Originally posted by: rayadallie
there is no win-win situation for archana.
Archana never had ovi anyway. where were ovi all these 18yrs? she did not even try to find out abt her mother. all she did was take in all the hatred which savita fed her for her mother. Purvi although adopted was with archana for all these years and took care of her. So she should be showing at least a little more interest in how PURVI feels rather than just make decisions that she feel is right without listening to purvi.
Well as far as I an concerned, archana is flogging a dead horse in ovi. Ovi hates her so much that she cannot see the goodness in her mother and try to find out the real truth behind her mother and father's separation. Even as she supports ovi, she will end up loosing both daughters as she is doing just as arjun. trying to gain one's affection without showing a bit concern for the other with respect to how purvi feels abt arjun. she is darn lucky to have a daughter like purvi.
the better way for archana is to get purvi married to arjun and let arjun return home with his father and run his business. Then try to build a relationship with ovi. at least one daughter will be happy. There is no guarantee that after marriage a man will continue to treat a woman good. We can never be certain of a person no matter what family back gorund they came from. we just have to trust in god that all goes well. afterall manav was so good, prove himself to soluchana etc but what happens today?
Sulo is right today. Living in the past would not allow us to move on and be happy. Archana's luck may not be purvi's luck. She is totally wrong to impose herself on purvi. You make your children but you do not own them. You should impose yourself upon your children. If you bring them up with good values, then you should be able to trust their judgement.