In Defense of Arjun - Page 2

Originally posted by: abhimg

Yes, Mannisha, also well said, Arjun had a lot of time in between to tell OVI and kept having obstacles in his way...

so that this day has come and now we should try to understand where he is coming from? Okay will do, but why didn't he tell Ovi in the many hajjjar instances he had...prior to this...

Well-said.

Originally posted by: DaisyLazy

Very well said. Sometimes I feel like to click the like button couple of times.

HE IS A COWARD. THAT'S IT. I don't care why he is acting like that. I just know he is a coward .Today the way he was walking with Ovi that made me way tooo mad. He has become another disappointing character in PR.Spineless like Manav Deshmuskh. The way they presented Manav yesterday was nothing like the Manav they showed earlier in PR. This guy was so scared of Purvi calling him 'baba' like she is his illegitimate child. Give me a break...

What will happen if Arjun tells the truth??? Both the families.. Oops sorry all the three families will get destroyed, ArMan's truth will come out before Teju and Ovi. Manav may hate Purvi too like Archana.

So this is the situation which needs to be handled with utmost care. Its a very very sensitive case.

And how is Purvi not blamed? Why only Arjun is bashed?
Burden of a relationship should be shared equally by both the people. But here only Arjun is burdened. Not Purvi. Infact she doesn't even care to understand Arjun.

And regarding your last point, communication.

Communication will happen if Purvi gives him a chance to talk. But she neither cares to listen to him once nor understands him. Then how will Arjun explain?

I agree that after today's epi it's normal to hate arjun or think of him to be a coward but he, many times, tried telling ovi that he dosen't love her.

if OVI was the so called "Best Friend" she would have realised Arjun's feelings are not mutual, and he would have told her about Purvi

Originally posted by: ...kash...

I agree that after today's epi it's normal to hate arjun or think of him to be a coward but he, many times, tried telling ovi that he dosen't love her.

If you put yourself into his shoes you'll realize taht it would be really hard for you to do so too as you definitely can't break your bff's heart either. Even though we all know that ovi is a selfish, spoil barbie doll but she still is arjun's best friend since childhood, so he being a friend can't break her heart. to top it all ovi mentioned something about Manav and that might have made arjun think about ovis's big sacrifice! (hah!)

In many of these situations people don't think about their own feelings but about others and that is what arjun did.

Anyways i don't think that the cvs have anything creative to show that is why they are dragging the tell it to ovi bit.😃

And I think the cvs are being further confused by those that are asking for a new man for Purvi😕

Agreed canuckofan1 (whats your real name btw if you dont mind? :))...I know you guys are extremely angry at Arjun and rightfully so. But we have to stay true to ARVI and do the best we can to hang in there- I cannot tolerate the idea of moving on to another hero for Purvi. I am among those that would dearly love to punch Ovi in the face everytime she hangs on Arjun, and I cant even stand the sight of her in the SBS segments either (to the actress Shruti- sorry not personal...its your character I cant stand, not you :))

Sorry to say but Arjun is a coward. He 's currently playing with the emotions of 2 innocent girls.
Arjun didn't fall in love with Purvi one fine day, he realized since the mandir scene that something was changing within him
Even though he didn' realize it was love then, but still he felt something for Purvi and it became stronger.
At that time he could have told Ovi that he was not ready for marriagen but he waited and waited. Even after realising that he loved Purvi he waited
When he realized he was in love with Purvi, he tried only once to tell Ovi but in vain, after that he went like a crazy Majnu after Purvi to make her acknowledge her feelings for him.
He should have sorted out Ovi matter first before running behind Purvi. Also he never told Purvi anything abt his promises made back in Canada, he just forgot abt them ???
And now everytime making false promises to Purvi... how long does he think she will be able to take it. Also he should realize the more he'll wait to tell Ovi the more she'll get hurt and that will be worse.
Cause Ovi is already dreaming of a life with Arjun imagine what will happen if tells her later. He had enough time to talk to Ovi but he didn't , so now it's time for him to face the consequences.

And honestly I won't blame Purvi is she doesn't want anything to do with Arjun, who would !

Originally posted by: ...Tich...

What will happen if Arjun tells the truth??? Both the families.. Oops sorry all the three families will get destroyed, ArMan's truth will come out before Teju and Ovi. Manav may hate Purvi too like Archana.

So this is the situation which needs to be handled with utmost care. Its a very very sensitive case.

And how is Purvi not blamed? Why only Arjun is bashed?
Burden of a relationship should be shared equally by both the people. But here only Arjun is burdened. Not Purvi. Infact she doesn't even care to understand Arjun.

And regarding your last point, communication.

Communication will happen if Purvi gives him a chance to talk. But she neither cares to listen to him once nor understands him. Then how will Arjun explain?