OVI - Page 2

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Ovi desperately needs to be loved by her mother ..Ovi needs Archana more than anyone else right now ...but for that she has to trust that Archana loves her and is not trying to move away from her ... Manav is really not handling this right and Teju is still young ...Ovi needs Archana whose love would be like a balm on her aching heart ...but she needs to know the truth from Savita first ...

You know Varsha , sometimes it seems as if Ovi is paying for all the mistakes committed by others ...like Manav , Archana , Savita , DK , Damodar and everyone ...

Savita is the root cause of the mistrust between mother and daughter
Ovis dadi had to come clean 1st. Then only Archana will be able to reach to her kids.

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

You know Varsha , sometimes it seems as if Ovi is paying for all the mistakes committed by others ...like Manav , Archana , Savita , DK , Damodar and everyone ...

very sad indeed ...

You are right ..Archana too should apologise to Ovi for not cchecking on her daughters for so long and whatever her reasons , she should tell them to her ...

Originally posted by: sunflower52

Savita is the root cause of the mistrust between mother and daughter
Ovis dadi had to come clean 1st. Then only Archana will be able to reach to her kids.

@tanyaz, the way they react when ever Archana tries to reach to them and how is she suppose to explain to her kids when they rebuffs her advances. Communication is a two way street.

Only Savita can end this the kids will listen to her. Even if Manav tries they will think it's his love for Archana that makes him speak in favor of her.

Originally posted by: sunflower52

@tanyaz, the way they react when ever Archana tries to reach to them and how is she suppose to explain to her kids when they rebuffs her advances. Communication is a two way street.

Only Savita can end this the kids will listen to her. Even if Manav tries they will think it's his love for Archana that makes him speak in favor of her.

Savita should definitely tell Ovi and Teju the truth, with hers and everyone else's part in it. But even if she doesn't, Archana should tell them the truth. They deserve to know it. Manav cannot, because he himself doesn't know the whole truth. Only Archana and savita do. It doesn't matter that Ovi hates Archu right now-that's actually resentment and confusion at being abandoned and the different avatars of Archana they keep seeing. This same Archana had taken it as a challenge to take savita's hatred when she thought savita needed her, and she had made Savita love her too. So much so that Savita had made sure Archana got Soham back from Varsha when she saw how much she missed him even though Archana didn't tell. And when Manav's secretary tried to trap him- Savita was the one who solved it.

Here Ovi is not even at fault. She doesn't know anything, her actions and reactions are based on the facts as she knows them. She's Archana's daughter but she did have any contact with her for nearly all of her life, whatever her reasons. Archana has to overcome Ovi's and Teju's hatred, with or without Savita's help. For herself and her children, especially the latter. What she needs to do is tell them that she has no intention of divorcing Manav and that she's now going to make up for the time spent away from them, and she's a part of their family whether they like it or not. She can tell the whole truth before and after leap story; or just let the history be as it stands now and focus on the present and the future letting Savita do the talking. However she does it, Archana needs to let the Deshmukh family know she's not going anywhere and they might as well accept her; she should start making amends right away. It will be difficult in the beginning to get through to them, but if she stands firm it'll make an effect sooner rather than later. Especially with Teju also being there, she will probably be more ready to listen and can also talk to Ovi about giving Archana a chance. But that can happen if and only if Archana herself makes a stand instead of going back and forth showing affection on one hand and still going ahead with the divorce on the other.

I just hope that CV's find in their heart to do justice to Ovi's character..Its very hard to watch Ovi like this totally distraught and obsessed. The only cure for her is Archu...Deep inside her hatred is its yearning for her aai Archu..She is so missing her mom badly right now especially the condition she is in now..Archu has to now focus her attention towards Ovi before its too late.

Archana will only be able to do only limited way. Ovi is the one who also has to make a move to heal herself.

Her family can only support her, Ovi has to take a stand herself. In this matter Arjun cannot help Ovi unless and until she accepts that he is just a friend. If she keeps on hating Purvi for no reason she will loose Arjun friendship.

I know this topic is about Ovi, I want to point out few things about Purvi. Purvi is an orphan and the world is cruel to kids who are orphans. The only support Purvi has is Archana and Sulchona now Arjun has become part of her life. She also never saw father's love but she turned out such a well rounded person. Thanks to Archana

Ovi had everything except a mother, money bro/sis loving father and dadi
She should be grateful for her loving family and stop running towards those things which she can not have. Also she should ask her mother why
she abandoned them and also listen to her explanation.

Communication is a two way street the other should also be willing to listen.