PR Today: A contrary take on Purvi

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well, folks, I see that tempers are raging high, and Purvi is, no question about it, firmly in the doghouse. As a charter member of the PAP (Protect Arjun Project), I feel that this is a curious turn of events. Even more curious is that my take on Purvi's behaviour in today's episode is somewhat different, not just from the rest, but also from the way I have been seeing her all along. I am not , as you know, a Purvi-groupie, in fact quite the opposite, and I have always been accusing her of not fully reciprocating Arjun's passion for her, and in fact of not being even capable of it. So, when I say this today about Purvi, it should carry some extra weight.

I think she refused Archana's offer of a meeting with Arjun not out of an obsessive respect for her mother's diktat, but for a different reason. True, she is generally scrupulously obedient (though she does NOT shrink away from Arjun at the hospital), and the latest evidence for this is when she decides not to call Arjun to thank him (it would have been useless in any case, and they would have taken away his mobile in the police lockup, but that is besides the point). Her not insisting on being taken along to the police station means nothing, she would have been verbally slapped down if she had done that and it is pointless to invite yet another snub. Sulochana helps her out as always.

When she does not even try to look at Arjun at the police station, it is not a gesture of subservience to her mother, rather the opposite. She knows that her Arjun is in this mess because of Archana, and she cannot face it precisely because it hurts her too much to see him there, when she cannot run to him, hold his hands and caress his face to comfort him.

But it is different when Archana tells her she can meet Arjun if she wants to, and she sidesteps it without actually turning it down. The way she looks at Archana when she says that she wants to go back to the hospital is a curious one, and decidedly ambiguous.

My reading is that Purvi does not want to be treated like a foolish child any more: slapped and told to get lost one day, screamed at and dragged to the door another day, and then, when Archana feels guilty about the mess Arjun has landed in because he helped Sulochana and saved her life, to be offered a meeting with him like a lollipop.

Her refusal is, I feel, a first step towards independence from Archana, and not a slavish display of obedience. She does not want to be treated like a puppet or a piece of property any more, to be abused one day and indulged the next. liked that little gesture of quiet, understated defiance, if not actual anger, or so I read it. Archana did not know what to make of it, for she is sure that Purvi must be dying to meet Arjun.

I hope at least some of you think, on reconsidering the matter, that you might agree with me (and Arvi_licious) ? I do not claim to be an expert at decoding the minds of the CVs, but I do feel that this is a case of Laurie's "cautious caterpillar" moving to the chrysalis stage, if not spreading her wings in triumphant freedom as a butterfly. I hope, at least for the sake of my poor Arjun, that I am right about this.

This apart, for those across the Atlantic who are yet to see the episode, please don't worry about any police excesses against Arjun, He got off very lightly seeing that they suspect him of being a gang member. A couple of slaps, that is all, and they seemed much less forceful than Manav's, and there were 3 slaps then!

In fact I thought that today's PR was a good advertisment for the Mumbai police. They not only listen to Arjun, who, as usual, is not very coherent, but then actually take the trouble to go to the hospital to get Sulochana's statement, and as she is there in the hospital at that time, Archana's as well.

They do not let Arjun go just the basis of Archana's character certificate, or DK's confirmation of his identity, but in their place, I would do the same. Being a very rich man's son does not automatically mean that the boy cannot be a gangster as well. They are on the track of that gang, and they need to be VERY sure about Arjun before they release him.

The catch here is whether the man in the boot will ever regain consciousness at all. I have so far fallen flat on my face with all my meticulous analysis of The Mystery of the Body in the Boot, which I had hoped would be at least a proper, exciting whodunit, with a cliffhanger of a court case with Arjun in the dock. The CVs have reduced it all to a damp squib, as (our) Archana had anticipated, and it only goes to show how little I am able to enter into their thought processes. That is probably a blessing, seeing how nutty they are most of the time, but it is a serious stumbling block when reading the tea leaves for PR. But all is not lost, and there might still be some fireworks if the chap kicks the bucket without ever regaining consciousness.

I loved DK today. When speaking to the police, he is all patrician reticence, and he offers the only sensible proof of Arjun's identity, to check against his photo in a business magazine (though he intends it, at that point, to prove that the detainee is not Arjun).

When Archana turns up to seek his help to rescue Arjun, as DK knows perfectly well that it is Archana's folly that has brought his son to this pass, he wants to rub it in. He has no notion of letting her escape from the burden of guilt so easily. He puts Archana in her place so smoothly and effortlessly, without a single word spoken in anger. Like a hot knife going thru butter.

Now that is class. Not like the fishmarket style screaming of the Ds and the Ks alike – whether it is Savita, Manav, Teju, Ovi, or Archana. I have never heard DK raise his voice no matter what the situation was, and the post-Purvi Arjun is patience and good manners personified, no matter what the provocation, and he faces plenty.

However, I am not sure that this is an entirely good thing, and I was pleased when the old, autocratic Arjun Kirloskar surfaced for one brief moment at the hospital reception desk. But he vanished all too soon, and 'just Arjun' was back to sirring everyone in sight, and apologizing for his own existence. When Manav barks at him and demands to know why he is here, this Arjun does not even have the presence of mind to inform him that it was he who had brought Sulochana to the hospital. These are not good signs. Discovering yourself does not mean eviscerating yourself and letting anyone and everyone trample over you.

In fact, I did not at all like the way Arjun panicked when he was being taken away by the cops. In such a calamity, one has to keep a cool head and that is what I would have expected of DK's son. Just a few days of being a garage hand seemed to have reduced Arjun to one, or almost so. Some more time doing the poor man act and he will completely forget how to be Arjun Kirloskar, which would be a great pity.

While of the topic of putting people in their place, Sulochana did a splendid job with Teju today, turning a cold shoulder and conveying in no uncertain terms that (a) Teju has been most ungrateful, and (b) that she cannot be abysmally rude to her and Purvi one day, and then turn up another day, and behave as if nothing had happened and expecting that Sulochana should behave likewise. Manav's daughters need lessons in handling relationships, as also in common civility, and this was lesson no.1 for Teju, one that she is unlikely to get from her fawning and over eager aai.

The other person who deserves not one but a whole volley of claps is the garage owner Farooq. His unquestioning trust in such a recent recruit, and his readiness to help Arjun to any extent, show not only his generosity but, more important, his ability to judge character accurately, something that is sadly lacking in Archana. It is this kind of heartwarming relationship with a simple man that will be the true khazana (treasure) that Arjun will gain from his exile, an exile comparable to the agnyaatavaas of his legendary namesake in the Mahabharata. And it is this that will teach him to cherish what matters the most in life, and when he finally returns to his own world, enrich his existence with the warmth of uncomplicated comradeship, and of affection and caring given without any thought of return.

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Tunasnah thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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why archana manav daughters need lesson to learn all others are angel they didnt do any mistakes in life only teju ovi are wrong negative .salouchna also act very ungrateful o manav and his family if u remember earlier years of archana manav marriage .these complications created by cv's ended up in low trp's .teju is angry as she think her sis is hurt bc of arvi what u expet from her to come and hug arvi and congratulate them accept their love on second day of ovi engagement breakup ...arvi marriage will happen and their is nothing wrong in their love but this is unfair to say only manav and ovi teju are wrong and salouchna purvi are right .in all this archana is the onlyone who will suffer and loose every thing.and manav will be the one who will come for arjun rescue as he loves arjun as much as he love ovi tej ...he is a father who is hurt and angry n arjun who breaks his daughter heart .
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hey Shyamala 🤗

First of all three cheers to you. You've done a splendid job in covering all the points of today's eppy. Trust me, to sit back and go through all the characters (with such a pathetic storyline) needs patience and a lot of understanding. 👏 👏 👏


I second your opinion on all the characters and their behaviour at the situations they've put themselves in. The star of the say has to be Sulo and Farooq for being the only sensible ones in the whole show (atleast for today).


Manav should seriously sit back and think of his upbringing. Both, Teju and Ovi seem to have NOTHING of Archana's mahaanta (which is a good sign 😆 )But yeah, Teju is weird. One moment she sees that Archana has to be treated fairly, the other moment she starts barking at her like a street dog


Anyway, you deserve more than a round of applause for bearing through so much and giving us SUCH a wonderful analysis of SUCH a predictable plot.


Love

Rachel
Edited by Rach. - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Shyamala,
I did watch the episode and updated Bee's thread on my reactions to Purvi..
As i said there...
I liked the way Purvi expressed her anguish at Arjun's plight with just her eyes and no words..Very well done by Asha. Infact, no words were needed today. They understand each other very well. Having said that, I still hold my reservation with Purvi, but I am not unhappy with her either today..
For the sake of our Arjun, I hold my position as such. Got to take protect him at all costs, right 😃.
I liked sulochana's reaction to Teju also. Teju deserved it for the way she treated her Aaji and Purvi the last time she was there at their house. Archana was upset that Sulochana was reacting that way to Teju, but why should Sulo be happy just because teju came to see her? The hurt that the girl has caused her does not go away with a visit. It will linger for a while and reacting that way was natural.
DK was DK, gave it back to Archana in his own way. The barb did hit the target.
I guess we have to wait atleast until the end of the week for Arjun to be released. I am sure they will drag it until then. got to get proof or rather the cops have to do their job diligently.
I liked what you said below:

The other person who deserves not one but a whole volley of claps is the garage owner Farooq. His unquestioning trust in such a recent recruit, and his readiness to help Arjun to any extent, show not only his generosity but, more important, his ability to judge character accurately, something that is sadly lacking in Archana. It is this kind of heartwarming relationship with a simple man that will be the true khazana (treasure) that Arjun will gain from his exile, an exile comparable to the agnyaatavaas of his legendary namesake in the Mahabharata. And it is this that will teach him to cherish what matters the most in life, and when he finally returns to his own world, enrich his existence with the warmth of uncomplicated comradeship, and of affection and caring given without any thought of return.

Edited by jdronamraju - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Done with my views 👍🏼

Shyamalaaa, please write one, like this everyday noo 😳
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Darling,

That is the sweetest thing that has been said to me since I started writing in this forum, and I cannot thank you enough.

But if I were to do what you ask, the rest of the forum members would either run away or stage a demonstration in protest. They are already struggling to cope with the avalanche of words that hits them every now and then, poor things! To do more would be to inflict cruel and unusual punishment!

Shyamala

Originally posted by: Rach.

Done with my views 👍🏼


Shyamalaaa, please write one, like this everyday noo 😳

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hi Shymala,

Thank you for your wonderful analysis again. I tend to disagree here a bit...(As always agree to disagree 😊)..

This whole track of Arjun trying to prove his love being mechanic to earn 10,000 as a challenge provided by Archu has become a fiasco. Archu is made to look like a villian between Arjun n Purvi.
I wonder what is the purpose of this entire track.This on demand script non sense end result is such loose illogical storylines.
Manav has been made to look very weak re as you mentioned.
In fact dear as I see Arman are being made to look unreasonable parents to Arvi whereas they have every right to be angry on them but the way its shown being handled is a big mess.The challenge scenario is totally out of context and all this Manav is completely left out and is shown totally unaware of the situation. IT should be Archu n Manav together taking right actions and not this challenge scenario . I am appalled on how DK has agreed to such non-sense. What father would allow his son to get tortured in jail just for the sake of a senseless sacrifice.Does his son's challenge is more important than his well being...? Amazing ...DK really is calm under all circumstances coz the man can do nothing n keeps waiting forever...
What he expects Archu to do here..Is she all powerful to bail his son out based on the current situation...Great going DK...
Instead of the whole challenge fiasco there should be track where Arjun is proving that he is a victim of circumstance and situations thanks to his dad and take efforts to make Ovi understand and convince Manav n Archu that he is not wrong,instead this is going on a completely different track where he is shown as a one dimensional lover. Its good Arjun wants to prove himself and his love for Purvi but I think its also important that he also clears the air with Ovi by facing her ,have a good 1 -1 talk ,trying to make her understand. Its going to be tough to make Ovi understand but at least the effort needs to be there.Neither DK nor Arjun have been shown thinking about that instead Arjun is shown to be following Manav's path of being a mechanic and taking all mis fortunes like Manav.
I think CV's are confused. Manav is Manav and there is no one like him. Trying to make Arjun like Manav is destroying Arjun's character. Its depressing to see a MBA being a mechanic. IT would have been better had they shown Arjun working somewhere in a MNC. These kind of illogical nonsense is not helping TRP's.Unless CV's wake up here trp's dropping further is a reality.
Its high time they end this nonsense track ,unite Arvi and move on with next track if they have to survive. TRP's are taking a major hit for PR and Zee has put lot of pressure on Balaji for this to do something.At this rate nothing is going to help unless CV's open their eyes or old CV's come back to rescue the sinking ship
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sashashyam

Darling,

That is the sweetest thing that has been said to me since I started writing in this forum, and I cannot thank you enough.

But if I were to do what you ask, the rest of the forum members would either run away or stage a demonstration in protest. They are already struggling to cope with the avalanche of words that hits them every now and then, poor things! To do more would be to inflict cruel and unusual punishment!

Shyamala



Hahahaha nono, your words were perfect and bang on. I know that all can do is sit and crib about the way this is going. But we're seriously not bashing anyone here. We're just expressing our anxieties through these things.

I'll be the first one to cheer for you man ! GO for it ⭐️


Rachel
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jaishankar

Hi Shymala,


Thank you for your wonderful analysis again. I tend to disagree here a bit...(As always agree to disagree 😊)..

This whole track of Arjun trying to prove his love being mechanic to earn 10,000 as a challenge provided by Archu has become a fiasco. Archu is made to look like a villian between Arjun n Purvi.
I wonder what is the purpose of this entire track.This on demand script non sense end result is such loose illogical storylines.
Manav has been made to look very weak re as you mentioned.
In fact dear as I see Arman are being made to look unreasonable parents to Arvi whereas they have every right to be angry on them but the way its shown being handled is a big mess.The challenge scenario is totally out of context and all this Manav is completely left out and is shown totally unaware of the situation. IT should be Archu n Manav together taking right actions and not this challenge scenario . I am appalled on how DK has agreed to such non-sense. What father would allow his son to get tortured in jail just for the sake of a senseless sacrifice.Does his son's challenge is more important than his well being...? Amazing ...DK really is calm under all circumstances coz the man can do nothing n keeps waiting forever...
What he expects Archu to do here..Is she all powerful to bail his son out based on the current situation...Great going DK...
Instead of the whole challenge fiasco there should be track where Arjun is proving that he is a victim of circumstance and situations thanks to his dad and take efforts to make Ovi understand and convince Manav n Archu that he is not wrong,instead this is going on a completely different track where he is shown as a one dimensional lover. Its good Arjun wants to prove himself and his love for Purvi but I think its also important that he also clears the air with Ovi by facing her ,have a good 1 -1 talk ,trying to make her understand. Its going to be tough to make Ovi understand but at least the effort needs to be there.Neither DK nor Arjun have been shown thinking about that instead Arjun is shown to be following Manav's path of being a mechanic and taking all mis fortunes like Manav.
I think CV's are confused. Manav is Manav and there is no one like him. Trying to make Arjun like Manav is destroying Arjun's character. Its depressing to see a MBA being a mechanic. IT would have been better had they shown Arjun working somewhere in a MNC. These kind of illogical nonsense is not helping TRP's.Unless CV's wake up here trp's dropping further is a reality.
Its high time they end this nonsense track ,unite Arvi and move on with next track if they have to survive. TRP's are taking a major hit for PR and Zee has put lot of pressure on Balaji for this to do something.At this rate nothing is going to help unless CV's open their eyes or old CV's come back to rescue the sinking ship


Agree Jaishankar ! 😊

I always wondered that a guy with an MBA from a reputed university can do SO many more jobs in various companies.

But when the protagonist of the show says that the guy must 'struggle and work hard', she indirectly refers to manual jobs which require no skill as such. 😡


Really, this makes nooo sense to me at all and I havent liked the way ArVi's story has been shown either. The fan fictions here provide so much more logic and sense 😛


Love

Rachel
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rach.


Agree Jaishankar ! 😊

I always wondered that a guy with an MBA from a reputed university can do SO many more jobs in various companies.

But when the protagonist of the show says that the guy must 'struggle and work hard', she indirectly refers to manual jobs which require no skill as such. 😡


Really, this makes nooo sense to me at all and I havent liked the way ArVi's story has been shown either. The fan fictions here provide so much more logic and sense 😛


Love

Rachel


Hi Rach,

You can call me Jai 😊The storylines are a complete contrast...Its either one extreme or other with the end result characters made to look like fools and storylines pathetic non-sense.
The whole challenge scenario was unnecessary. Arjun could have been made to portray his heroics in a more sensible manner rather than this challenge scenario. This has made a mess of the situation with the entire blame going back to Archu with Purvi also angry on Archu and with no involvement of Manav in this and with DK giving more importance to his son's challenge and not his well being.DK has been the guy who has given wrong importance to wrong things at wrong times. Earlier more than his son's life his Australia trip was more important to him and now he expects Archu to do something to realize his son by making her feel guilty.Good time to do such non sense from DK when ur son is in jail.. I just hope some sense is brought back some how..Not sure how.

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