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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: gemstar

@ bold

well i found it totally convincing and relevant
@ whole post
i didn't know that giving personal experiences is prohibited on the forum
atleast i didn't find it in the rule list stuck on the front page by ravjot😆
so i fail to understand the need to bash members just because they are sharing their personal information
i think the mods have some answer to this😍

Is disagreeing with other members who present a flawed argument, flip flop and tell you what to respond to considered bashing on the PR forum? WOW, now that's sad. Also, the whether this was or was not against the rules, the person pushed her personal experiences in an attempt to justify her arguement and it failed miserably. Nice attempt to defend your friend. 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: sudha100

think they show different PR in every house...thats why they know what Sulochana talks in mind { to snatch everything what is of ovi teju, ...to trap arjun...}and what wicked things archana think to destroy her kids...{in short destroy Deshmukhs} and savita is the saintest ever..🤣

To modify facts according to your views and writing long posts...wow...

just telling 😆

Savita is a saint? Did these viewers just start watching the show? Do they not know the background? Savita deceived Archana and literally stole her kids from her. Whoa, that's WRONG in my view and no amount of dousing yourself with holy water can absolve that sin. Savita would have to be reborn seventy times to get forgiveness for what she did.
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Posted: 13 years ago
You are Violating Rule Number #7


You are Violating Rule Number #7

Originally posted by: Laila2009

Yes, we should stick to the topic at hand instead of hearing about your wedding, your personal life and also how it related to Pavitra Rishta or your views on how wedding should be celebrated. 😉😊

Also, HOW is Soluchana in any way after Manav's money if she suggests that they use the money for a wedding for Purvi that Archana herself was struggling to pay for? That's a really irrational and illogical argument here. But if that is what you see that so be it. I still don't see any logic or a justifiable rationale here to draw this conclusion.





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Originally posted by: sudha100

think they show different PR in every house...thats why they know what Sulochana talks in mind { to snatch everything what is of ovi teju, ...to trap arjun...}and what wicked things archana think to destroy her kids...{in short destroy Deshmukhs} and savita is the saintest ever..🤣

To modify facts according to your views and writing long posts...wow...

just telling 😆



You are Violating Rule Number #7

Originally posted by: Laila2009

Savita is a saint? Did these viewers just start watching the show? Do they not know the background? Savita deceived Archana and literally stole her kids from her. Whoa, that's WRONG in my view and no amount of dousing yourself with holy water can absolve that sin. Savita would have to be reborn seventy times to get forgiveness for what she did.


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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Laila2009

Yes, we should stick to the topic at hand instead of hearing about your wedding, your personal life and also how it related to Pavitra Rishta or your views on how wedding should be celebrated. 😉😊

Also, HOW is Soluchana in any way after Manav's money if she suggests that they use the money for a wedding for Purvi that Archana herself was struggling to pay for? That's a really irrational and illogical argument here. But if that is what you see that so be it. I still don't see any logic or a justifiable rationale here to draw this conclusion.



here are my 2 cents on this topic...

there are so many things need to be considered when a rich wedding is needed...ArVi started with love and then made needed well-wishers to accept their love, now the well-wishers decided to do wedding...now it is the scenario how the wedding need to be done...all the money need is coming because of the way they want to celebrate the wedding...
I didn't see this money need when they planned to do Purvi-Vinay's wedding, but for Purvi-Arjun the need of money is shown...the need of rich wedding is shown or not doesn't matter...but from the bottom of hearts we know it is because Arjun is rich and wedding need to be done in rich way...
yes, it is true that Archu wants to celebrate this wedding by calling all her relatives and do it in a grand way, and sulo gave her the best idea to break the FD's which belongs to Ovi/Teju and Ovi/Teju doesn't need any financial help...this opinion/idea of this most generous women of the PR raises so many questions...my view on this is, when a elder lady in the women can think this balanced, then she should think that 'Ovi/Teju doesn't need mom's love too as they have enough love from savita/Manav' and so on...
regarding wedding plans...a wedding can be done in so many ways, and in ArVi wedding, Archu already made Arjun realize how hard it is to earn 10,000Rs, so arjun/DK knows the K's family financial condition, so they are not asking anything from K's...
I know a parent thinks about her/his daughter's wedding in a really grand way, but going out of reach is different...
a wedding can be done simple or elegant or rich or within limits...there is a thin/thick line between each type of wedding depending on your financial condition but most of the weddings are done within the limits...and no girl like purvi wants to see her maika giving her everything and keeping themselves in the financial troubles after the wedding...
and sharing the opinion on how wedding can be done is not relating yourself or attaching your self to show, a drama becomes more success when everyone can relate themselves to it...
in the real life when a rich guy who knows the value of money can understand the financial conditions of girl's family and also can see the self respect of the girl's family to perform the wedding, the guy can offer to take the wedding responsibilities...and if arjun knows the truth of money matters of wedding he will sure solve it instead of some mess around...
breaking the FD's is a such a low idea from Sulo's mind instad of this she could have offered selling all the most expensive gifts she got from Manav...
selling all the old memorable jewelry is also bad idea from Archu's mind...as so many people think Archu has full rights on Manav's money though she is a divorce seeking wife, then all the kids have equal share on old memorable jewelry...
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Posted: 13 years ago
My 2 cents worth too:
I dont know if they are actually talking of having a big expensive wedding which costs lakhs. From what I've gathered of Archana's finances, even spending 20-40,000 for a fairly modest wedding with a few guests would be a stretch for them which IMO explains Sulochana's idea.
I'm not a big fan of Sulo as I think she has done a lot of damage to her daughters lives but I do not think she's a particularly mercenary character. She may be pretty money minded, in fact I thik she IS deep down, but ike many people doesn't even admit it to herself but I do not get the impression that is is the character's driving element as it is with Savita.
Lets just face it, the writers create inconsistent confused characters and drive us all mad! 😳 Its really nothing we should take too personally.
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: devashree_h

You are Violating Rule Number #7

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Posted: 13 years ago
Actually the Kirloskars have not demanded anything . Arjun lived in a chawl for Purvi although he was used to living in AC colonial homes with fireplaces . He loves Purvi so much he will get married even in registrar office . I feel that the serial should show that people do not sell all their jewellery for wedding expenses or take loans upon their head but tell the groom's party frankly that they cannnot afford it . Weddings should be done only according to your affordability [ if there is such a word] 😊. So many crisises can occur in life besides weddings ...hospitalizations , sicknesses... other functions .
Besides Archana is selling all her jewllery only for her adopted daughter while for the other two she is only keeping their father's money , nothing that belongs to her . It sounds petty but it is the truth .Ovi Teju can fight with her about it if they put their minds to the nitty gritty of it . Whether they need it or not , whether they are rich or not is totally another issue . They do have a point to fight about .

My point is : Archana does not need to do this . Another silly decision by her . At least she kept the FDs on the children's name...her mother was telling break even that. Ovi is just angry with her with a sense of abandonment but this action would have made Ovi really hate her ...the bottom line would have been that she blessed Purvi's wedding to Arjun and she even wedded them with her money . What kind of advices Sulo gives god knows . 😆😆

Varsha , sherma and masti i agree with your POV .


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Posted: 13 years ago

Exactly, as I said before Kool…she has to give everything to Purvi…first Arjun and now the FDs (however mere it might be, but it is symbolic)…why will she have to give all for Arjun/Purvi marriage..not to forget that in a way, Purvi did take her Aai (Archana) away from her too…

Yes, marriage can be done small scale..the truth is Indian families are killed every day to cater to groom's demand of a lavish wedding. There isn't a need for huge wedding. In fact, the actual rituals of the wedding is simple and symbolic – there isn't any written law that thousands of people need to be fed nor huge amount of gold has to be given to the bride – simple wedding could be a nice shift in mentality and a symbolic gesture on Archana's part too –

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Posted: 13 years ago
Thanks Kools...Archana is in her early 50s...She needs to worry about her old age - days, health issues etc...Purvi's wedding is not the only expense she will incurr..Not sure Sulo has any money left so Archana has to take care of her too as she is in her 70s..People need to worry abt their retirement besides weddings..
Any elderly woman who is Sulo's age would be giving her daughter advice to do the wedding according to what they can afford leaving money for rainy days...From what I remember FDs were opened for later days in old when money was needed...Like our 401Ks...People dont go around pulling money out of 401 K to pay for the weddings..
Instead of coming up with a good advice and solution, Sulo is asking something which can hurt Archu eventually..Any which way we look at breaking FD for purvi's wedding is wrong..Especially when groom's side is very understanding family..
Wouldn't it be hypocritical if Archana to spend so much money on a large wedding for which she challenged the groom-Arjun to drop his family honor-name, earn misely Rs. 10000 in a month...He did that by living in a chawl, working as an auto mechanic..The same woman would go around spending money on a large wedding...If she does that than she has 2 rules one for others and one for herself..
Spending other people's money for one's own wishes is something Questionable...Archana can do what she wants with that money but remember all ArMan's kids have right on Archana's jewelery and money as Kools mentioned above..
These days large weddings are done not due to groom's family demands alone but bride-girl wanting a fairytale weddings..😳
Edited by Dabulls23 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Thanks Kools...Archana is in her early 50s...She needs to worry about her old age - days, health issues etc...Purvi's wedding is not the only expense she will incurr..Not sure Sulo has any money left so Archana has to take care of her too as she is in her 70s..People need to worry abt their retirement besides weddings..

Any elderly woman who is Sulo's age would be giving her daughter advice to do the wedding according to what they can afford leaving money for rainy days...From what I remember FDs were opened for later days in old when money was needed...Like our 401Ks...People dont go around pulling money out of 401 K to pay for the weddings..
Instead of coming up with a good advice and solution, Sulo is asking something which can hurt Archu eventually..Any which way we look at breaking FD for purvi's wedding is wrong..Especially when groom's side is very understanding family..
Wouldn't it be hypocritical if Archana to spend so much money on a large wedding for which she challenged the groom-Arjun to drop his family honor-name, earn misely Rs. 10000 in a month...He did that by living in a chawl, working as an auto mechanic..The same woman would go around spending money on a large wedding...If she does that than she has 2 rules one for others and one for herself..
Spending other people's money for one's own wishes is something Questionable...Archana can do what she wants with that money but remember all ArMan's kids have right on Archana's jewelery and money as Kools mentioned above..
These days large weddings are done not due to groom's family demands alone but bride-girl wanting a fairytale weddings..😳



yup, she is always 2 minded...she challenges arjun that he doesn't know value of money, and on the other hand she wants to do big wedding and see the way she has put that 'all her relatives should bless purvi for good life...' again archu mahaan for purvi, purvi-sulo's will appreciate archu that 'tu mahaan hein, no mom will do so much for a daughter'...

hhhmmm...purvi knows the financial situation right as she does all the balanced sheets of income/expenses...why she is not raising her voice...does she really wants a fairytale wedding...

and why should they think about their future days...archu is going to get a big alimony, she said to manav, she wants a big alishaan house, car(not just 1 if i remember correctly) ...and Manav will give everything...and K's home is also there, 20 years back it was 70 lakhs worth, so now in 2012(teju said once while going to goa we are in 2012) the home might be worth of few crores...

and did you see today's episode... archu said to vishnu...i am more stubborn than you...and the way vishnu responded, 'vishnu feels like there is a bond between archu and him', i really felt like slapping him, manav did so much to soham and vishnu didn't feel anything when he pointed gun to manav but he is feeling for archu who snatched him and responsible for his criminal condition...

this soap completely fails to show the mom's love...most purest thing you get in this world...and it is said that 'god made mom as god cannot be with you all time'...in this show so many times it is shown mom differentiates between her own kids, mom has other priorities than kids, mom can sacrifice her kids for stupid reasons
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