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Posted: 13 years ago
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It was good watching Archana being a supportive mother

but then the quality (supportive mother) negates itself when immature actions are taken just to support the sanskars which have been instilled by the mother.


highly disappointing to say the least.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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When Archana was standing up for Purvi she was upholding the values she has instilled in Purvi, the very same values that Ovi is decrying and insulting her mother about. Those deep seated values will never allow Purvi to knowingly snatch anyone's fiance from them, be it her sister's or from a girl she hardly knows. The values are to be applauded but Archana is barking up the wrong tree as we know. Punni is talking about Purvi conniving to get Arjun and hiding the fact so she, Purvi, can keep Arjun to herself. This will never be the case as Purvi is the one insisting that Arjun honor is previous commitment to Ovi as he didn't speak up when the time was right. Is Purvi doing this because of her sanskars? Probably not, as the same sanskars didn't stop her from pleading with Arjun to disclose all on the day of the engagement.
There is a fine line here. Archana is right in that Purvi's values will never allow her to do anything deceitful or underhanded as to steal another girl's guy but at the same time, Arjun was not (technically) another girl's guy when the whole fiasco unfolded.
Purvi now trying to keep a lid on things will not be so much for "sanskars" but because her mother fiercely and somewhat foolishly stood up for her without delving into the matter, natural amongst all mothers, or most mothers, I would say.
In Archana's defense, the public disclosure by Punni did not give Archu the opportunity to question Purvi about it. I wonder though after the MMS incident, if aaji and aai ever asked Purvi as to how the MMS came about or what it was related to? eye drops, yes, but how, where, when?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Nirvaan Archu, Purvi and Sulo's sanskars can never do wrong...Useless as CVs will show them high and mighty and Manav & Savita's sanskars are bad...Laagey raho CVs for the lopsided sanskars...Grrr
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Posted: 13 years ago
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This is how I was after the serial…

🤣🤣🤣🤣

The poor girl is right in between the deep deep blue sea and the devil himself….

It was only the other day someone commented that hopefully Archu's do not go 'my girl can do no wrong"…and I was you just wait and see if I knew this serial well we are in for those words very soon…man the cvs need to make the character believable…we, as mom always try our best to give the best sanskaar possible but at the same time leave a door open so that kids can come and discuss anything with mom if and when needed (and that goes for matters that are not their fault either)..but Cvs protrayal of this dear Mommy...

But rest assure Nirvan, very soon someone from the Desmukh's family and probably Savita will be painted in the worst possible light so that the entire blame game shifts….rest assured for that to happen soon too 😃😉…..

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kalapi

This is how I was after the serial'

🤣🤣🤣🤣

The poor girl is right in between the deep deep blue sea and the devil himself'.

It was only the other day someone commented that hopefully Archu's do not go 'my girl can do no wrong"'and I was you just wait and see if I knew this serial well we are in for those words very soon'man the cvs need to make the character believable'we, as mom always try our best to give the best sanskaar possible but at the same time leave a door open so that kids can come and discuss anything with mom if and when needed (and that goes for matters that are not their fault either)..but Cvs protrayal of this dear Mommy...

But rest assure Nirvan, very soon someone from the Desmukh's family and probably Savita will be painted in the worst possible light so that the entire blame game shifts'.rest assured for that to happen soon too 😃😉'..

@ first bold, so true, have to have a loophole figured in there somewhere and leave a crack open for when things don't go according to what we want for them so that they can come to us without losing face.😆
@second bold, hope that happens, real fast. Maybe Ovi will find herself falsely accused and Archana can stick up for her too. Not Savita, as nobody can paint her in any worse light than she actually is in reality (reelity), according to me.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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agree with all of u here but in bits

what i do not understand is, purvi is being blamed for something, whats with the MY SANSKARS CANT DO NO WRONG.

u defend ur daughter, wonderful, if any parent defends their child, i say, awesome.
but the thin line that soapwatcher talked about.. for me the thin line vanished when that dialogue came out of the blue..

and actually the sanskars talks actually made it almost impossible for guilt stricken purvi to act further on her love though she was giving it up even before. which is sad.

purvi ddnt know he is engaged, the loser had selective memory that he FORGOT that he is to be engaged and then he chose the silence as a comfortable excuse at that time (if i see this as a viewer)

its just sad.

how one's duhai of morals can actually make a child so clueless and helpless of what to do.
i feel for purvi.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: nirvanlove

agree with all of u here but in bits

what i do not understand is, purvi is being blamed for something, whats with the MY SANSKARS CANT DO NO WRONG.

u defend ur daughter, wonderful, if any parent defends their child, i say, awesome.
but the thin line that soapwatcher talked about.. for me the thin line vanished when that dialogue came out of the blue..

and actually the sanskars talks actually made it almost impossible for guilt stricken purvi to act further on her love though she was giving it up even before. which is sad.

purvi ddnt know he is engaged, the loser had selective memory that he FORGOT that he is to be engaged and then he chose the silence as a comfortable excuse at that time (if i see this as a viewer)

its just sad.

how one's duhai of morals can actually make a child so clueless and helpless of what to do.
i feel for purvi.

Archana mentioned Sanskaars coz it was Ovi who first said "Jab Parvarish Aisi Hogi, To Sanskaar B Waise Hi Honge"...so Archana's mention of sanskaars was in reply to what Ovi said...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Nirvaan Archu, Purvi and Sulo's sanskars can never do wrong...Useless as CVs will show them high and mighty and Manav & Savita's sanskars are bad...

Laagey raho CVs for the lopsided sanskars...Grrr

Varsha….lopsided story of the sanskari trio indeed🤣…and if I might add – the sanskar comes with unrealistic expectatitons and whoever falls in that so called 'pavitra rishta' will have to pay a heavy price…😃 its the very demand of that Sanskar😉

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kalapi

Nirvaan Archu, Purvi and Sulo's sanskars can never do wrong...Useless as CVs will show them high and mighty and Manav & Savita's sanskars are bad...

Laagey raho CVs for the lopsided sanskars...Grrr

Varsha'.lopsided story of the sanskari trio indeed🤣'and if I might add ' the sanskar comes with unrealistic expectatitons and whoever falls in that so called 'pavitra rishta' will have to pay a heavy price'😃 its the very demand of that Sanskar😉



whenever that happens am gonna die laughing 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@second bold, hope that happens, real fast. Maybe Ovi will find herself falsely accused and Archana can stick up for her too. Not Savita, as nobody can paint her in any worse light than she actually is in reality (reelity), according to me.

Soapwatcher…I am not sure it will be anyone other than Savita…Savita in PR is the convenient scapegoat, perhaps she does her role so convincingly that fetches the high TRPs…Savita's character, although never conceived to be positive, has been and will be the dumping ground of all the ultimate blame with audience dissecting the drama/and her character according to their perspectives….why else, would a negative character turned positive was again turned negative in the first place…so, it will all fall on this character somehow….my guess….

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