DK: Hero of the Day !!

For me, the hero of the day is DK, definitely...!!

Hi Jyothi,

Jai,

Originally posted by: jdronamraju

Jai,

Thanks for your comments... But, I do not agree to this:

Guess its going to be some time before Manav realizes that Ovi needs a big reality check. I felt the timing of Archu announcing Arvi's approval at D's was somewhere not right.When already Ovi was in a unstable state and behaving like mad, I thought she could have waited a bit and let Manav alone know this first but in a sense its also good that the entire D's know it now.The whole D's clan blind support for Ovi is making matter worse here

There is never a right time for this. The earlier, the better. Didnt you see how bad of a shape Ovi is in? The more the delay, the worse it can get. It is already too late. I was really taken aback at Manav's reaction to both Ovi's rant and also Archana's response. As far as Ovi, why does he not tell her that Arjun will never be hers..So far, he hasnt done it even once. All he says that he is not the right person for you, how can you think of marrying him etc. That is the worse way to go with Ovi. Just tell her plainly that Arjun will not and will never be yours. He has not done this once. That is why, I think what Archana did was right. Atleast, even for a brief moment, she had the gumption to stand up in that house, and say it to Ovi. It is a different matter, that she goes off in her usual style later with Manav, begging and pleading to understand her.

yes, the misery starts for Archana.. But, this is expected.. She needs to get a backbone to stand up to that family... I am not sure when and how she will get it...if at all...

Jyothi

👏

Originally posted by: jdronamraju

For me, the hero of the day is DK, definitely...!!

Granted that Archana has realised Arjun-Purvi's love, and is ready to accept it, but it is DK who is instrumental in her going down the path. If you think about it, even after knowing that Arjun has risked his life for Purvi, when Arjun says that he has to complete his sharth, Archana was mum, other than to agree to Purvi's plaintive request that Arjun stay in their house to recuperate. This does not in anyway say that she was ok with their relationship, it could have been more out of gratitude for Arjun rescuing Purvi.

DK's strategy to convice Archana was awesome !! I liked the way, he took the opportunity to talk to Archana, absolved her out of her guilt, that he understood why she did it but, NOW, that his son has achieved his goal, asked for the reward !! It was also a smart move that he told Archana that Arjun and Purvi are wary of your reaction when she was puzzled as to why they did not tell her. That also made Archana take a pause !! Got her thinking really hard !! He did what Arjun would not do in this situation, told Archana the reality of Arjun's mehnat and what happened to it. DK did it all so decently, that one does not have a choice in that situation. This is how a father should be !! He acted only when his son really needed help. He has never hovered over him, coddled him, over protected him. He let his son choose his path to gain his love, but when the need arose, he rose up to the speak !! For that alone, kudos to DK from me today !! 👏👏

Credit to Archana, ofcourse, now that she knows the truth, that Arjun has earned what she has challenged him to, she went back in time, and realised that yes, Arjun does love Purvi, and what he feels for her is for real. But, the disappointing part is that she did not do it until she knew that he made the money. That irks me a little bit. That should not have mattered to her, saving her daughter should have been suffice alone. For Arjun, proving his point, yes, should matter. But, it should not have for Archana. But, well, all said and done, as long as she accepts it, I guess no complaints.

I applaud her not for this, but more for standing upto Ovi and telling her the reality. It was then that I thought she deserved my applause more. Even though, she did it for a few mins before dissolving into tears, she still did it. For that alone, kudos to Archana..She did what the rest of the lunatic family had done to Ovi. Tell her the reality. That you cannot change your fate..So, here u go, Archana..👏.

I just dont have words to describe my disgust at the rest of the D-family, the way they let Ovi go on and on...It is very puzzling that the family doesnt realize how ready she is for the loony bin...Pardon me, for saying so, I know that this is going to drive some forum members up the wall. What else do you call her rant?

What's with Manav? Why couldnt he just say, Arjun doesnt want you, instead of how can you still want to marry that guy??? What is this guy I wonder? Can he not see which path his daughter is going on? It is just ridiculous how they are encouraing her behavior...Teju, Sachin...aaah...dont even want to talk about them.. Why does Damodar say anything to Archana, if you cant say anything encouraging, just dont. He is just adding to her misery predicting doom... Such a lunatic family, I tell you...

The Precap, what was the expression on Arjun's face? Is he shocked or is he going to go all mahaan and say he needs Manav's approval? I hope not, else I will go and shake the living day lights out of him..for sure...

BTW, very glad of the shift of Arjun's home 😳... very convenient, dont you think?? 😉

I was especially disappointed at Maanav and Teju today. Can they not see that Ovi is wrong and they are indirectly enabling her wrong behaviour by coddling her, treating her like a 4yr old and not making her realize the reality. Ovi needs tough love now...if not her problem is going to get worse. i don't have any hopes on Savita and Sachin but manav and Teju are smart enough to realize what is going on here and they need to get Ovi the help she needs which is professional help and not Arjun. Manav's behaviour towards Archana was so wrong. Can't they all see how it is wrong for them to all gang up on her and bully her like that? Archana will be better off divorcing them and then Savita can poison her granddaughters minds some more.The D's are a true definition of DISFUNCTION.

Originally posted by: jdronamraju

For me, the hero of the day is DK, definitely...!!

Granted that Archana has realised Arjun-Purvi's love, and is ready to accept it, but it is DK who is instrumental in her going down the path. If you think about it, even after knowing that Arjun has risked his life for Purvi, when Arjun says that he has to complete his sharth, Archana was mum, other than to agree to Purvi's plaintive request that Arjun stay in their house to recuperate. This does not in anyway say that she was ok with their relationship, it could have been more out of gratitude for Arjun rescuing Purvi.

DK's strategy to convice Archana was awesome !! I liked the way, he took the opportunity to talk to Archana, absolved her out of her guilt, that he understood why she did it but, NOW, that his son has achieved his goal, asked for the reward !! It was also a smart move that he told Archana that Arjun and Purvi are wary of your reaction when she was puzzled as to why they did not tell her. That also made Archana take a pause !! Got her thinking really hard !! He did what Arjun would not do in this situation, told Archana the reality of Arjun's mehnat and what happened to it. DK did it all so decently, that one does not have a choice in that situation. This is how a father should be !! He acted only when his son really needed help. He has never hovered over him, coddled him, over protected him. He let his son choose his path to gain his love, but when the need arose, he rose up to the speak !! For that alone, kudos to DK from me today !! 👏👏

Credit to Archana, ofcourse, now that she knows the truth, that Arjun has earned what she has challenged him to, she went back in time, and realised that yes, Arjun does love Purvi, and what he feels for her is for real. But, the disappointing part is that she did not do it until she knew that he made the money. That irks me a little bit. That should not have mattered to her, saving her daughter should have been suffice alone. For Arjun, proving his point, yes, should matter. But, it should not have for Archana. But, well, all said and done, as long as she accepts it, I guess no complaints.

I applaud her not for this, but more for standing upto Ovi and telling her the reality. It was then that I thought she deserved my applause more. Even though, she did it for a few mins before dissolving into tears, she still did it. For that alone, kudos to Archana..She did what the rest of the lunatic family did not do for Ovi. Tell her the reality. That you cannot change your fate..So, here u go, Archana..👏.

I just dont have words to describe my disgust at the rest of the D-family, the way they let Ovi go on and on...It is very puzzling that the family doesnt realize how ready she is for the loony bin...Pardon me, for saying so, I know that this is going to drive some forum members up the wall. What else do you call her rant?

What's with Manav? Why couldnt he just say, Arjun doesnt want you, instead of how can you still want to marry that guy??? What is this guy I wonder? Can he not see which path his daughter is going on? It is just ridiculous how they are encouraing her behavior...Teju, Sachin...aaah...dont even want to talk about them.. Why does Damodar say anything to Archana, if you cant say anything encouraging, just dont. He is just adding to her misery predicting doom... Such a lunatic family, I tell you...

The Precap, what was the expression on Arjun's face? Is he shocked or is he going to go all mahaan and say he needs Manav's approval? I hope not, else I will go and shake the living day lights out of him..for sure...

BTW, very glad of the shift of Arjun's home 😳... very convenient, dont you think?? 😉

Jyothi. nice analysis. I like DK since he came back from Australia. And always enjoyed Arjun-DK scenes. I agree none of the Deshmukh is helping Ovi. Don't know what they all are thinking? Manav...😡😡😡

Originally posted by: dolce123

I was especially disappointed at Maanav and Teju today. Can they not see that Ovi is wrong and they are indirectly enabling her wrong behaviour by coddling her, treating her like a 4yr old and not making her realize the reality. Ovi needs tough love now...if not her problem is going to get worse. i don't have any hopes on Savita and Sachin but manav and Teju are smart enough to realize what is going on here and they need to get Ovi the help she needs which is professional help and not Arjun. Manav's behaviour towards Archana was so wrong. Can't they all see how it is wrong for them to all gang up on her and bully her like that? Archana will be better off divorcing them and then Savita can poison her granddaughters minds some more.The D's are a true definition of DISFUNCTION.

You got the right word, DISFUNCTION...They are the true definition of a dysfunctional family...Bang ON !!!

Jyothi,

Great post my dear. I do indeed love DK and I especially loved his reasoning today and how u have so accurately called his actions.

Point to note: I really enjoyed how even tho DK was frustrated at one point and you heard it in his tone and manner when he said " Im his father ..." around that part, even though he was frustrated and maybe even angry, he quickly gathered his wits and calmed down and continued with his persuasion (I can't call it discussion nor argument, for DK was on a mission of his own, and that was to persuade Archu towards the truth of the ArVi Rishta). SO, Great job DK and I will join Jyothi, Darlyne, Jenelle and everyone else in giving you a 👏.

In defense of Archana and what you wrote Jyothi - there is NEVER a good time to give that message... IF she had waited 10 mins to 10 days, I believe Ovi's reaction would have still been the same. And anyhow, When exactly is a GOOD TIME? We all saw how "waiting to tell Ovi the truth to protect her" turned out when another secret was to be revealed... so really and truly, its good that she and everyone hears now - the sooner the better. If Archana had kept it to herself, that would only have made her more tense and she would still be blasted by the D clan later.

As for Ovi,
She needs to have enough respect for HERSELF and her family so as not to run behind a boy that has made it clear he is not in love with her. She should try to distance herself from that person as much as she can and focus on HER. You don't go around saying that "if I can't have him, no one else can".
That has moved from the point of love to obsession and her family is not supporting her as they should, they are coddling her.

I am a little confused. Maybe someone can help clear my confustion. I thought that Arjun got shot in the leg (that one I remember clearly). He got shot a second time. I thought that was also in the leg (that's why he fell down). But when I saw him today, he had a bandage around his chest/shouldern area , but nothing around his leg as DK was tucking him in. Did I miss something? Thanks