Originally posted by: Ashlaika
This is not a place for our personal life... its all about PR. BUT our emotions are based on what we go tru and our views about the show are all subjective to how we see things, analyse things and how they look to us. We can all see the same show and 20 of us will have 10 different views.
With that said, I can see why so many conflicting views on Ovi. Like I said in another thread, before today I have not said anything bad about her, cause, well... to be honest, I HAVE BEEN THERE!!! And its not a nice place to be! Falling in love with ur best friend, being made promises and having them broken can break YOU as a person. But... Ovi is taking this to a whole new ridiculous level. AND... HER FAMILY is sitting back and allowing it to happen. It is no longer DK, Arjun or Purvi's fault and responsibility. The initial confusion was caused by DK (telling Ovi, Arjun misses her), then Arjun with his misguided chivalry was trying to protect her (during the whole legal matter). BUT... now that the truth is revealed it is high time her family stops treating her with kid gloves and like a pampered princess and get her out of the situation and onto stronger footing.
A few facts:
1. Ovi did not love Arjun for 14 years. She loved him since she was 14! That means its like 5. (Although what a 14 year old knows about romantic love is beyond me, and NOT the point of discussion here. that's just my personal opinion - don't wanna debate that). This point is just to clarify the time factor.
A love of 5 years is still much longer than a love of a couple months. My personal opinion is that one can't fall in true/deep/whatever love in a few months time. That's just infatuation/attraction/crush what have you.
2. Arjun DID tell Ovi he loves someone else, except she was too busy talking to Romel to pay attention - even when he said it was important. (the very next day after he figured out his feelings for Purvi was love).
He also got engaged to her after that incident and stayed engaged to her for a few months. The act of getting engaged trumps the act of trying to tell her he loves somebody else, don't you think?
3. She does live in her own world and is considered to be a princess, but that does not excuse her for tearing off on her mother, and making it seem like it was Purvi's fault for every bad thing in her life. Sometimes we want to see things our own way and not how they actually are, unfortunately, thats how Ovi saw Arjun's actions. She read more into the friendship than was actually there.
Ovi doesn't go tearing off at Archana coz she's living in her own world, whatever that means. She does it coz she feels abandoned by her, which is true and a completely natural reaction. Why should Ovi or Teju not tear at Archana? What has Archana done to deserve anything else? Just giving birth doesn't automatically make one a parent or get them their children's respect and love. Parents have to work for it as well; and then once the children become adults, they have all the rights to expect and demand respect. Archana hasn't done a single thing to make her Ovi's, teju's or Soham's mother. She's Purvi's mother and that's it. And it is fact that everything wrong in Ovi's life is linked to Purvi. What Ovi should have had, but doesn't-Purvi has that. Not Arjun, but her mother's love. She's not just smarting about Arjun, but about her mother who's a stranger to her but is distraught over Purvi's disappearance. And her dad, who's her rock and who she expects to be at her side always, tells that Purvi is the same as Ovi and Teju to him. And whether it's Purvi's fault or not, she's definitely the cause of distress in Ovi's life.
She needs help and DK, Arjun nor Purvi are responsible for that now. Its up to her family. And if they love her as much as they do, then THEY need to do something and stop treating her like a baby. She also needs to figure out when to let go. YOU ARE RIGHT... she cannot let go as yet, its still fresh. BUT... She needs to gain some understanding that Love happens and she can't force it on Arjun and she can't blame it on Purvi. Revenge is not the way to go... that only comes back to bite u in the b*tt.
It is definitely up to her family. It was the responsibility of DK and Arjun to atleast try and make her understand. Instead, they became strangers to the person Arjun considered his close friend and DK his daughter during the time she was hurt that was caused by them. What was the hurry to do crazy acts of love for Purvi so soon after breaking Ovi's heart, but rubbing salt on her wounds? Is is enough letting Ovi know from an outside source that what she thought was her dream come true was actually a farce? Didn't Arjun and DK have a responsibility towards making sure she was ok before hurrying to Archana to talk about Arjun and Purvi's marriage? Why the hurry for Arjun and Purvi to get married right away? Is their love going to be any less if they wait to get together and first try to repair the damage they've both done to their families? It's not just Ovi that's been hurt, everybody from Archana to Teju have been hurt.
Ovi has done nothing to take revenge from either Purvi or Arjun. Telling her dad not to give money when there are other people to save Purvi is not revenge. That's just not caring about Purvi. Not everybody has to love Purvi, and if they don't that doesnt' automatically make them bad. Getting Purvi kidnapped or stopping DK, Arjun or Archana from trying to save Purvi is. Which obviously didn't happen. She just didn't want her dad doing it, and that's completely natural and understandable.
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