because it is her duty ...What duty ?
What nonsense she is talking about .If she gave it to him as a wife then she said this herself that it is all over between them and if she is doing this because Manav ( to her ) is Purvi's daddy then she is the biggest fool in the world ..
Taking the wedding invitation was a serious error in judgement on Archana's part ...Tomorrow I will be happy to see her being told off by Manav and Teju for this ...
2.Also her telling Purvi that manav still loves me but we were not meant to be ..I think she should stop fooling herself about this so called love story .
However after saying this , I must say that she was the only one who is teling Ovi what Ovi needs to hear .She is doing the right thing by telling Ovi that Arjun does not belongs to her ...and what Ovi is doing is wrong ..Her words were correct and very firm ...
These were words that Manav should have been saying to Ovi but the whole Deshmukh family is so busy just blaming Archana for everything going wrong that they are just ignoring Ovi's condition .
I can understand why Purvi is feeling depressed and guilty ( though it is not her fault ) but she must not break her engagement with Arjun at all...not after all that her mother had to endure for this ...Arjun loves her so much , he does not deserves to be dumped for any reason ...
Felt bad for Arjun in the precap ...
Hope nothing goes wrong for him .Hope this wedding happens quickly ..
Star Of The Day ,
Despite of me being angry at Archana for taking the wedding invitation , what she said to Ovi was so good and much needed ..So o nthe basis of this for me the Star Of The Day is Archana ..
Anki looked gorgeous i nthe last scene and her acting was so good .

I think Archana clearly understands that the Deshmukhs are just sitting on their unsupportiveness for ArVi marraige, and are not paying attention to the critical need to CURE Ovi and get her out of the "Arjun loves me only" syndrome. Time and again, she is seeing that Ovi is getting worse and worse with her syndrome. But will any of the D's hear her? NO.. and so she just took this chance to take the card and wake the Deshmukhs up and say" is each one of you still being supportive of Ovi's syndrome or can you please open your eyes and do the needful".
The Deshmukhs and mainly Mr Manav are so non-approchable. They do what they think is right and thats it... they keep singing songs about "Arjun leaving Ovi and Ovi feeling miserable" ... all the time ... and not move forward and say OK now Arjun has left her, now what, get some medical help or help the girl out...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Agreed Tanya! that only a mother could have said it... absoultely right. But Manav and Savita tai hold that Motherly position in her life and they should have said that too her long ago and not supported her obsessiveness...but Savit and Manav kept crying my daughter is hurt..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thanks Tanya for the update
I am fed up of Ovi and stupidity why is she cutting her wrist for a beautiful and handsome man name Arjun who does not even returns her love or a hearty felt touch towards her

Come on Ovi time to grow up 🤣
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I am very glad that Archana said to Ovi what she said ...and I really hope she doesn't stops ...she should keep telling Ovi that Arjun does not loves her ...

And let manav and savita blame her and bad mouth her ...they don't know any thing else to do anyway .As for savita , if she has any love at all for Ovi , she should tell Ovi how much her mother loves her and she only stayed away from Ovi because of savita's manipulations ...but I guess it is all too late ...
What Savita and Manav did years ago , that is all showing horrible results ...
There is only one person who can cure Ovi and make her feel good about herself , only one person and that person is her mother Archana ...no one else .
Edited by Tanyaz - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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what Manav should do is to tell Archana that heis not at all interested in being Purvi's father and that she has no duty to tell him anything about Purvi as he is not the least bit interested in her .. and also Manav should be extremely firm on Ovi , take her to a doctor .He has been way too linient with this girl .
Edited by Tanyaz - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Actually I don't think it is either Archana or even Manav's fault for what happened with Ovi .
Ovi is a messed up person . Her own mind has to be blamed for this ...If she kills herself or someone else tomorrow then it is only her who will have to be blamed for this ...
Just making a wedding invitation as an excuse or even Manav's inability to discipline her is not fair ...Ovi made up her mind long ago when she had said ' if Arjun did not belong to me , he will not belong to anyone ...'
Then only she had shown us a trailer of what we saw today ...and this is not the end ..she will do more I think, much much more .
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Posted: 13 years ago
#38
thanks for the wonderful update
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Posted: 13 years ago
#39
Thanks for the update, Tanya.

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Arjun can talk to Ovi and get it into he thick head that he does not love her and never will love her. It might finally get to her.


I totally agree with you.
Ovi has to understand that Arjun has never loved her, doesn't love her, and never will love her, no matter how hard she tries. The only person who can make her understand this is Arjun himself. He has to make it clear to her that he only considered her as a friend and nothing else. Once she knows that the man she's obsessed with doesn't love her, she'll let go of him. I honestly think Ovi is obsessed with 'being in love' not actually loving someone.

By trying that suicidal attempt, she is just trying to get at Archana. She knows that Archana will get blamed for it and so she will break up Purvi and Arjun's relationship in order to stop Ovi from repeating her action. I think Ovi is mentally ill and is a complete brat. She must have always gotten whatever she desired, her father being one of the top businessmen in the country, and now she is sulking since she can't get what she wants.
All she cares about is herself, her happiness, and her feeling, and no one else's. If Archana can't force Manav to like Arjun then neither can Ovi force Arjun to love her. If she does get Arjun, which I pray NEVER happens, then her life will a living nightmare since Arjun wll hate her for ruining his life.
Edited by shreya1008 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I hope things get a little better for Archana. I hope Ovi lands in hospital, later comes back home and is nursed back to health by her mum Archana.
I agree with you Tanya that what happened was Ovi's own fault. The truth that Arjun does not belong to her, is a thing of the past and she had to move ahead. If she clung to it and became suicidal it goes down to her being an extremely stubborn, I-care-for-only-myself kind of person!
Today it could be Archana's invitiation , or the engagement itself, or somebody else telling her something that bumps her into reality. Instead of helping her accept it and move on with life Deshmukhs just kept let her brew the sorrow and sit on it... 😡.. the wound from being a fresh one , just became a nice fermented one and exploded to her getting suicidal!!!!!

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