Originally posted by: sashashyam
Dear Tanyaz,
I can see and understand where you are coming from wrt @red.
But how would Archana's being strict now ensure that Arjun would treat Purvi well all her life? If a husband is going to change for the worse, he will, and his MIL's being strict with his wife-to-be before their marriage would have no bearing on that.
her being strict means nothing actually .😆
Purvi will do what she wants to do eventually and so will Arjun .Just like Archana did what she wanted to do ..When Archu married Manav the second time , her mother told her ' this man will destroy your life ' but Archu left her mother , how right was Sulochna .
The same is going to happen ...but can't blame Archana for trying .After all Purvi is her girl and she is scared .
Secondly, how precisely is Arjun to "to assure Archana that he will not do to Purvi what he did to Ovi ..."? He can go on repeating that he truly loves Purvi, but how can he PROVE the kind of negative Archana (and you ) want? It is an accepted axiom that one cannot prove a negative.
He will say this some time more ...then he will stop trying ..But at the same time I cannot blame Archana for being scared .I would be scared if I were in her place .Look, Arjun showed this junoon even when he was making Purvi committ to him ...then came Ovi and look at what he did ...the whole forum washating him yaar ...eveb his dad went to take care of a deal instead of sorting out the lives of these two young girls ...I know Arjun does not have to prove that much , already it looks as if Purvi is soon going to stop listening to her Aie , but I can understand why Archana is so scared right now ...
There is no way to get any such lifetime warranty on a marriage. If there was, so many marriages - arranged ones as well as love marriages - would not end in divorce. And Archana's marital record is so bad that she is hardly well placed to undertake such a task.
Yes, I completely agree with you .Archana is a very wrong person when it comes to judging people ...perfect example ...Manav Deshmukh ..
But this does not means that she should not be concerned about Purvi ..I think Sulochna and even Purvi have made up their minds that Arjun is the right guy for Purvi ...but they ( specially Purvi ) know that Arjun did make some mistakes and due to them Archana is scared so that is why Purvi is trying to keep Aie happy as well.. Both Purvi and Sulochna are much more clever than Archaan who isa very foolish woman .But even foolish mothers are mothers and they have a right to worry about their daughters .
@green. It might be condemnable, but it happens all the time, from Romeo to Arjun (at least Arjun was not in love with Ovi, as Romeo was with Rosaline. Romeo was lucky in that Rosaline did not carry on like Ovi, and in fact did not want to marry him at all, so he got off easily). One cannot hang, draw, and quarter every young man or woman who does this. Arjun was never in love before and then he fell in love. One cannot control falling in love, and if Ovi had heard him properly the first time he called her, the very morning after his interlude with Aashana, no one could have blamed him. Fate was repeatedly against him, probably so that so many of us can have the pleasure of pillorying him, that is all.
Oh yeah, he was never in love with Ovi ..His dad really pushed him in her direction ...and then just disappeared to Australia ...😡I think after seeing his son the otherday as a mechanic and livign in chawl ...now even DK knows how much credibility his son lost because of their careless mistakes ...
I hope Arjun comes out of it soon ...He is a good kid and does loves Purvi ( hopefully true love ) ...