Brief Update : 10th August 2012 - Page 12

Originally posted by: naava

Jai, both Tanya and I (or at least i think Tanya has said this) don't think or expect manav to go to the engagement . I said just that in the last post. I can only speak for myself for certain, but i think he should convey his blessing to Purvi and Arjun (for DK's sake) somehow - a phone call or a gift, but that i think it is inappropriate for him to attend. That would def. be asking too much and i think it would be wrong re: Ovi. I think this is just the same as what you are saying.

I don't think anyone is doubting Manav's committment toPurvi. He\s made it clear in a gallant way. But i have to disagree with you about Archu's pouring out her heart about Purvi calling him Baba. I don't think it was in any way manipulative. She was simply pouring out her heart to the only one whom she really wants to know her heart. She was so filled with emotion...she is a woman. She was telling him how she felt (women tend to do that, whereas men want to fix the situation 😆 )

I don't see how or why Purvi should talk to Manav...it's Arjun's and Dk's responsibility and i think would not look right for Purvi to try to explain. She loves Manav, and she just wanted to know if he was coming. I dont think she expected savita or Ovi to come,...maybe Teju - who vacillates back and forth, and Damo...who says he loves Archana... That was, imo, a totally appropriate question. But we will see on Monday what the actual scene entails.

I for one am glad Purvi is not worrying about Ovi. We don't need another "i will sacrifice my love because someone else is unhappy". She has seen how cruel Ovi can be. I think distancing herself from her is appropriate. I have defended Ovi's heartbreak over and over, but i am not going to go the D-route and coddle cruel and rude behavior... It's one thing to have a broken heart inside, it's another thing to treat people in terrible ways. Ovi could learn a few things about how other people also have feelings.

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Purvi and Arjun are very good kids Jai . They love Manav very much and think of him as their hero ...They don't need anyone to tell them this ...not Archana not DK ...

Arjun got trapped in this situation with Ovi because he cares so much for Ovi and Manav ..backing them if they were so wrong ...This is probably what manav thinks

I think Manav also knows that Arjun and Purvi are not wrong .His staying quiet that day when Archaan was talkign to him said volumes ...How can DK and Archaan be both ..backing them if they were so wrong ...This is probably what manav thinks ..

The main problem is actually Savita .She is still using this oppurtunity to make herself look right and Archana look wrong ...Even if this is getting Ovi more and more in depression

I am getting so bored with savita now ...same thing , again and again and again ..I desperatel y want this track to end ..Either they get divorced and go their seperate ways ...maybe come back together later ...or once and for all put a stop to this savita's nonsense .

Originally posted by: Jaishankar

But the way Manav is acting , how is Archana to know that he is not angry with Purvi .He told her this day only that he will never support Arjun and Purvi so how is Archana to think anything else ..Archu tried to hold his hand and he took it away ... kept givign her angry looks ...

Actually I don't know why Archana runs after him , she is silly ...

Originally posted by: Jaishankar

Again Naava dear I want to state that Manav loves Purvi as a daughter as well and is not just his commitment.I want Archu espically to show that she realized this by telling Purvi the situation back there when Purvi asks for her Baba

I want Archu to say to Purvi how much her baba loves her...If as she says she understands Manav ,she could convey this message to Purvi..If she still feels that Manav is just showing concern towards Purvi out of guilt or something like that or Purvi is just a commitment to Manav even now ,then I dont think she has understood Manav in this case..

Its essential that both Archu n DK realize that Manav loves Purvi and also Arjun..He cannot show it and cant right now but that message should be conveyed to Arvi by Archu when Purvi is expecting her Baba to come..Archu should explain the situation tp Purvi and let her know that her Baba blessings is always there for her and due to circumstances there he cant come but he is always wishing for your happiness..This will tell me that Archu has indeed understood Manav in Purvi's case otherwise that "understood" word has no meaning,

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Tanya re isnt it proof enough that a man is putting his life @ risk for Purvi...Who will do that if there was no love for Purvi..What else is required..Just like Arjun,Manav put his life @ risk for Purvi..Doesnt it convey the meaning .Thats why I say if she ever understood MAnav in Purvi case,she could see that love behind that anger..Actions do speak better than words and Archu saw what Manav said to DK n Arjun...She saw Manav say "I have promised Purvi to be with her in need"..

Tanya he is angry with Purvi but it does not mean he does not love her..As a father he can be angry with Purvi right..He considers her as his daughters and he is also angry with her but that does not mean he does not love Purvi.

Tanya who will say this if there is no love..It just cannot be responsibility or guilt..No one will put his life @ risk for this...I firmly beleive Archu should see this...If the word "understood" has any meaning she will understand that behind that anger is the concern and love for Purvi which makes Manav go and against his even laadli beti Ovi and put his life @ risk for Purvi..

No man without any love can do this for someone and this is more than a proof Tanya...

Edited by Jaishankar - 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Jaishankar

Me too Jai, they were special ...Yo uknow after the leap , I felt as if I was watching a different manav .but the only time I could see the glimpse of the old genrous and kind Manav was when he was with Purvi ...

I don't know about anyone else but I would feel bad if he does not even calls her on her enagement . She has no father ...for her , he is her dad . and somehow I feel that he knows that both Arjun and Purvi are not wrong .. DK and Archaan are not wrong ...He is trying to be positive , but Savitais trying hard to push him back to negativity ...always bringing out old grudges , always bad mouthing Archaan in front of her daughters and he just stands there watching this ...

Despite of this unfair treatmen t, Archu still wants his blessings for her daughter ...I think that is not a bad but a very sweet and a nice thought ...maybe a small step in the right diection ...

Originally posted by: Jaishankar

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Tanya re isnt it proof enough that a man is putting his life @ risk for Purvi...Who will do that if there was no love for Purvi..What else is required..Just like Arjun,Manav put his life @ risk for Purvi..Doesnt it convey the meaning .Thats why I say if she ever understood MAnav in Purvi case,she could see that love behind that anger..Actions do speak better than words and Archu saw what Manav said to DK n Arjun...She say Manav say "I have promised Purvi to be with her in need"..

Tanya who will say this if there is no love..It just cannot be responsibility or guilt..No one will put his life @ risk for this...I firmly beleive Archu should see this...If the word "understood" has any meaning she will understand that behind that anger is the concern and love for Purvi which makes Manav go and against his even laadli beti Ovi and put his life @ risk for Purvi..

No man with any love can do this for someone and this is more than a proof Tanya...