Originally posted by: Tanyaz
yes, don't blame her for feeling so dejected ...
Purvi has made a huge mistake that she kept such a big thing a secret and now she better tell the whole truth ..and if Archana is too angry then she has to pull Arjun by his ear and make him come and tell the truth to her mother ...
Of course Archana will support her later , also hug her and all that but what about Purvi and Arjun ...how wil lthey live with the fact that they hurt these good people ( Manav and Archana ) who trusted them and loved them so much.
Arjun and Purvi should make a pact between them that they will not get married until they sort it out between Manav and Archana and at least clear this misunderstanding between them ...
what a mess PR is at this time. Tanya, I think this will also make Archu aware of the fact that she can't go out ranting about her sanskaars even though Purvi has good sanskaars, but for this particular one she went overboard.
My own reality:
My daughter was about 7 years old and would often play with my nephew who lived 2 blocks down the other side of the street. He was a very mischievous boy. My daughter was used to playing by herself, self sufficient most of the time, but with my nephew, they both would create trouble between themselves and she would end up coming home crying. My daughter has all the good sanskaars that we as good mothers give to our DAUGHTERS.
One day someone came and knocked our door and complained about Monica and another boy throwing pebbles at their front door and then these kids would run away so fast so that no one could see them.
He (teacher) was invited into the house to talk with Monica, Monica first lied and then eventually told the truth that she was the one who instigated her cousin to do this act. I was SHOCKED. Since then, I get the facts straight before jumping to the gun. It was always my nephew to be blamed but this time Monica got caught. Since then and even to this day, I listen to her complaints with a grain of salt and keep asking her questions after questions before I give her my opinion or a head shake. I still have that 1% doubt that she might be at wrong.
So a good mother would understand the situation and get her facts straight before start firing on others or their own child.
Edited by Tulsey - 13 years ago